Vanderdonck
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 12, 2024
- Messages
- 374
- Reaction score
- 297
- Age
- 48
FWIW here's a sample timeline.
1st month. She starts mentioning some guy more often. This is to hide him in plain sight. Why would she mention him if she were going to fukk him?
2nd month. Ups the excuses to not be reachable or not make plans. Sex diminishes. Her phone lights up more with messages. I remember messages being from a girl ostensibly, but that was just how she saved his #.
3rd month. If she's got a branch in both hands (no, not a 3some) then she'll make a play to try to blow up the relationship. This will involve blaming you for a bunch of stupid shyt, getting you angry and then naturally ending it. Or she'll confess but say it was your fault, again, to anger you and prove her point.
Aftermath. The guy will reject him (why would he date a cheater) or he'll take her or it'll fizzle out. She will try to come back to you. It's gotta be a hard pass - if you're even reachable at this point.
Now, none of this is manageable. This isn't a game of chess. This is a woman who made up her mind. She's for the streets. We can be played for fools but doesn't mean we have to stick around.
1st month. She starts mentioning some guy more often. This is to hide him in plain sight. Why would she mention him if she were going to fukk him?
2nd month. Ups the excuses to not be reachable or not make plans. Sex diminishes. Her phone lights up more with messages. I remember messages being from a girl ostensibly, but that was just how she saved his #.
3rd month. If she's got a branch in both hands (no, not a 3some) then she'll make a play to try to blow up the relationship. This will involve blaming you for a bunch of stupid shyt, getting you angry and then naturally ending it. Or she'll confess but say it was your fault, again, to anger you and prove her point.
Aftermath. The guy will reject him (why would he date a cheater) or he'll take her or it'll fizzle out. She will try to come back to you. It's gotta be a hard pass - if you're even reachable at this point.
Now, none of this is manageable. This isn't a game of chess. This is a woman who made up her mind. She's for the streets. We can be played for fools but doesn't mean we have to stick around.