My girlfriend chose Facebook over me.

[loveshogun]

Well, I guess if you were "SmartBoyAJ" you wouldn't be having these problems.

Go ahead. Keep ignoring our advice.

 

[Tiguere]

so what do you guys think of the al-Gaddafi situation in LIBYA? i heard the USA is planning on imposing a no fly zone in that country. do you guys think the USA has a right to impose a NI FLY ZONE in a foreign country?

 

[TizZle]

AJ. You are weak right now. She knows she still has power over you. It's time to become strong.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Pettyboy AFCJ. Nuff said.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

I keep thinking. Maybe it's my fault for all the arguing so I give in. But I realize that it's not my fault for the arguing. But it is my fault for putting up with that bullsh!t.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Heres another update

I hadn't called her all day because I'm about done with the relationship after what happened last. She calls me and is mad because I hadn't called her all day...... What the fuck??? girls these days.

 

[bertstayr]

This is extremely hard. I had to give her some of her things back that I had so I did yesterday. Then after we talked it was like we resolved everything and that everything was good. So it seems like everything was resolved and she was apologetic.

So today she calls me and then I answer the phone. She asks me why I am frustrated.... I tell her I'm writing a paper..

as soon as I say that she hangs the phone up on me. So I call her back 3x and she ignores the call (Rings 2x then goes to voicemail = declined)

I text her like wow... this is why we argue so much. Then she calls me back like 10 minutes later when I'm pissed as hell that she ignored my calls and hung up the phone on me. She said she was doing me a favor by hanging up the phone on me so I could work on my paper. I call her out on that bullsh!t and ask her why does she like to piss me off all the time. Then we start to argue and then we get off the phone.

An hour later she texts me and says she apologizes for making me mad. I didn't respond because I was pissed that this girl made me so upset I broke a piece of my phone off by throwing it.

A couple minutes she calls me and I was like hey...... I'm pissed because I broke a piece of my phone. Now I need to go to the store tommorow and buy a new damn 300$ phone or see if I have warranty on this phone. We start to talk about it and I was like can I get an apology in words.... Then she said she is not apologizing and that she already apologized.... Another argument........ Ended up with me completely destroying my phone because I threw it again...... She ends the conversation yelling and calling me a dipsh!t.....

I call back and she ignores every single one of them. Left her a nice voicemail though.

That's just an update guys. I thought everything could be worked out but right back where i was last week........

WTF, how can you not see how retarded and AFC you are? I registered just to tell you how bad your post was.

So what if she hangs up, WORK on your paper like you said you were going to! You sound like a massive chump calling her back so many times and then getting angry. Not even going to start on you throwing your phone because you were unable to control your emotions. You're a man - not a woman..

Please stop this obviously AFC and insecure behaviour.

And please, break up with this stupid girl who already has displayed extreme disrespect and has a million red flags.

 

[Pierce]

Remember, a million girls out there. No girl is worth stressing this much. This is dysfunctional. GET OUT GET OUT.

 

[TheManOfSteel]

Good lord, I can't believe this thread is still going. This girl, AND you by the way appear addicted to all this drama. You should have ignored this breezy a long time ago.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

I made a huge mistake. The problem doesn't lie in what is happening now. The problem lies in what I allowed to happen in the begginning of the relationship and it's biting me in the ass now. It's obvious this girls morals and views on relationship is very different.

I was like a little kid who loves her doll so much that no matter what happened she would cling to him. This girl treats me better now then she has done in the past but at the same time it's still not very good. It's obvious what I should have done in the past. I shouldn't be on a forum asking for advise with a gf. Good chances are she's not the one for me if I am.

I have been putting up with this way too far. Matter of fact I shouldn't even have gotten in a relationship with her until she fit my standards.. Sad part is even my parents told me to dump her and I don't even tell my parents what she has done to me. This girl is trash and I will finally end this hell for my life. I've decided that I am going to date quality girls from now on and to always keep my dignity.

This will be the best decision that I have ever made in my life. Noone is to blame towards this fail relationship is me. For putting up with all the bullsh!t. I shouldn't change a sh!tty girl into a quality girl. I just need to find a quality girl.

 

[NoCommitments]

Heres another update

I hadn't called her all day because I'm about done with the relationship after what happened last. She calls me and is mad because I hadn't called her all day...... What the fuck??? girls these days.

What have I missed??? HOLY SH*TE!!!!!!

IM GONNA BE HARSH!!! YOU ARE AN A$$HOLE!!!

Question: when you fail a test in a certain subject what do u do?
Answer: You find the correct answers, memorize them, then apply them!

You are FAILING every fu*kin sh1t test this c*nt throws at you!!!

She asks "Why are you frustrated?' ... you never show that she's getting to u! EVER!!!
You're breaking phones!?
She calls you a dipsh*t, so u punish her by calling numerous times. & when she ignores your calls, you leave her a 'nice' message! awwww what a guy

Then when I see you're finally acting like a MAN by ignoring her, what do you do? You answer the phone & Again allow her to get to you

This is gonna end with you being the dumpee!

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

I made a huge mistake. The problem doesn't lie in what is happening now. The problem lies in what I allowed to happen in the begginning of the relationship and it's biting me in the ass now. It's obvious this girls morals and views on relationship is very different.

I was like a little kid who loves her doll so much that no matter what happened she would cling to him. This girl treats me better now then she has done in the past but at the same time it's still not very good. It's obvious what I should have done in the past. I shouldn't be on a forum asking for advise with a gf. Good chances are she's not the one for me if I am.

I have been putting up with this way too far. Matter of fact I shouldn't even have gotten in a relationship with her until she fit my standards.. Sad part is even my parents told me to dump her and I don't even tell my parents what she has done to me. This girl is trash and I will finally end this hell for my life. I've decided that I am going to date quality girls from now on and to always keep my dignity.

This will be the best decision that I have ever made in my life. Noone is to blame towards this fail relationship is me. For putting up with all the bullsh!t. I shouldn't change a sh!tty girl into a quality girl. I just need to find a quality girl.

Read.

 

[Bling]

tl;dr.

Cliffs? Going to assume you did the man thing and broke up with her.

 

[NoCommitments]

Read.

That's all fine bro but your updates reflect a boy that seems needy & scared.

When a girl tests you like this 2 things are happening in her mind:
1. She's losing interest & making it exciting for herself
2. She's weeding out who she does & doesn't wanna be with by seeing who passes her tests

She has already told you that you're not the same guy that she fell in love with so its obvious that she has already formulated an escape plan

All I'm tryin to do is give you advice geared toward you either not losing her OR being the dumper! Cause it sux bein the dumpee. I knw from experience!

GOOD LUCK

 

[Lord Sidious]

Dude, act LIKE A MAN! Dump her once and for all!

That´s not because of FB. She has the right to have her Facebook (as long she doesn´t harm the relationship being there all the time, giving little or no time to you).

I´m sorry to tell you this, but it seems to me (from what I read) that the problem of you relationship it´s YOU. She only does what YOU allow her to do. When a chick cheats on a guy, that means only one thing: kick girl´s ASS and move away!!!

Besides, she´s the dominant part of the relationship, and we also know what that means. When a guy shows himself insecure and behaves with all the things that comes from that, the chances of being cheated increase a lot. As simple as that. So, do what you got to do to improve yourself on that department.

Bro, make youself a big favor and dump her right away! Dude, there are too many women out there. Dump her! Period.

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

So I don't know what the rules are here, but are we allowed to start ignoring this guy now?

It's quite obvious that he has no desire to help himself. And he just wants to continue posting his soap opera bulls*** here for the sake of getting attention. What is left to say?

Some people are just born to be b*tches. This guy is one of them.

Hey, the world needs ****roaches too. We can't all be high-quality, ambitious people.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

That was harsh MT. I decided that you guys plans are what is best for me and I've decided to stop ignoring the advice. So I'll probably be doing the boot camp soon or something as the nature. I really can't love someone that I kind of hate though.

 

[Masculinity]

This thread is pointless. The girl is a psycho and wants to get attention at any price. She thrives in getting attention from you. When you were writing your paper and then she hung up on you, she felt rejected. This is a really insecure girl. She got some of what she wanted when you called her three times and you gave her attention. You gave her power and she loves that. Don't want to be redundant, but this is a VERY insecure human being.

Despite all our advice, you keep going back to her. Ahhh...that pvssy must be really tight, but even if that's the reason it doesn't justify or even out with this psycho behavior. I agree with one of the guys. If you were smart, you would have already dumped this chick or taken control of the situation by not letting her 5-year-old tantrums affect you (phones can be expensive!).

Also, you need to get a grasp on your anger or you're going to end up dong something nasty. This is the anger that drives men to hit women. In this case, she is a complete nut job, but don't lose your cool or you might end up doing something you'll regret when you're taking up the a$$ in jail for having struck her. Talk to yourself and ask yourself why you get upset. There is so many desirable women out there. I seriously don't understand why you keep up with this.

Bottom line: I don't recommend this, but since you aren't listening here you go: if you like her then you're going to have to learn how to ignore that side of her. Don't get ideas that you're going to fix her & then you're going to live happily ever after in wonderland. This is exactly what women with abusive boyfriends think. Everyone sees what's going on except her and this is the same thing with you.

Give her an ultimatum & if she doesn't keep her side then stick a tampon-sized rocket inside her & let her fly to Pluto.

We cannot help you any further if you don't follow the advice here.

----------------END OF THREAD--------------------

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

I get sex like 2x a month. ***** is really irrelevant. I do have an option of ignoring this side of her but that would be stupid since there is one girl in this world that I wouldn't have to ignore any part of it. I decided I need to break up with her and get all her things out my apartment. This has been the most stressfull time in my life and I'm done with it. If I had followed you guy's advice when I first made this thread I'd be a happy camper now. Not miserabl.e

 

[walter1995]

fight becouse of facebook

me and my gf ....seens we are gf n bf ...all most to 2 years ..and yesteday ...nuthing happen like this tht i was not important for her but facebook was more important ..... but still i love her .....i cant understand wat to do .....if anyone can help me plz plz do it .....for me ... reply or comment
.........I LOVE YOU ......MY JAAAN ..............................I CANT STAY WITHOUT YOU ................