Very long time no update! The reason for this is that I'm really busy with all kinds of stuff. The other reason is that I find stuff stuff that I used to report like random conversations/flirting, isn't that interesting to report anymore, because I do it all the time. Last night I had a great night. Finally with some actual results.
I went to a city I hadn't visited before with a friend. We went to a few bars.
Bar #1:
Girls #1 and #2
We drank some beers, and a few feet away from us was this blonde girl. She looked hot. She was talking to some guy, but I could tell from a distance that he didn't play it right. He was talking to her with his arms crossed, and standing like a mile away from her. We made eye contact a couple of times and I made a funny face and she laughed. Ten minutes later, I walked in, interrupted the conversation she was having, and started a chat. She told me she was from England. We talked a bit, it was nice. I told her we were doing some bar-hopping, and said we'll be back in an hour or so, because this bar was cool, but it was pretty much empty. She said she still would be here in an hour. As we left, we exchanged names, as I shook her hand I held it just a little longer than needed and tickled her hand with my finger just before I let go. A pretty cool move I thought. She also had this fat friend, possible c*ckblocker. I chatted her up pretty good too, I felt like I was balancing it nicely and she seemed to be OK with it.
Bar 2:
Girls #3, #4, and #5
Crowded place, a beer cafe. It was cool. Not many girls in there, but there was one group of hot ones. I approached them and started talking. There were 3 of them, which made it hard to focus on the hot blonde one. She was a pretty, innocent looking girl, but she also had this freakyness about her that I found really hot. I noticed she had a tongue ring. We talked a bit and I don't know how it happened but we ended up talking about mushroom trips. Great subject to talk about if you both have done it some times. Lots of kino back and forth. The place was really getting too crowded and I was also still thinking about the prospect in bar 1. Just as we were about to leave I asked her her number and just at that moment her phone rang and she aswered it immediately (her phone really rang, it was not some BS story). This created a little weird moment, and I proceeded to talk to her friends. Again, throughout the conversation I jumped back and forth between them good enough for them to not get in my way or pull her away. When she was done talking I told her to give me her number, but she said she had a boyfriend. I wasn't into it enough yet at this point to be a bit more persistent, but it was still cool. I was approaching every set I wanted.
Bar #1 revisited:
Girls #1 and #2
We went back and yes, there they still were. I picked up the conversation right where we parted ways. At one point I was pretty much standing against her and talking to her while constantly looking her aggressively in the eyes like I was saying "I wanna f*ck the sh*t out of you". I could sense she bought into it too from the look in her eyes, that porno-look. Big pupils, constantly licking her lips and playing with her hair. Then, at one point, she sort of snapped out of it. She said "she had to get back to her drink". I didn't understand at first and asked her if she was "telling me to f*ck off'". She said no, not really, but she had a boyfriend and she was living with him. I guess I believed her, because her fatty friend told me earlier in the conversation she was living together. I was still happy, I seemed to turn her on.
Bar #3
Girls #6-probably#20
On the way to bar #3 I took a p*ss on the street right at the moment some cops walked by. They gave me a big fine and I started to talk sh*t and insults to them. I stopped this when they threatened with a night in the drunk tank. Still, it made me furious.
Standing in line of this club-type bar I was still pumped up and mad. I felt like breaking something or punching someone. I noticed people actually getting out of my way just by the vibe I was giving off. Once I realized this, this was funny to me, and it made it clear to me how much effect body language has. Just by the look on my face and the way I walked, people were now avoiding me. Thinking about this, it again made it clear to me that you can really almost 'take control' of others. I got over my anger and drank a beer.
I had promised myself that I wouldn't get wasted tonight, because I wanted to seriously work on approaching girls. And man, approaching I did. I pulled girls left and right off the dancefloor and got really sexual with them in the interactions. I experimented with pulling girls away from their friends, and leading the conversation. I lost count at how many approaches I did, but I just kept doing it over and over and over. I never did this before like this.
At one point there was this girl who I got really close with. I pulled her away from a group of 4, which was quite an achievement for me. I went in for the kiss twice but she told me she had a boyfriend (I was getting tired of that sh*t). "Are you planning on marrying this guy?", was my question. When she said "I'm in love, he's my everything, rainbows & sh*t etc, so at this point yes", I told her I didn't believe her. This went back and forth for a long time. I told her that I knew she wanted to kiss me just as bad as I wanted to kiss her. She kept telling me she had a boyfriend and every time I went in for the kiss she turned away. I told her "If you don't like what I'm doing, you should had walked away ten minutes ago", on which she answered that she liked me and she didn't want to go away. I kept being aggressive. I had my arms around her waist, puling her against me (or lets say, her crotch against my d*ck) but she just stayed strong. At one point I got tired of it and accepted the fact that not every girl will kiss other guys while she has a boyfriend. This was a great learning moment for me though.
At one point I opened another group. We talked a bit, and I extracted one girl from the group. She had an OK face, but a killer body. Especially a very nice ass. We talked and I was really all over her with the touching as well. She responded to this, which was nice. She told me she was nineteen and had never kissed someone. I told her that's okay, and I got my first kiss at 19 as well (this is true). She was kinda scared of it, and kept saying that she wanted to exchange numbers instead. We were standing at the entrance where it was pretty light, and I realized my mistake. There were lots of people that would see us here. I had the previous girl here too, and I took her here "because the music's too loud in the dance hall". So at one point I just said: "Come on, come here". I took her hand and just pulled her into the club area. I took her into a corner and kissed her. I didn't knew what was happening. This chick tried to eat my face! It took a few tries and she was embarrassed, but I made her comfortable. She told me I was sweet. At one point she got the trick and we had some good kissing going on. I ran my hands through her hair, up and down her back, grabbing that great ass, pulling her body (breasts) against mine etc. She put her hand on my chest and grinded a little. It was very hot. We were making out for fifteen minutes straight. At some point some clown-ass black dude came standing next to us and imitating the kissing. I pulled my mouth off of hers and just said to her "**** that guy" and turned 45 degrees and went on for another ten minutes till the houselights came on. The joint was closing.
We walked out, she wanted to hold my arm the whole time. My buddy and her friends were walking behind us as we all were walking towards the train station. We walked like thirty feet in front of them and every now and then I pulled her into some storefront or alley and made out for a few seconds. She found this funny and it was nice.
We parted ways at the station. We exchanged numbers but I'm not sure if I want to hang out again. Maybe, who knows. I didn't really got to know her, but this was pretty hot.
Bottom line
Seems like all the hard work is finally paying off! This is the first time in my life I actually made out with a girl I met at a bar/club. I'm on to something here. Approaching went so easy, so naturally. I could build a lot of sexual tension too. This is the start of something great, I can feel it!
I'll keep you guys updated, hopefully a little more often than this.
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