Manipulative b!tch almost had me for 18 years!

[Centaurion]

lol

I don't think any of you understood my reference to a coat hanger.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Originally posted by Centaurion
lol

I don't think any of you understood my reference to a coat hanger.

In a nutshell fellas he was referring to the good ol' fashioned homemade abortion with a coat hanger. Kind of like the mummy in the Tales from the Darkside flick draggin' out brain through the nose.

 

[speedo_meme]

haha didn't old Christian Bale on American Psycho demonstrate that coat hangar abortion technique? makes me shiver, but she probly deserved it.....

Well let's look at this:

1) B1tch lied (I am led to believe you were in some sort of relationship because you'd been fvcking her before, so you probably trusted her in some way).

2) She intentionally tried to get pregnant (obviously thinking about HERSELF and not giving two sh1ts about you, but guaranteed she would be wanting you to support her).

3) You didn't have to fvck her that night. You knew the consequences but you did it anyway, but assuming you had a relationship, you trusted that she was on the pill.

4) You choked her and threatened her (theoretically I don't think this should be wrong but I'm not the law).

In conclusion, as far as the law goes, she would probably have your ass.

BUT, I thought the point of this thread was to symbolize how big of a manipulative b1tch this girl was. To me, she deserves to be ravaged by Bigfoot, but I am not the law I don't suppose. Bible belt, we all know the law would favor the woman in this case. More or less we need to learn to not make that fatal mistake and NEVER trust a wh0re under any circumstances. The girl technically didn't do anything legally wrong, but she demonstrated the low quality of a life she and most other girls really are and can be whenever they are emotionally unstable about something. The fukking liberalistic society we live, it really taps my ass sometimes...

You have to look out for number one.

P.S. Please don't bash the "Bible thumpers", because I am a Christian, but I'm not forcing my beliefs down anyone's throat.

 

[diplomatic_lies]

Originally posted by KarmaSutra
In a nutshell fellas he was referring to the good ol' fashioned homemade abortion with a coat hanger. Kind of like the mummy in the Tales from the Darkside flick draggin' out brain through the nose.

Does that work? I mean, think of the abortion fees you can save, especially if you live in Afghanistan or Ethiopia (or Utah ).

 

[john_1234]

while we're on the topic...
my friend and i were chatting about several girls we have known for years. all have either recently had a baby or are pregnant at the moment. all these girls are hitting thirty soon and apparently, none of the pregnancies were planned
my friend and i speculate these girls INTENTIONALLY got pregnant. think about it, they were able to avoid pregnancy when they were in their teens and early to mid twenties. why is it that all of a sudden they ACCIDENTALLY got pregnant now? it doesn't make any sense.
we have to be careful w/ all girls of course, but w/ older girls, i think it's important to be extra careful because that biological time clock they have has a strong influence on them

 

[dirtyvibe]

2. Even though she hid his condoms, he couldn't control his sex drive and broke his own rule.

actually she got him drunk

 

[reyalp]

As far as not wearing a condom: Before my last LTR chick was on the shot, I always wore a condom, no matter how drunk I am. One night she and I killed a liter of Jose Cuervo together and I still used a condom. In fact, I walked to the store and bought some because I didn't have any.

I am paranoid as ****, man, even when I'm drunk. Of course, before this, she had already given me the indicators "Oh it feels so much better without the condom," "I won't get on birth control for someone I'm not married to," and BS like that.

She just wanted a way to tie me down, make sure I stuck with her for the rest of my life. Holy cow she was desperate.

 

[Sapiens]

Originally posted by john_1234
while we're on the topic...
my friend and i were chatting about several girls we have known for years. all have either recently had a baby or are pregnant at the moment. all these girls are hitting thirty soon and apparently, none of the pregnancies were planned
my friend and i speculate these girls INTENTIONALLY got pregnant. think about it, they were able to avoid pregnancy when they were in their teens and early to mid twenties. why is it that all of a sudden they ACCIDENTALLY got pregnant now? it doesn't make any sense.
we have to be careful w/ all girls of course, but w/ older girls, i think it's important to be extra careful because that biological time clock they have has a strong influence on them

John,

You have no idea how true this is!! I have several female friends and they have told me they got pregnant on purpose, knowing full well the man would not stay with them. You would be amazed at the power of the biological clock and the desire of the womb!

-Sapiens

 

[Sapiens]

Originally posted by speedo_meme
The girl technically didn't do anything legally wrong,

Yes she did. Her intention was to defraud his victim of his sperm and any pecuniary support. She knew he was intoxicated and deceived him into thinking she was on the pill.

Now, proving her intention in court could be damn hard if not impossible. Then think for a moment even if you were to win in court, you would have a human being who is your kid. Would you abandon your own kid? Tough issue when one party is not playing with good intentions, like anything in life.

-Sapiens

 

[speedo_meme]

Like I said, I personally think she should be beaten with reeds and left for the vultures. But that's me. By legally, I meant something a court would uphold.

And you're right, after the fact, there's a baby and that gets a wee bit more complicated.

The only way to beat her at this game is to protect yourself at all costs...

 

[john_1234]

while we're on this topic, worst case scenario she got pregnant:

...this kind of situation has always been a fear of mine. girls i've messed with in the past, the ones i knew for sure i didn't want a future with, i'd always withdraw prior to orgasm and jerk myself off. you can NEVER trust any girl who says she's on the pill. and you can NEVER know for sure if the condom you have on at that moment will break or not.
about maybe ten years ago, i had a conversation with this guy who had a one night stand with some girl... she got pregnant. she wanted to keep the baby. the guy explained to the girl that he would be there for the baby, but he wouldn't be there for her.
this is the same approach i'd take if i was in a similar situation. i know it sounds harsh, but in a complicated situaiton like this, it's best to be blunt/to the point. i would tell her, "i do not see myself being with you in the future. but what ever decision you make, i'll respect that. and i'll be there for the baby... but i'm not going to be there for you."
reminds me of something chris rock said in one of his stand up routines. i'll never forget this!
"If you get a girl pregnant, NEVER even consider mentioning abortion. don't even mention the first ****ing syllables. because if she decides to keep it, that baby will be six years old one day... and you'll ask your son how he's doing, and he'll say, "I'M ALIVE MOTHER****ER! THAT'S HOW I'M DOING! YOU WANTED ME DEAD! BUT LOOK AT ME! I'M ALIVE MOTHER****ER!"

So to avoid this type of drama, there's only two things you can say to a girl in this type of situation:

1) said in an AFC'ish type of way, "Oh baby, this is fantastic! I look forward to having this baby with you. Oh baby I loooove you!....























































































2) Look at her straight in the eyes seriously and say, "So what are you going to do?"




classic! Funny yet so true

 

[Docs]

You'd only do...

2) Look at her straight in the eyes seriously and say, "So what are you going to do?"

...if you wanted to assist the baby. In these cases, the guy doesn't want to have the baby, or the financial burden.

 

[A-Unit]

Re:

I can empathize with both sides.

On the 1, you feel betrayed, that someone you perhaps trusted the most (as you're having sex with her) would so blindly misplace your trust by committing such a vile act.

On the other, you didn't exercise foresight or caution in this case at this point in time.

No fault either way. I'm glad it ended well for BOTH parties.

I think there's MORE to women than guys realize. We peg everything in such a lockbox logical society, in expect women to WANT KIDS WHEN THEY"RE READY at the TIME THEY"RE MARRIED. However...it isn't cut and dry. Who knows what they're motivated by, but when they're hormones and clocks start saying it's time to breed, SHE WILL DO ANYTHING TO GET, much like the Species Movie Trilogy. So I don't trust women, PERIOD.

It's enough we can't deal on an equal footing with them, but to try to explain their hormonal and physiological motivations is impossible. Maybe she just had inner pangings of wanting a kid at the moment she did it?

As Played out as guys think women have their whole lives, when that moment strikes that she'd get knocked up, she'll do it. Even if it means divorcing in a few years, getting 50% and starting over with another guy, she will. You're dealing with 3 pieces of the mind. The animal part, the higher mind, and the spirit. Normally, in reproductive cases, she's not thinking of waiting. If her loins crave it, she goes for.

All the worse are women who have premeditated these sorts of situations that ACTUALLY LOGICALLY and EMOTIONALLY trap men.



A-Unit

 

[italostud]

Re: Re:

Originally posted by A-Unit
I can empathize with both sides.

On the 1, you feel betrayed, that someone you perhaps trusted the most (as you're having sex with her) would so blindly misplace your trust by committing such a vile act.

On the other, you didn't exercise foresight or caution in this case at this point in time.

No fault either way. I'm glad it ended well for BOTH parties.

I think there's MORE to women than guys realize. We peg everything in such a lockbox logical society, in expect women to WANT KIDS WHEN THEY"RE READY at the TIME THEY"RE MARRIED. However...it isn't cut and dry. Who knows what they're motivated by, but when they're hormones and clocks start saying it's time to breed, SHE WILL DO ANYTHING TO GET, much like the Species Movie Trilogy. So I don't trust women, PERIOD.

It's enough we can't deal on an equal footing with them, but to try to explain their hormonal and physiological motivations is impossible. Maybe she just had inner pangings of wanting a kid at the moment she did it?

As Played out as guys think women have their whole lives, when that moment strikes that she'd get knocked up, she'll do it. Even if it means divorcing in a few years, getting 50% and starting over with another guy, she will. You're dealing with 3 pieces of the mind. The animal part, the higher mind, and the spirit. Normally, in reproductive cases, she's not thinking of waiting. If her loins crave it, she goes for.

All the worse are women who have premeditated these sorts of situations that ACTUALLY LOGICALLY and EMOTIONALLY trap men.



A-Unit

I realize what you're saying. They're giving into their biological urges regardless of whether it is logical to do so. Regardless of whether they are trapping another unwilling human into an 18 year contract.

However, if that is acceptable, then it should also be acceptable for me to walk around and rape any hot women that I see, because my biological urges told me so.

 

[Kumar]

"I am not sure why you had a child with someone who did not want to be with you(can you say birth control????)...that is mostly unfair to the child from the start, but since you have already ruined the possibility of offering your child a willing participant into fatherhood, then why don't you handle the responsiblity you chose to burden yourself and your child with on your own...you make it difficult for women like me to earn respect for working hard and being independent...be an example for your son/daughter...and be a real woman...not a user...the only reason to have a child is for the CHILD not to earn a paycheck...you are an able-bodied person..(I hope) so get to work and let that man make his own decisions-obviously you have made your decision to have it, now let him decide how he can deal with a child he did not consent to create...consenting to sex...does not mean consent to reproduction...as much as you would like to tell yourself...if men thought that way...we would all be virgins until marriage!...good luck..from an INDEPENDENT WOMAN!!!"

From this forum, check out the link:

http://www.babycenter.com/dilemma/baby/babyfinance/1149658.html

 

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Re: Re: Re:

Originally posted by italostud
I realize what you're saying. They're giving into their biological urges regardless of whether it is logical to do so. Regardless of whether they are trapping another unwilling human into an 18 year contract.

However, if that is acceptable, then it should also be acceptable for me to walk around and rape any hot women that I see, because my biological urges told me so.

Bingo! This guy makes an excellent point.

 

[hck332]

Centaurion, did you pull out before ejaculating?

 

[Centaurion]

Great points all around.

At this stage of my life there is no way in hell that I'm ready for a kid, both economically or emotionally. Hell, I don't know if I'll ever be ready to have a kid. I don't want no friggin little Cent's running around.

Funny thing is that her b!tch squad and their gay AFC protegee has been starting to harass me. The b!tch herself has left a couple of tear dripping voicemails, while one of her fvcking AFC fags even had the nerve to come to my door and 'talk' about the situation. He said that (and I quote) "I should thank my lucky star that I have such a wonderful woman that loves me as much as she does".

 

[italostud]

Originally posted by Centaurion
while one of her fvcking AFC fags even had the nerve to come to my door and 'talk' about the situation. He said that (and I quote) "I should thank my lucky star that I have such a wonderful woman that loves me as much as she does".

I would have said "I'm sorry, I'm a little hard of hearing, could you lean in and repeat that", then slam the door on his face and break his nose. Who the fyck does he think he is? Some people.

 

[Docs]

"I should thank my lucky star that I have such a wonderful woman that loves me as much as she does"

Awwwww! That's adorable! Bible!