MIKE.T said:
If you accept that, then you have to accept the proposition that, given the same quality game (even high quality game, that of the very best djs), in approaching the same group of 1000 randomly selected women Drew Carey would do just as well Antonio Sabato. I want to make sure, is this what you claim?
If you would read my whole post instead of just the parts you feel like, you would notice where I said "If everything else is equal, and you happen to look the way your mark likes a guy to look, then yes, you will do better." But we can talk about it easily in the academic sense, yet in reality everything else is NEVER equal, so it's really kind of pointless to discuss the eventuality of "two guys with
identical personalities, but one is better looking".
Referencing Sabato, I know plenty of girls who hate guys with built bodies. I know plenty of girls who are not attracted to any guy who has hair shorter than shoulder length. I know plenty of girls who won't under any circumstance date Italian guys (dumb b!tches). So as good as YOU seem to think Sabato looks, what good do
his looks do him with the types of girls I just mentioned? (none is the correct answer there, just in case you were wondering)
I don't like oysters, so when I go to a restaurant, it doesn't matter how well they can make them, I'm still not going to like them. It's the same way with girls, it doesn't matter how hot a guy is considered by everyone else, if the specifics of his appearance are not what she's into, she's not going to like the way he looks, plain and simple. Because of that, you can sit here and talk about looking good until you're blue in the face, if your blonde and the girl only like brown-haired guys, your look if benefitting you exactly 0.0%, and that's just how it is.
What I mean when I say that looks don't mean sh!t, is that because of all of the the myriad other variables, it is IMPOSSIBLE to accurately say to yourself "Well, because I'm hotter than that guy, I'll get more chicks" or "because I'm not as hot as that guy, he'll always get more chick than me". I'm not super hot, I'm not ugly either, but I could take home a HB8+ every night of the week if I had the energy for it. It has nothing to do with my looks, it's my confidence, my independance, my comfort, and my rock solid desirability.
And that's the facts, Jack.