Matched with a Gold Digger on Bumble

[zinc4]

i went out with this chick for ice cream and it was our first date. the woman automatically put her item on my tab
i was shocked by how rude and disrespectful this woman was .... im an introvert so i dont feel comfortable drawing attention to myself or rockin the boat so i didnt say anything , big mistake.
every thing went down hill after that and the girl lost interest. my sexual advances were casually rejected .

its no wonder women feel so entitled to eat for free.
her mom , her dad , and even random ppl in society are telling her we should pay for everything.

It's just an ice cream ffs. Doubt that was why she rejected you.

Ice cream date is a terrible idea in the first place. Screams safe and boring.

Always meet first either for drinks or at your place. Drinks at least suggest sex is a possibility. And yeah pay for the drinks if she is clearly into you. If she isnt then say to split the bill.

Seriously who tf meets a first date for ice cream haha. Thats something id just randomly do with a long time gf.

 

[zinc4]

I’ve had more than a few conversations with women online. Normally they laugh it off and we talk about something not so bland.

Plus she responded to me by saying: “no games” clearly too serious

I mean this is all normal OLD stuff. You know how many i have banged first date who said all of this? All that matters is when she is infront of you and how she feels.

 

[mrskinnypantz]

It's just an ice cream ffs. Doubt that was why she rejected you.

Ice cream date is a terrible idea in the first place. Screams safe and boring.

Always meet first either for drinks or at your place. Drinks at least suggest sex is a possibility. And yeah pay for the drinks if she is clearly into you. If she isnt then say to split the bill.

Seriously who tf meets a first date for ice cream haha. Thats something id just randomly do with a long time gf.

the ice cream is not the point, the fact is i let it happen.

 

[SW15]

Seriously who tf meets a first date for ice cream haha. Thats something id just randomly do with a long time gf.

If you're both 15-20 and can't get into bars, ice cream or frozen yogurt could make sense. It's been a while since I went on a date with an under 21 woman or was under 21 myself.

Even if I was under 21, I can still think of better first date ideas than that.

Drinks are my standard first date. I'm willing to do activity dates if I know that the woman is going to enjoy one of the activities I enjoy. You definitely won't be able to determine that in swiping/texting and it's less common to determine that in a 5-10 minute cold approach conversation on the street/walking path or in the grocery store.

 

[zinc4]

the ice cream is not the point, the fact is i let it happen.

Its like what $5 to $8. Lol i don't see how that would have anything to do with her not being into you. Most people dont gaf about that kind of change.

 

[mrskinnypantz]

i cold approached her in target , that was the only bad idea

 

[SW15]

i cold approached her in target , that was the only bad idea

Cold approaching in Target is a good idea. Better than swiping.

 

[mrskinnypantz]

Cold approaching in Target is a good idea. Better than swiping.

believe it or not i get way more swiping, many of the OLD girls have came straight to the crib and first night lays too.
nothing beats social circle tho, the most i've ever gotten was when i was validated and everyone knew i fckd this hot nurse at work
i got many girls from that same job to come straight to my crib for drinks and got laid.
i still will cold approach if i see a girl i really really like tho.

 

[zinc4]

believe it or not i get way more swiping, many of the OLD girls have came straight to the crib and first night lays too.
nothing beats social circle tho, the most i've ever gotten was when i was validated and everyone knew i fckd this hot nurse at work
i got many girls from that same job to come straight to my crib for drinks and got laid.
i still will cold approach if i see a girl i really really like tho.

OLD can be very good depending on where you live.

 

[SW15]

OLD can be very good depending on where you live.

It is shiit where I live.

believe it or not i get way more swiping, many of the OLD girls have came straight to the crib and first night lays too.
nothing beats social circle tho, the most i've ever gotten was when i was validated and everyone knew i fckd this hot nurse at work
i got many girls from that same job to come straight to my crib for drinks and got laid.
i still will cold approach if i see a girl i really really like tho.

Social circle is always best. I think the absolute best use for social circle is extended relationships of 12 months or longer.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I mean this is all normal OLD stuff. You know how many i have banged first date who said all of this? All that matters is when she is infront of you and how she feels.

Meh, not my thing. Thanks for the opinion tho

 

[zinc4]

Meh, not my thing. Thanks for the opinion tho

If it's just a one stand stand why care?

 

[SargeMaximus]

If it's just a one stand stand why care?

I don’t want a ons