Matched with a Gold Digger on Bumble

[SargeMaximus]

the whole conversation seemed pretty awkward for some reason i cannot explain, it wasnt too bad tho except the calling her baby too quickly , but even i do that sometimes too.

for some reasonn i feel like her bringing up working all weekend was almost like something she said to stop you from asking her out.
kinda like when you're talking to a chick and she randomly and awkwardly brings her boyfriend up out of nowhere.

but i could be wrong about that this is just my opinion

Yeah this lends more weight to her wanting a provider. I probably put out player vibes with the baby comment and she was trying to reign me in

 

[Zimbabwe]

The women who tend to ask you about what you do are more careerist than gold digger. Careerist women think the world revolves around their work and often their work. She mentioned her healthcare work before asking you about yours.

I see this a lot with Asian and Indian women i match with on OLD, one of the first questions they always ask me is "what do you do"

It’s funny you guys hate on my line when it was a pua coach who suggested it to me

You shouldn't take everything they say as gospel

 

[EyeBRollin]

Exhibit A on how texting ruins your chances.

 

[SW15]

I see this a lot with Asian and Indian women i match with on OLD, one of the first questions they always ask me is "what do you do"

Are you in the United States, Canada, Western Europe, New Zealand, or Australia?

In the United States, women with Indian ancestry tend to be quite careerist/feminist. Match Group CEO Shar Dubey and former PepsiCo CEO Indra Nooyi are examples of Indian women who became ardent careerists/feminists.

Indian women tend to be obsessed with their degrees and careers. Not sexy at all.

 

[derby1]

your texting is very robotic and predictable OP

also only call women "baby," after youve laid down some serious D

 

[mrskinnypantz]

Yeah this lends more weight to her wanting a provider. I probably put out player vibes with the baby comment and she was trying to reign me in

yeah probably.
i think you can probably still fvck her but it might take a lil while longer. is she hot?

sell her a dream like you're gonna be a provider and don't, its kinda sleazy but they don't care about us anyway.

 

[SargeMaximus]

yeah probably.
i think you can probably still fvck her but it might take a lil while longer. is she hot?

sell her a dream like you're gonna be a provider and don't, its kinda sleazy but they don't care about us anyway.

I do neee to work on my sleazy ness. I’m too authentic and so I just unmatched with her because I’m not interested but yeah, I need to work on lying to get what I want. It’s hard tho since I’m such an authentic and honest person. It serves me well

 

[DonJuanjr]

I'm lying to my fwb about what I do for a living. I don't care. They only want honesty so they can properly manipulate. They don't know how they feel from one hour to the next. But they're always telling "the truth" even if it contradicts what they said/feel an hour earlier. It's not lying though.... Why would I care about being honorable to a being that does not have that type of honor in them?

 

[SargeMaximus]

I'm lying to my fwb about what I do for a living. I don't care.

Is it the same girl from when you messaged me?

 

[DonJuanjr]

Yes.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Yes.

Nice, glad to hear it. Do you still look for girls online?

 

[mrskinnypantz]

I do neee to work on my sleazy ness. I’m too authentic and so I just unmatched with her because I’m not interested but yeah, I need to work on lying to get what I want. It’s hard tho since I’m such an authentic and honest person. It serves me well

i heard that brother , i honor and respect it. nothing wrong with being authentic and honest.
but i do agree that you should work on sleazy ness a little , women lie to us all the time and dont lose a wink of sleep over it.
and before the ''ALL women are not like that '' police arrives , im not saying all women are liars but the majority of them dont see fault in lying to get what they want

 

[DonJuanjr]

Nice, glad to hear it. Do you still look for girls online?

I've been taking a break from it. And approaching in general. I am going to start again shortly though, as I am starting to get bored.

 

[SargeMaximus]

i heard that brother , i honor and respect it. nothing wrong with being authentic and honest.
but i do agree that you should work on sleazy ness a little , women lie to us all the time and dont lose a wink of sleep over it.
and before the ''ALL women are not like that '' police arrives , im not saying all women are liars but the majority of them dont see fault in lying to get what they want

Yes I’m aware. It is what it is. I was hoping I could be my authentic self regardless. We’ll see. I mean, if a girl is provider hunting I imagine she’d want a dinner date anyways which I don’t do. So I just saved myself time.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I've been taking a break from it. And approaching in general. I am going to start again shortly though, as I am starting to get bored.

Yeah approaching isnt as efficient. If you can find your vibe in online, it’s almost like having access to free hookers.

 

[mrskinnypantz]

Yes I’m aware. It is what it is. I was hoping I could be my authentic self regardless. We’ll see. I mean, if a girl is provider hunting I imagine she’d want a dinner date anyways which I don’t do. So I just saved myself time.

i went out with this chick for ice cream and it was our first date. the woman automatically put her item on my tab
i was shocked by how rude and disrespectful this woman was .... im an introvert so i dont feel comfortable drawing attention to myself or rockin the boat so i didnt say anything , big mistake.
every thing went down hill after that and the girl lost interest. my sexual advances were casually rejected .

its no wonder women feel so entitled to eat for free.
her mom , her dad , and even random ppl in society are telling her we should pay for everything.

 

[SargeMaximus]

i went out with this chick for ice cream and it was our first date. the woman automatically put her item on my tab
i was shocked by how rude and disrespectful this woman was .... im an introvert so i dont feel comfortable drawing attention to myself or rockin the boat so i didnt say anything , big mistake.
every thing went down hill after that and the girl lost interest. my sexual advances were casually rejected .

its no wonder women feel so entitled to eat for free.
her mom , her dad , and even random ppl in society are telling her we should pay for everything.

Now you know why I go direct sexual from the start. It’s a screening process

 

[SW15]

Yeah approaching isnt as efficient. If you can find your vibe in online, it’s almost like having access to free hookers.

Very few men achieve this.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Very few men achieve this.

I’m close.

 

[zinc4]

I'm lying to my fwb about what I do for a living. I don't care. They only want honesty so they can properly manipulate. They don't know how they feel from one hour to the next. But they're always telling "the truth" even if it contradicts what they said/feel an hour earlier. It's not lying though.... Why would I care about being honorable to a being that does not have that type of honor in them?

Same. I make up all kind of stories....including being a part time fire fighter as a hobby. Screw being honest to these sloots.