These media-created Mel Gibson-smears spread like a virus... once the "Nazi" or "racist" button is pushed, rational thinking is off, it seems. I find this ballyhoo about Gibson ridiculous. It is blown up to hysterical proportions. I guess there are a few people in Hollywood that have an axe to grind with Mel, and that's the reason. Don't act like Pavlovian dogs here. I dont want to know how many Hollywood celebrities have come up with rants like these, including Jewish and Black ones. As far as I know Hollywood is not exactly known to be a heaven of saints. Meanwhile, old child rapist Polanski is free again...
As to the DJ question, it is quite useless out of context. Is a DJ always being perfect and cool, does he never get his balls busted or get frustrated by nasty females? As to the initial question that was certainly not a cool way to tell her what he didn't like. But there was more going on in the background. I have no idea who is the guilty one in this case. Maybe Mel is a real, bitter *******, maybe he caught himself a really bad *****, maybe both. It can even happen to movie stars.