Vanderdonck
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 12, 2024
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- Age
- 48
This just sounds like you two are unwilling to be intellectually honest with yourselves or each other.I'm good if anyone is wondering.
I'm not sure how you stay sane with stuff like this...I've been staying off booze and drugs, for the most part
She still acts like nothing happened, which grinds my fvcking gears. I have to remind her occasionally
In her mind, she did nothing wrong. She's your typical woman ... Can't take responsibility for anything. Any time I bring up breaking up, she is always most concerned with how she looks in the deal.
I was drinking too much for a while. I called her fat (she's getting there) and caustic. She hates me for it.
Your boy ain't backing down, though. Steadfast on not being able to trust her ever again.
And you can't just talk about breaking up. It's sh*t or get off the pot. If you just bring it up as a possibility, she will take that as a pass to fvk around.
You need to detox - from booze and drugs, but also from her. Get away for a long time and calm yourself.