I have seen moderators post on here the past few days, and they have every chance to lock this thread (but they haven't because there is a bigger point here), because you are right 2crudedudes, anything that I say about MY situation with that chick has already been said at least 5 times, and I am not about to keep replying to every new pvssy who misinterprets the situation that is being discussed by stupidly chiming in "ewww you jerked off in front of a girl you are creepy!!"
I know what I am - I am ultra sexually experienced, and something LIKE THIS means nothing to me......that girl means nothing to me, and that date means nothing to me. The only thing that meant something to me was finding someone to go see a movie with, and getting my nut off in the best way possible.......I was totally rejected, that's great, but like a player I pushed and pushed and at least got a very hot jerk-off session with the girl participating - END OF STORY ON THAT.
Now, onto the bigger point, and please, all the haters, forget about ME for a second.
The bigger point is - Way too many guys these days are afraid of offending women by being sexual. They are afraid of even trying escalation, no matter what kind of escalation that may be.
How many damn threads about coffee dates that end with nothing do I have to read on this site??? Simply put, many guys on this site just DO NOT GET sexuality.....they think it is linear, they think there is a set of rules about how things happen, and all of that is based on THEORY and not EXPERIENCE. Any experienced guy can tell you that when you hang out with a chick, there are many many many ways to take advantage of her for your own benefit.
Yes, take advantage, because the LAST thing you want to happen is the opposite of that - being taken advantage of. Being respectful to women that you barely know will get you NOWHERE, and the attitude that WILL get you somewhere is one similar to mine - do not give a fvck, try and do crazy things (like the jerkoff thing I did), give her no regard for her feelings at all. The only thing you should ever care about with women is if you are having sex with one, make sure she LOVES it - that will get her addicted to you and keep her coming back for more and more for a long time (as long as you keep sexually pleasing her).
Being afraid of women is the BIGGEST problem most guys who have women issues on this forum have.
I was not afraid of SHYT.
And let me repeat to you up and coming don juans - the words creepy, douche, and tool WERE INVENTED BY BITTER WOMEN AND PERFECTED BY BITTER CHUMPS, as a way to scare guys who try to be sexually successful with as many women as possible.
I had a female aquaintance call a guy creepy because he invited her over to his place to hang out at his pool and jacuzzi - THAT WAS CREEPY??? YOU KIDDING ME
What exactly does that feminized word "creepy" even mean?
Too sexual? NO,
Too pushy? NO,
Too unaccepted by inexperienced people of the world? Yes!
Where do men get off calling other men CREEPY?? That's a word that is supposed to describe a haunted house in a scary story over the campfire, and pvssies + bitter bytches decided to BASH MEN WHO ARE SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN by calling them creepy...........fvck anyone and everyone who ever calls another man creepy - FVCK YOU ALL!
Success comes at a price.