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I'm good if anyone is wondering.

I'm not sure how you stay sane with stuff like this...I've been staying off booze and drugs, for the most part

She still acts like nothing happened, which grinds my fvcking gears. I have to remind her occasionally

In her mind, she did nothing wrong. She's your typical woman ... Can't take responsibility for anything. Any time I bring up breaking up, she is always most concerned with how she looks in the deal.

I was drinking too much for a while. I called her fat (she's getting there) and caustic. She hates me for it.

Your boy ain't backing down, though. Steadfast on not being able to trust her ever again.
This just sounds like you two are unwilling to be intellectually honest with yourselves or each other.

And you can't just talk about breaking up. It's sh*t or get off the pot. If you just bring it up as a possibility, she will take that as a pass to fvk around.

You need to detox - from booze and drugs, but also from her. Get away for a long time and calm yourself.
 

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This just sounds like you two are unwilling to be intellectually honest with yourselves or each other.

And you can't just talk about breaking up. It's sh*t or get off the pot. If you just bring it up as a possibility, she will take that as a pass to fvk around.

You need to detox - from booze and drugs, but also from her. Get away for a long time and calm yourself.
Yeah. I've been off the booze for three weeks until tonight. I can't bare to view this sh1t sober.

Also, none of you can tell me anything I don't know. I'm not looking for advice here

I thought this would be a good thread for the young guys to learn from. Especially considering how she never changed her demeanor towards me.

Her desire to settle down and have kids was so strong, that she literally became a sociopath...

And all women are capable of this. Every man should be aware
 

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It's obvious, in hindsight

They're sociopaths from their teens, if you view it from a male perspective.

Men compete. We decide who is worthy through a custom that has been around for thousands of years

Women do the same, and their tactic has also been around for thousands of years. Their tactic is manipulation
 

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I've reached a ppint where I can laugh at it, but it's taken me 2 decades to get here

Women can have a new d1ck in 2 hours. And they can change who they are, as a person, just as quick

Take pride in the fact that you aren't that way. Your ancestors were warriors. They charged a battlefield, while you can barely charge a men's restroom.

Take pride in where you come from, and seek wisdom from your elders.

When I'm in a tough spot, I think "how would my grandfather handle this?"

Your grandfather was forced to solve problems...and he had a sense of worth

You pass them off...Jack off...and wonder why you feel lost

Solving problems is what men were born to do. If you work in an office, you definitely need to be lifting weights and challenging yourself. There's nothing more soul-sucking than an office job

At the same time, some problems you need to let lay. My situation is a good example.

I don't have a good move, so I'm not making a move. Rash decisions will get you broke or in jail.

I'm drunk and rambling a bit, but don't be a pushover.

Men suffer. I'm pretty sure that's what evolution had in store for us. If you aren't suffering, you aren't living. If you aren't striving to be better, then you're going to feel lost

Find a way to strive to be better. Be creative. Figure your own life out, pvssy
 
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The red pill gets mentioned a bunch, but it's definitely a real thing. And it took me 20 years to get it down.

I was angry at women for a long time. I hated how easy they have it.

I wasn't blessed with top 10% genes, so I started cold-approaching. Which I would recommend to every man. To overcome your fears

I found some success with women, but being around women taught me a timeless lesson: you can't trust women.

I've wondered since, if my upbringing is the problem. Maybe women are great and I'm just misogynistic lol. Maybe the sour men of the manosphere ruined me...

20 years later, I will still tell you not to trust women. You have to treat them like children
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

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Also, make a point of seeking change.

For you young guys, that will mean "approach women". Your ancestor stormed Normandy, but you can't even say hi to a woman lol

But for the older guys. Make a point of doing different things. Variety is the spice of life. A small change can invigorate you
 

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You've been one of the best posters on this forum for a decade, brother. Glad you're still here

We both started drinking too much after everything happened.

When I drink, I get brutally honest.

She blames her sexting another dude on me being an assh0le when I drink.

Granted, I can be an assh0le when I drink, but only because I don't hold back.

She says my drinking pushed her to sext her ex.

What do you you think?
That sounds like "the dog ate my homework" kind of excuse. Of course she's going to blame you. Women always do that. Of all the women I've been with, I can only think of one who, when talking about her ex, acknowledged that she bore some responsibility for the breakdown of their relationship. This was many years ago and I still remember it because it was such an unusual admission. Almost like a politician admitting that he lied.
 

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That sounds like "the dog ate my homework" kind of excuse. Of course she's going to blame you. Women always do that. Of all the women I've been with, I can only think of one who, when talking about her ex, acknowledged that she bore some responsibility for the breakdown of their relationship. This was many years ago and I still remember it because it was such an unusual admission. Almost like a politician admitting that he lied.
Yep. Women treat accountability like the plague.

There are exceptions...type A personality, but that's another beast to deal with
 

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Also, make a point of seeking change.

For you young guys, that will mean "approach women". Your ancestor stormed Normandy, but you can't even say hi to a woman lol

But for the older guys. Make a point of doing different things. Variety is the spice of life. A small change can invigorate you
Lolz if those ancestors had taken the red pill themselves, they wouldn't have stormed. Certainly not for something called "Operation Overlord" and occurring on 6/6/6 (6th hour of the 6th day of the 6th month of the year, as 5:30 am on June 6th is exactly that).
 
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Also, none of you can tell me anything I don't know. I'm not looking for advice here
I'm not giving advice. I'm telling it like it is. Knowledge is useless without action anyway - nothing impressive about repeated failure if you know better. Otherwise you're just a manipulated man.
 

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If you had ever been in a warzone, you wouldn't put forth this statement as a laudable feat of masculinity, nor as a role model to follow.
I had a teacher as a kid who landed at Normandy on D-Day. He would break up fights to give the two kids boxing gloves and then make them fight while everyone else watched. Eventually the school board did make him stop it, but he was always given a lot of deference due to being a war hero.
 

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Lolz if those ancestors had taken the red pill themselves, they wouldn't have stormed. Certainly not for something called "Operation Overlord" and occurring on 6/6/6 (6th hour of the 6th day of the 6th month of the year, as 5:30 am on June 6th is exactly that).
Just curious, was it a marketing ploy?
 

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If you had ever been in a warzone, you wouldn't put forth this statement as a laudable feat of masculinity, nor as a role model to follow.
I've never been in a war zone.

But how is storming Normandy not laudable?

That isn't a feat of masculinity?

You know how I know you're gay?
 

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I had a teacher as a kid who landed at Normandy on D-Day. He would break up fights to give the two kids boxing gloves and then make them fight while everyone else watched. Eventually the school board did make him stop it, but he was always given a lot of deference due to being a war hero.
Our ancestors were raised in worse conditions than we were. That was my point.

You should constantly compare yourself to your ancestors.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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Lolz if those ancestors had taken the red pill themselves, they wouldn't have stormed. Certainly not for something called "Operation Overlord" and occurring on 6/6/6 (6th hour of the 6th day of the 6th month of the year, as 5:30 am on June 6th is exactly that).
Yep

My ancestors didn't fight and die so tranny's could use women's bathrooms
 

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I've never been in a war zone.
Obviously. People who have, have a name for you. Armchair General.

But how is storming Normandy not laudable?
Ask the parents of the soldiers who perished.

That isn't a feat of masculinity?
Nope, that is just what old men waging war wanted the soldiers to think.

You know how I know you're gay?
Probably because you're a moron who thinks he can offend me with accusations of homosexuality.
 
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Obviously. People who have, have a name for you. Armchair General.


Ask the parents of the soldiers who perished.


Nope, that is just what old men waging war wanted the soldiers to think.


Probably because you're a moron who thinks he can offend me with accusations of homosexuality.
I got you, buddy. Nicely done with the quote posts.

Our ancestors did fight and die in the great war, and the second world war

But I wouldn't recommend the military to any man

You'd be an idiot to fight for a country that perpetually wages war in other countries, rather than taking care of their own

You aren't fighting for your country any more. I don't think you you ever were. You're a number to these people.

Know that
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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