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SW15

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Seriously who tf meets a first date for ice cream haha. Thats something id just randomly do with a long time gf.
If you're both 15-20 and can't get into bars, ice cream or frozen yogurt could make sense. It's been a while since I went on a date with an under 21 woman or was under 21 myself.

Even if I was under 21, I can still think of better first date ideas than that.

Drinks are my standard first date. I'm willing to do activity dates if I know that the woman is going to enjoy one of the activities I enjoy. You definitely won't be able to determine that in swiping/texting and it's less common to determine that in a 5-10 minute cold approach conversation on the street/walking path or in the grocery store.
 

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the ice cream is not the point, the fact is i let it happen.
Its like what $5 to $8. Lol i don't see how that would have anything to do with her not being into you. Most people dont gaf about that kind of change.
 

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i cold approached her in target , that was the only bad idea
 

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Cold approaching in Target is a good idea. Better than swiping.
believe it or not i get way more swiping, many of the OLD girls have came straight to the crib and first night lays too.
nothing beats social circle tho, the most i've ever gotten was when i was validated and everyone knew i fckd this hot nurse at work
i got many girls from that same job to come straight to my crib for drinks and got laid.
i still will cold approach if i see a girl i really really like tho.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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believe it or not i get way more swiping, many of the OLD girls have came straight to the crib and first night lays too.
nothing beats social circle tho, the most i've ever gotten was when i was validated and everyone knew i fckd this hot nurse at work
i got many girls from that same job to come straight to my crib for drinks and got laid.
i still will cold approach if i see a girl i really really like tho.

OLD can be very good depending on where you live.
 

SW15

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OLD can be very good depending on where you live.
It is shiit where I live.

believe it or not i get way more swiping, many of the OLD girls have came straight to the crib and first night lays too.
nothing beats social circle tho, the most i've ever gotten was when i was validated and everyone knew i fckd this hot nurse at work
i got many girls from that same job to come straight to my crib for drinks and got laid.
i still will cold approach if i see a girl i really really like tho.
Social circle is always best. I think the absolute best use for social circle is extended relationships of 12 months or longer.
 

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I mean this is all normal OLD stuff. You know how many i have banged first date who said all of this? All that matters is when she is infront of you and how she feels.
Meh, not my thing. Thanks for the opinion tho
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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