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I have been on monk mode for the most part since 2016 or so. What happened early 2017 was I purchased this smart-TV, learned about Blu-ray and HD streaming, and got this Tablet and just lost interest in women in favour of viewing movies and TV-shows on that type of media. It just feels like I can't be bothered with the whole chasing women thing. Having a Tablet you can carry around and either stream or watch something anytime with headphones feels like amazing, like I'm king, lol! Now I also see other women in public doing the same thing. Sitting beside me and streaming Netflix on their smartphones or something, or in other tables in restaurants. Maybe there is too much TV around in the digital age, lol !

That being said, I do appear to be sensitive to women I interact with from time to time, but that is usually short-lived since it's one movie or TV-show away from being forgotten. Not to say this is an idol, I do look at allot of Christian content and documentaries and try to look at good stuff.

After going through one break-up with a soul-mate I loved in 2012, and a divorce that put me over the edge and into bankruptcy in 2014, and after visiting a pen-pal after driving 12 hours to see her marry off to someone else about a year later, I think I'm more at peace with myself without having any woman I'm chasing.
 

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Women r important in a man's life. They bring balance in your outlook, tame those aggressiveness etc.

It's not just s€x per se.

You need a women to come home to and basically tell you in her own way that everything is fine. And when you see her gardening or doing something feminine, it feels like heaven. Because if you don't do it then it turns into a spiral of pain for yourself and others around you. You do not have an outlet to release those dark pent up emotions inside you.

When I'm out making a living, I'm aggressive, dominating everyone into my frame. I do what's needed to be done, sometimes it gnaws at my subconscious. When I'm home with my woman, she'll notice differences within me, allowing me to open up and in her own way explaining away all those demons within me. And when the morning rises up, I'm a new man again, ready to conquer the world.

Personally I think a man can go without women for a few months, maybe a year before some form of personality disorder sets in.
 

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Good Topic.

I went from a steady rotation of 5 plates last summer to full blown monk mode during this past winter. Dropped every single plate and didn't even care. Focused on more important things then chasing women.

After a few months off and a little rusty, nature was calling and got right back in the game. It's good to take a break from time to time.
 

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Too much emphasis is being put into women's actions
Not just women. White knights too. They ARE the disease. The world is a dark place, sometimes you need to exit for awhile.
 

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Good Topic.

I went from a steady rotation of 5 plates last summer to full blown monk mode during this past winter. Dropped every single plate and didn't even care. Focused on more important things then chasing women.

After a few months off and a little rusty, nature was calling and got right back in the game. It's good to take a break from time to time.
^^I think this is healthy
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Not just women. White knights too. They ARE the disease. The world is a dark place, sometimes you need to exit for awhile.
Couldn't agree more.

White Knights r just men who doesn't know better. Perhaps it could be ur mission to educate them?
 

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Couldn't agree more.

White Knights r just men who doesn't know better. Perhaps it could be ur mission to educate them?
To get them to NOT put up with bad bahavoir. That's the mission...

Getting them to walk away when a woman misbehaves, would be ground breaking.

Mission Impossible! !!
 
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Monk mode can be beneficial if you have something pressing in your life that takes priority, but generally it's just an excuse to avoid rejection.

If you hit it off with a pretty girl at the grocery store, you might as well act on it.

Never pass up a good thing. Good things are few and far between in life. The older you get, the more you'll come to respect that.
 

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I did 6 months once just to prove I can do it. My two cents if your removing woman to focus on more fundamental issues in your life fine. If you're doing it because you can't handle their sh1t instead learn to handle their s***
 

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I did two years of monk mode after my divorce. I knew I was mad at women in general, and it was not fair or productive to take out my anger on the next girl. I grew a mountain man beard to keep the girls away. I also got my life together, new job, new house, got accepted into law school and got almost two years of the three done before I was distracted by a single vagina.

Throughout history, monks have been known for getting sh!t done. They were the intellectual elite, guardians of knowledge, and master craftsmen. They invented bock beer, several types of cheese and wine, and produced higher-quality goods than anyone else. They could do all of that, because they were not distracted by chasing women.
They invented cheese while rest of society invented space flight.
 

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Women r important in a man's life. They bring balance in your outlook, tame those aggressiveness etc.

It's not just s€x per se.

You need a women to come home to and basically tell you in her own way that everything is fine. And when you see her gardening or doing something feminine, it feels like heaven. Because if you don't do it then it turns into a spiral of pain for yourself and others around you. You do not have an outlet to release those dark pent up emotions inside you.

When I'm out making a living, I'm aggressive, dominating everyone into my frame. I do what's needed to be done, sometimes it gnaws at my subconscious. When I'm home with my woman, she'll notice differences within me, allowing me to open up and in her own way explaining away all those demons within me. And when the morning rises up, I'm a new man again, ready to conquer the world.

Personally I think a man can go without women for a few months, maybe a year before some form of personality disorder sets in.
I agree with your post actually, not the personality part at the end, I know you are probably generally speaking. It also takes a strong person man or woman to walk the path of life by their selves
 

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Saw a really interesting article today. It was talking about how if you don't like yourself and you don't have a strong emotional base, game techniques will never work for you. Personally, I totally agree with this, and that's why I'm going monk mode to work on myself until further notice. No drugs, and minimal alcohol too. Thoughts?
That’s funny.

I saw the same article. It was talking about how if you don’t like yourself and you don’t have a strong emotional base, game techniques will ALWAYS work for you. Personally, I totally agree with this, and that's why I'm going to ask every girl out until further notice. Live wild and free. Thoughts?
 

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That’s funny.

I saw the same article. It was talking about how if you don’t like yourself and you don’t have a strong emotional base, game techniques will ALWAYS work for you. Personally, I totally agree with this, and that's why I'm going to ask every girl out until further notice. Live wild and free. Thoughts?
Hahaha I like it
 
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