MYSPACE INSTRUCTIONS - from 1st message to 1st date (VERY INFORMATIVE)

[DonJuanForever]

Here's the Myspace Plan- DJF

Well guys, ITS VERY SIMPLE.

What's happening is that, unlike a cold approach in person, you are dealing NOT WITH SLVTS, but with chicks WHO WANT TO BE APPROACHED. Guys don't take this the wrong way, but majority of rejection in the "field" comes because some people just don't feel like being approached, period.

It's like in sales, why should I spend my time with a guy who's not interested? Why not just send my message out clearly displaying my value, and the interested ones will contact me? Faster sales cycle, easier sales, more money, less time.

It's market selection. Calling these girls on the internet just "slvts" would be like me calling my clients who are interested "guys with no money."

GUYS....not every girl online is a slvt, that's like saying all chicks in the bar are slvts and all chicks at church are good girls. It's always a mixture. QUITE HONESTLY....if you are attractive, every girl you meet will be a slvt FOR YOU...because you are so damn irrestible (did I spell that right?)

Here's the myspace/internet secret (by the way, I love blackplanet.com, just because I love black chicks, lol, I'm black what do you expect...)

1. Nice pic. Very masculine, cool dress, wanna defiantly have the sexual state going.......create a light message, talkin about some party, make it sexy, say "baby" alot....spam the board.
2. First online convo needs to be light and fun oriented, about 12 minutes of talking about a recent party, a upcomin party, or some type of fun thing that you both like to do....say you gotta go, tell her to call you at such and such time(it's what I do), or get her number and call her....
3. On the phone, when she calls the first time, I usually tell her I am busy and to call me back....on the second call, you talk in a cool, low tone of voice, talkin about her and getting to know her...but it's your sexual tone and flow behind it that makes this call very sexy....end it in 12 minutes, tell her you'll call her back, but don't.
Wait about 2 days, call back, go back into flow, call her back later that night and phone sex her for about a good 30 minutes, after the phone sex, you both argee to meet in person to fvck.
4. You fvck.
5. And now, depending on how you like her, continue to just fvck, or go into some sort of relationship.


If you notice in the 1-5, the personal information about you doesn't come up yet, lol, it's not supposed to. That's relationship, dating type of stuff.....you and the girl are no way SERIOUS ABOUT ANYTHING at this point...it's all about sexual state and sexual flow... After you fvcked, now you too become friends and an actual relationship can "build."

Most guys do it the other way around, that's way they get burned.

DJF

 

[DonJuanForever]

Also, you say Myspace and meeting chicks from online will be old at 35, NO, EVERYBODY WILL BE DOIN IT AT 35. Each day technology is getting bigger and bigger, there's virtual offices now, soon you'll work a regular office job like skip does but it'll be from home, with your boss staring at your azz from a computer screen, oh yeah, it's coming.....

 

[KillaCam]

killa cam - u cant even hit up clubs or bars yet, thus myspace is the perfect replacement for that!

also, once again, myspace is just another way to get #.......from there its all EXACTLY THE SAME when it comes to bustin game, with the only only differnece being that girls could flake due to "not meeting people online"

but that kinda flaking is just as frequent as regular flaking........

Flaking is flaking, totally agree there.

Heh, over here in New Zealand, it's incredibly lax getting into pubs and clubs. Age limit of 18 is almost a general rule of thumb by bouncers. My fake ID is horribly shoddy, but it works.

Lesson of the day. If you want to go clubbing underage, come to New Zealand

The ladies are fine too.

 

[KillaCam]

Also, you say Myspace and meeting chicks from online will be old at 35, NO, EVERYBODY WILL BE DOIN IT AT 35. Each day technology is getting bigger and bigger, there's virtual offices now, soon you'll work a regular office job like skip does but it'll be from home, with your boss staring at your azz from a computer screen, oh yeah, it's coming.....

You need to speak in more specific timeframes. I know someone who is turning 35 in a week, will everyone suddenly be on MySpace then? Are you talking 6 months time? 2 years? 20 years?

Nothing will ever replace face to face sarging. That's where a DJ gets challenges from. MySpace is a fine supplement, but it should never become your crutch.

I'll talk to you in..18 years time. I'll be 35 then.

 

[DonJuanForever]

Yea killa, in my case I mean 12 years, just turned 23.

You say,

"Nothing will ever replace face to face sarging."

Of course not buddy! You can't fvck the screen pal, you have to have some sort of don juan game on the phone and in person to fvck her, she's not a hooker.

You also said,

"That's where a DJ gets challenges from(in the field.) MySpace is a fine supplement, but it should never become your crutch."

You guys are confusing myspace for internet porn. The challenge is over, the challenge was CHANGING YOURSELF, embracing your sexuality, becoming a man. Getting laid should no longer be like participating in American Gladiators.

If you can "game" chicks in the field....you can "game" more online, WHY? Because majority of the rejection and hangups we get in the field, is because we ARE APPROACHING GIRLS WHO DON'T WANNA BE APPROACHED.

1. Not every girl in the library wants to be hit on, you could just be a nuisance?
2. That SAME GIRL....in the library, 80% of the time HAS a myspace account, if she is interested after you spammed her with your message, why wouldn't she just respond to you?

Buddy I'm not a veteran, but I've been successful in sales to know, the reason why all the sales guys have to spend so much time in the "field" is because they are presenting and calling people WHO DON'T WANNA BE CALLED. Stupid, waste your life away.

And guys on here who approach women all over the place, why? About 75% of women HATE BEING APPROACHED, it's irriating (did I spell that right, lol)

Again, you guys are confusing myspace for internet porn.

 

[KillaCam]

we ARE APPROACHING GIRLS WHO DON'T WANNA BE APPROACHED.

That's the challenge I discussed. They don't want to be approached, but we do it anyway. And guts of the challenge is winning over a girl who otherwise may not have wanted it.

It's human nature to want a challenge. Like you said, getting laid is the easy bit, but I don't want just to get laid, I want the best god damn lay every time.

A lot of the beef with MySpace is it's insincerity. You think you're talking to a stunner, but you can be talking to a hairy old guy. When you approach someone, in terms of physicality at least, you know what you're looking at.

In face to face, there is hardly a chance to disguise what you are. You don't have hours to think of a response. It's cold, it's tough, it's on the spot, and it's a bloody lot of fun.

MySpace gets results after bulk attempts, I will never argue that. It's the quality of the method that some people have a problem with. I want to see a hot girl with my own 2 eyes, cold approach, then notch her on my bedpost by any means. I don't however, want to see a picture of a girl, make a move, wait for her excuses, win her over, then find out she ain't nearly as gorgeous as she pretends. Must have been the lighting on the only photo she had.

Nevertheless, if it works for you, then who am I to stand in your way

 

[DonJuanForever]

Killa excellent reply bro.

What I'm saying is that THE CHALLENGE, you are talking about is the problem.
There's a reason for the struggle....SHE DOESN'T WANT YOU TALKIN TO HER.

That same chick........that same chick Killa, I could game her at a "better time."

I know when I'm in the gym, I fvckin hate when people come up and start talkin to me for EVER, because I am trying to focus on my workout....do you guys even consider the fact that you could just be a nuisance?

Killa, I'm not talkin about the challenge of getting her interested in you to fvck....I'm not talkin about that. I'm talkin about being a nuisance, I mean....meeting her at a better time, or at least in a better way so it's not an obvious approach.

I'll explain more later.

 

[KillaCam]

Aha, maybe you're twisting my arm into giving MySpace a better chance

You bring up some real valid points dude, thumbs up for that

Good on ya.

 

[skip2mylou781]

killacam, just as backup for myspace people being REAL.....ive met probably upwards of 40 girls from myspace and none of them were fat hairy guys! lol..........DUDE - the way u can tell the girl is real and is using her own pics and ISNT a big fat hairy guy is simple - look at the comments people leave her, if it looks like people there r real friends and they r saying shyt like "heyy nice seein u last nite" or "i misss u, when am i gonna see u again?", then u kno that person is real

kno wat i mean?

BY THE WAY, im going to post a couple examples of all this shyt im preaching, im talkin REAL examples, cuz i got 4 numbers yesterday using a very good convo structure, look for itttttt

 

[Inc. ©]

yo skip, you should hit up craigslist. It will give you some variety, you can go out with more girls 20+, even some in their 30s if you want. Its easy too. Same strategy, just spam the w4m ads (casual encounters doesn't work well at all, but just go into the dating category). Here's a tip...use BCC so you can e-mail all the women at once. They will never notice you e-mailed so many women. Attach a pic on the first e-mail.

 

[skip2mylou781]

wont the women im bcc'ing wonder why they arent the main person emailed? or better yet, tell me how bcc'ing works if i get anm email im bcc'ed on?

 

[Inc. ©]

wont the women im bcc'ing wonder why they arent the main person emailed? or better yet, tell me how bcc'ing works if i get anm email im bcc'ed on?

They never notice because craigslist anonymizes the e-mail. So you are sending to pers-4613246436@craigslist.org

nobody remembers their ID number!

 

[Bonhomme]

3) write the following "spam" message (will work on girls 14-21) - "hey whats your sn? your so beautiful baby " and send it to 100 girls.

If you send that message, you won't get many replies from smart girls (who notice things like "your" where "you're" should be).

But for some reason very few women can spell "definitely." For some reason,a vast majority spell it: "definately." Even those who are obviously very bright. Never been able to figure that one out.

 

[sparky0000]

"hey whats your sn? your so beautiful baby " and send it to 100 girls.

Translation...Please .

35 year olds on MYSPACE are a little creepy? Not as creepy as living in countries where males have to resort to the Internet to get dates with fat females.

 

[sparky0000]

C'mon, boys...Don't hijack Skippy's thread.

BTW, I am sure Skippy enjoys the fine selection at blackplanet.com as well.

I bet as I type this Skippy is bedding some fine hb15 that he met online. My hero

 

[skip2mylou781]

If you send that message, you won't get many replies from smart girls (who notice things like "your" where "you're" should be).

But for some reason very few women can spell "definitely." For some reason,a vast majority spell it: "definately." Even those who are obviously very bright. Never been able to figure that one out.

ur a total retard....last things the best looking girls care about is EXACT SPELLING....****in geek

 

[Bonhomme]

Let's see. Correct the spelling and get better results, or childish name-calling? Can't make your choice for you ...

 

[skip2mylou781]

geeks who over analyze spelling is exactly the kinda guys girls arent attracted to!......its called "be laid back" as opposed to "having a stick up ur azz".........welcome to the internet, spelling here isnt as important as typign speed.......no one cares about typos due to typing fast

 

[Bonhomme]

OK, Skip. I could have worded the comment much better, rather than coming across as an azzhole myself. Not very DJ of me, or productive. Aside from the spelling glitch, it looks like a good approach for a young and good-looking guy.

I'm just an older geezer who somehow manages to attract women who are 15 years younger and way better looking than he is. Take my suggestions or leave them.

 

[Bonhomme]

If you notice in the 1-5, the personal information about you doesn't come up yet, lol, it's not supposed to. That's relationship, dating type of stuff.....you and the girl are no way SERIOUS ABOUT ANYTHING at this point...it's all about sexual state and sexual flow... After you fvcked, now you too become friends and an actual relationship can "build."

Most guys do it the other way around, that's way they get burned

Direct hit, DJF. The personal info gets into "laundry list" territory that gives the gals reasons not to like you, rather than to like you. Young guys shouldn't bother with dating sites at all: places like Myspace are better. Perhaps even us older folks shouldn't bother with dating sites, but women seem to drop off the face of the earth soon after they hit 30.

Do girls want to get spammed any more than they want to get approached? Perhaps its just a numbers game, and the volume makes up for the percentages.

And guys on here who approach women all over the place, why? About 75% of women HATE BEING APPROACHED

That's why the focus should be on attracting, rather than approaching. Attract them, and they'll let you know they want to play, if they don't out-and-out hit on you.

Same goes for online. Good pics, brief, witty profile. Only positive personal info. Attract.