Hooligan Harry
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So true. The sooner people realise that this IS normal behavior for woman the sooner they will stop being so surprised when this **** happens to them or someone they know. A stripper or a church girl, YOU NEVER KNOW. Its not bad women being bad women, its women being women. Women are opportunistic by nature when it comes to interpersonal relationships. Its not just with men, its with all their relationships bar family (and even that can be a tad iffy at times too. I have known sisters to compete for men FFS)STR8UP said:Just goes to show that it isn't just the chicks who grew up in broken homes that engage in improper behavior. The floodgates are open for even "normal" women to partake of their carnal desires, despite a decent upbringing.
Consider how many men you know that have had lifelong friendships with people. Im willing to bet that there are men here who have been friends with some people since kindergarten. You probably have friends you have not spoken to in 3 years but if you hooked up it would be as if you saw them yesterday. You form lifelong and long term friendships with people because you understand to your core what loyalty and trust means. You know that those relationships require loyalty and trust. It is an unspoken given. Men need their packs and its a survival mechanism hardwired into us, which would fail horribly if we could not be loyal or trustworthy. Why do you think so many men are into team sports? Why do you think they organise "boys weekends"? Why do you know you could give a genuine friend $100 000 to watch for you and he would not spend it? Would not even think about spending it?
How many women do you know of that can say the same thing about their own relationships? Their concept of friendship is different. Their concept of "relationship" is different. They tend to be SELFISH in their relationships with people. Its how you make HER feel. Its how you support HER. Its about what YOU bring to the table. Its what YOU are expected to provide. Its what you do for HER. She just has to be there.
How can you expect loyalty from a woman when she has no real concept or understanding of it? That deep seated knot you get in your stomach when you know a mate needs help is something I do not think they feel. They feel the pain of potential loss which drives them, not the pain of failing to meet an obligation. There is a massive difference between the two.
The minute there is no significant pain in the loss of the relationship is the minute the relationship will be something she will not bother trying to protect. Which is why divorce rates are through the roof. This why this statement...
...is so true.This is what happens when women have absolutely no fear of any consequences. No fear of losing the house. No fear of losing the kids. No fear of having the "lifestyle she's accustomed to" diminished in any way. Hell, no fear of physical harm. The only way to offset vag moistening from other men, these days, is with the fear of losing you- if she stops thinking that you're a catch, or dosent care for you anymore, then all bets are off.
Now you can accept this or you can continue to live in fvcking Disneyland.
Whats the solution though? I wish I knew. What I do know is this. Woman cannot be expected to go against their own nature. I dont expect them too and I certainly dont resent them for it. I love women even though they are not perfect and they are completely unreliable. For all their bad qualities, they have their very good qualities too
What I can do as a man is make sure that I have my **** together. I can make sure I dont buy into this modern day, emasculated vision of what a man is supposed to be. I can make sure I dont compromise my own character and values. I can also make sure that when it comes to women and sex, I will no longer feel obliged to operate within the rules we are expected to operate within when I know for a fact she does not have the capacity to do the same.
The rules worked because women had something to lose. The minute they had nothing to lose they started breaking the rules. Its not that she is a low quality woman, its that the environment you are playing the game in is a low quality environment.
Either change the environment or change the way you play the game. Or continue to delude yourself into thinking that there are "high quality women" and continue to see yourself and people you know getting burned when they cant deliver everything she hoped for.