monkey branch timeline

[Vanderdonck]

FWIW here's a sample timeline.

1st month. She starts mentioning some guy more often. This is to hide him in plain sight. Why would she mention him if she were going to fukk him?

2nd month. Ups the excuses to not be reachable or not make plans. Sex diminishes. Her phone lights up more with messages. I remember messages being from a girl ostensibly, but that was just how she saved his #.

3rd month. If she's got a branch in both hands (no, not a 3some) then she'll make a play to try to blow up the relationship. This will involve blaming you for a bunch of stupid shyt, getting you angry and then naturally ending it. Or she'll confess but say it was your fault, again, to anger you and prove her point.

Aftermath. The guy will reject him (why would he date a cheater) or he'll take her or it'll fizzle out. She will try to come back to you. It's gotta be a hard pass - if you're even reachable at this point.

Now, none of this is manageable. This isn't a game of chess. This is a woman who made up her mind. She's for the streets. We can be played for fools but doesn't mean we have to stick around.

 

[jhonny9546]

many more subtle seemingly small ways a woman can do this.

And this is an interesting point! I'm pretty sure you can teach things we still haven't known yet.

FWIW here's a sample timeline.
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You explained it in the simplest way possible. I've seen my sister do that with other men, and also a married female friend who was interested in me did the same thing.

She argued with her BF, blaming him for not being present.
But then, when she saw that I didn't want her as a married woman with children, she backtracked, saying that "his BF made her think that she was actually the one who had doubts about their relationship, and so, not him" so she took the blame and moved on.

And what did they do to "give each other" love again and "repair" the LTR?
Another child! She was pregnant right after this **** happened!!! Hahahaha!

And this women had been forgiven by this same man in the past for having cheated.

This is so clear to my eyes, but his BF still can't see the thing..

She is in this relationship waiting for the next thing she can jump on. But now she's more smart than before: She doesn't have to leave him. She found the perfect prey. She can keep him for her "Public Image" of an happy family, but live a second secret life with other men lovers

 

[jhonny9546]

FWIW here's a sample timeline.
...

You explained it in the simplest way possible. I've seen my sister do that with other men, and a married friend who was interested in me did the same thing! (And to think this woman had cheated in the past and was forgiven)

 

[Lotus Effect]

So either You are failing at getting your own sh11t togheter or either failing at analyzing the situation logically (you can still work hard, but she could still have no real 100% genuine interest in you). In the 2nd scenario it's not your fault.

Pro tip: It is always your fault. Everything. Every time.

The minute you learn that, is the minute you start moving forward with your life.

OBS: I'm not talking about this particular case or scenario. I'm talking about every single fvcking thing in your entire life.

 

[Solomon]

FWIW here's a sample timeline.

1st month. She starts mentioning some guy more often. This is to hide him in plain sight. Why would she mention him if she were going to fukk him?

2nd month. Ups the excuses to not be reachable or not make plans. Sex diminishes. Her phone lights up more with messages. I remember messages being from a girl ostensibly, but that was just how she saved his #.

3rd month. If she's got a branch in both hands (no, not a 3some) then she'll make a play to try to blow up the relationship. This will involve blaming you for a bunch of stupid shyt, getting you angry and then naturally ending it. Or she'll confess but say it was your fault, again, to anger you and prove her point.

Aftermath. The guy will reject him (why would he date a cheater) or he'll take her or it'll fizzle out. She will try to come back to you. It's gotta be a hard pass - if you're even reachable at this point.

Now, none of this is manageable. This isn't a game of chess. This is a woman who made up her mind. She's for the streets. We can be played for fools but doesn't mean we have to stick around.

This is how it happens, had a buddy whose girlfriend did the exact thing but with a co-worker. One day she came home from the bar complaining about "boys playing stupid games" my buddy was a pretty blue pill guy he didn't pick up on it. She started doing "happy hour" more with co-workers coming home late. My buddy was miserable trying to leave cause she is an insufferable lady who nags about everything. It got so bad he was the one who didn't wanna have sex with her. This chick really broke my buddies spirit and he was looking for an escape plan. Once it was over. He started watching Redpill stuff on youtube (I didn't tell him he found it on his own). Lost a bunch of weight. Started making a 100K plus a year and went on a tare on the dating apps for 2 years.

He now has a girlfriend and is a completely different guy from 3 years ago but in a positive way. More assertive, less docile and also motivated and focus on his own interests Funny thing all the things he is doing now with women I was trying to tell him a decade and half ago. However he needed to go through that one chick to finally wake up

 

[jhonny9546]

However he needed to go through that one chick to finally wake up

Experience is the hardest kind of teacher. First it tests you, then it teaches you.

It happened the same with me, but also watching other relationships helped a bit. I'd say 50/50

 

[Travel memoir21]

And this is an interesting point! I'm pretty sure you can teach things we still haven't known yet.




You explained it in the simplest way possible. I've seen my sister do that with other men, and also a married female friend who was interested in me did the same thing.

She argued with her BF, blaming him for not being present.
But then, when she saw that I didn't want her as a married woman with children, she backtracked, saying that "his BF made her think that she was actually the one who had doubts about their relationship, and so, not him" so she took the blame and moved on.

And what did they do to "give each other" love again and "repair" the LTR?
Another child! She was pregnant right after this **** happened!!! Hahahaha!

And this women had been forgiven by this same man in the past for having cheated.

This is so clear to my eyes, but his BF still can't see the thing..

She is in this relationship waiting for the next thing she can jump on. But now she's more smart than before: She doesn't have to leave him. She found the perfect prey. She can keep him for her "Public Image" of an happy family, but live a second secret life with other men lovers

Damn…honestly did this experience, made it harder for you to trust women?

 

[jhonny9546]

Damn…honestly did this experience, made it harder for you to trust women?

Let's say easier to read what they're doing and more prone to see red flags in advance, or rather, stop the thing when the red flag appear. It's not easy tho.