You have also mentioned numerous times that you can't find the type of woman you want. So I don't exactly call that winning.
A MAJOR reason why I can't find the woman I want, is because my criteria is out of whack. This was pretty much finalized in the threads I made and in the other follow up threads I participated in.
- It's like having a criteria of making 6 figures a year but wanting to do it working less than 20 hours a week. Let's say the guy ends up making 6 figures, but to do it, he ended up working 50 hours a week.
- Was he unsuccessful or successful? He was successful because he made the six figures, his original criteria though was completely out of whack in terms of the REALITY of the marketplace.
- The vast majority of black guys would look at the list of women I've been dating/fvcking, and not see a damn thing wrong with most of those women. It's mainly MYSELF that has the problem by expecting a unicorn.
My net worth is good enough that I don't need to work another day in my life if I so desired. You probably wouldn't know it when you see my house, nor how I dress, or where I eat. But I don't use my "money" to get girls or attract friends. In fact, I prefer to keep it under wraps.
So please explain it to a person that ISN'T broke how money makes a guy's life MUCH better..
You just said it:
- Your net worth is good enough that you don't have to work or work at much. Do you know how
GOOD of a situation that is?
- That puts you MUCH MORE at peace, knowing you don't live paycheck-to-paycheck, knowing that if you lose your current job/source of income, you aren't going to have to desperately take the first gig that comes along to replace it.
- You also have options of what you do for work, so you don't have to put up with bullshyt on the job if you don't want to.
- You can live where you want. Eat what you want. Drive what you want. Travel when you want.
Compare this to the
normal American, who makes $30,000 per year (the US median income per individual), who lives paycheck-to-paycheck and doesn't know where $400 would come from if they had a $400 emergency (this is 80% of Americans based on various studies).
Howie, I don't know if you've been poor, but you know my story and know I have been. I remember driving piece of shyt cars and being TERRIFIED of going to the auto shop to get an oil change. Why? Because they would always come out and tell me that X, Y, and Z thing was wrong and if I didn't get it fixed, it would make A, B, and C things worse off. I just didn't have $200, $300, or $600 laying around to fix shyt and I would be afraid EVERY TIME I would drive.......that the shyt wouldn't start back up.
Or, how about living on EBT food stamps and having only $200 a month to eat off of, and it's the 25th but you've ran out of money on the EBT card? How the fvck do you eat for the next 5 - 6 days?
Or, how about working shytty dead end jobs, where customers, fellow staff members, and managers all treat you like shyt in exchange for just making about $7 - $10 per hour?
I've been poor. That life is horrible. And I'm not going to allow anybody to justify that lifestyle. I'm going to try to get as
many people to climb the fvck out of that shyt if humanly possible.