monkey branch timeline

[Vanderdonck]

FWIW here's a sample timeline.

1st month. She starts mentioning some guy more often. This is to hide him in plain sight. Why would she mention him if she were going to fukk him?

2nd month. Ups the excuses to not be reachable or not make plans. Sex diminishes. Her phone lights up more with messages. I remember messages being from a girl ostensibly, but that was just how she saved his #.

3rd month. If she's got a branch in both hands (no, not a 3some) then she'll make a play to try to blow up the relationship. This will involve blaming you for a bunch of stupid shyt, getting you angry and then naturally ending it. Or she'll confess but say it was your fault, again, to anger you and prove her point.

Aftermath. The guy will reject him (why would he date a cheater) or he'll take her or it'll fizzle out. She will try to come back to you. It's gotta be a hard pass - if you're even reachable at this point.

Now, none of this is manageable. This isn't a game of chess. This is a woman who made up her mind. She's for the streets. We can be played for fools but doesn't mean we have to stick around.

 

[jhonny9546]

many more subtle seemingly small ways a woman can do this.

And this is an interesting point! I'm pretty sure you can teach things we still haven't known yet.

FWIW here's a sample timeline.
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You explained it in the simplest way possible. I've seen my sister do that with other men, and also a married female friend who was interested in me did the same thing.

She argued with her BF, blaming him for not being present.
But then, when she saw that I didn't want her as a married woman with children, she backtracked, saying that "his BF made her think that she was actually the one who had doubts about their relationship, and so, not him" so she took the blame and moved on.

And what did they do to "give each other" love again and "repair" the LTR?
Another child! She was pregnant right after this **** happened!!! Hahahaha!

And this women had been forgiven by this same man in the past for having cheated.

This is so clear to my eyes, but his BF still can't see the thing..

She is in this relationship waiting for the next thing she can jump on. But now she's more smart than before: She doesn't have to leave him. She found the perfect prey. She can keep him for her "Public Image" of an happy family, but live a second secret life with other men lovers

 

[jhonny9546]

FWIW here's a sample timeline.
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You explained it in the simplest way possible. I've seen my sister do that with other men, and a married friend who was interested in me did the same thing! (And to think this woman had cheated in the past and was forgiven)