Well guys it's fair to say we've all been somehow exposed to a story similar to Centaurion's. Cent's story is pretty fvcked up. It sucks that we live in a society where integrity is not valued anymore. There used to be some sort of stigma about unplanned pregnancies.
How do we prevent ourselves from ever having to even wonder about her hidden agenda? With a plan of ACTION.
RedPill's personal 3-step strategy for avoiding conception by deception:
1) ALWAYS wrap it up, with a condom you provided, with any chick you have not been dating for over a year. NO EXCEPTIONS!
2) IF, and this is a very qualified if, you have been dating her for over a year, are dating exclusively, and you have had a frank discussion about kids and getting birth control, go for it. BUT keep very close tabs on those pills without telling her. Know how they work and what time of day she's supposed to take them. Better yet, have her get norplant or a patch or something that is less user-mistake prone. If there is the slightest red flag of a trust issue, this step is a no-go.
3) You guys might think this is over the top, but I am seriously considering, when I have the financial means to do so, investing in cryogenics - banking some sperm - and getting a vasectomy long before actually thinking of having a kid. Any woman who I'd choose to reproduce with will be down with this because if she wasn't (i.e. religious, overly traditional, it's not AFC enough for her vision of a whipped husband), we never would have made it to that point in a LTR. She would have been filtered out long ago for not being in line with my values.
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I'm sure if a woman really wanted to she could find a way to get past my three steps, but damn it would be difficult. Think like in Mission Impossible. She'd have to rappel silently down a wire into the climate controlled vault where my boys are stored. Hell, if a chick could actually pull that off, I'd have no problem rewarding her with a kid!