Jesse Pinkman's approach/field reports thread.

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Some great stuff here, Pinkman. Frame is indeed the name of the game. Once you're operating from the right frame(s), everything else seems to fall in place. Plus, I always got a little too in my head to be super effective when focusing on game-y tactics, lines, etc
 

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Some great stuff here, Pinkman. Frame is indeed the name of the game. Once you're operating from the right frame(s), everything else seems to fall in place. Plus, I always got a little too in my head to be super effective when focusing on game-y tactics, lines, etc
You were on point with the last sentence. Whew, finally some positivity from a new guy on my thread lol. Anyways, about to be a busy weekend ahead for game fellas. Stay tuned.
 

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Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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So it has been a hot minute since I posted here and since then, a number of you have DM'd me asking what is up. I have been quite busy in recent weeks. I still go out every weekend but this time, I found some halfway decent wings to hang out with. I have found a few cool spots as well in the city.

I have also started doing MMA after work which has been exhausting on the body but screw it, I always wanted to do it.

As of now, I think it is redundant for me to post my field reports on two different sites. For those of you who are interested in keeping up with my journey, please see my substack below.


I will post very short summaries of my nights on here whenever I get the chance but the actual field reports well be on the site.
 

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Read all about it on my blog but Miami was super dead this weekend, I am making a huge audible to my game plans. I wasted so much time with nightgame this weekend to find almost no sets.
 

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I found some halfway decent wings
Good for you! I've never had a truly good wing in my lifetime.

I wasted so much time with nightgame this weekend to find almost no sets.
I dislike that a lot. I've also had daygame sessions that were complete wastes too.

When most men do nightlife venue sessions, they end up leaving a bar in the early AM hours without pussie, sometimes intoxicated, and usually pissed off about not getting pussie. This is where the term average frustrated chump originated.
 

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A big announcement.

I have been reflecting on the state of affairs on this forum as well as my own life and I have decided that it is time to move on. This will, likely (and likely absolutely), be my last post on So Suave. I think that the forum has gone to sh1t. I have also started my own group chat where like-minded men with healthy and positive views of women are going out there, approaching, and getting results.

My life has also improved a great deal in this past month. I am enjoying more success in various areas of it, making a lot of new friends, getting invited to social circle events, and slowly started to see more success yet again. Some times, I go out and cannot even keep track of the approaches since I am having so much fun. I just do not have as much time for this forum anymore either.

I started this field report journal with the hopes that men who are fed these toxic lies about women and modern dating actually step outside and talk to women themselves. In a way, I wanted to lead by example and there were definitely some highlights on here. I did have success at times and did have a chance to share a unique perspective. In my view, more men doing field reports was going to help this forum hit a new ceiling as we weeded out the people that only talk theory, politics, etc. Unfortunately, that did not happen.

When this journal started, we had a lot of support and a lot of guys also DM'd me thanking me for influencing them to go out and interact with women. It was a huge break from toxic black pill nonsense and theory talks where men were too busy chatting and not actually trying to get better with women. I wanted men to develop healthier and better views of women so they do not end up like these black pilled losers.

Lately, the atmosphere on this forum has not been conductive to threads like this. In fact, this has even been labeled a harassment journal by some regulars. You can even see it in the past few pages, members have come at me for taking action and putting myself out there because it just so happens that I am not getting results as of late compared to earlier in this thread. Nonsense about how I need to get a GF or whatever garbage there is rather than me going out there to enjoy the process.

I do not think that right now, So Suave is at a place where men can successfully go out there and game. I think that the forum is going down the wrong path and I am not too encouraged about its future. The mods did a great job but they can only do so much.

As a result, I am stepping away from So Suave and this will be my last post here. For any of you who want to keep up with my journey, my field reports will be on the site in my sig. Farewell.
 

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A big announcement.

I have been reflecting on the state of affairs on this forum as well as my own life and I have decided that it is time to move on. This will, likely (and likely absolutely), be my last post on So Suave. I think that the forum has gone to sh1t. I have also started my own group chat where like-minded men with healthy and positive views of women are going out there, approaching, and getting results.

My life has also improved a great deal in this past month. I am enjoying more success in various areas of it, making a lot of new friends, getting invited to social circle events, and slowly started to see more success yet again. Some times, I go out and cannot even keep track of the approaches since I am having so much fun. I just do not have as much time for this forum anymore either.

I started this field report journal with the hopes that men who are fed these toxic lies about women and modern dating actually step outside and talk to women themselves. In a way, I wanted to lead by example and there were definitely some highlights on here. I did have success at times and did have a chance to share a unique perspective. In my view, more men doing field reports was going to help this forum hit a new ceiling as we weeded out the people that only talk theory, politics, etc. Unfortunately, that did not happen.

When this journal started, we had a lot of support and a lot of guys also DM'd me thanking me for influencing them to go out and interact with women. It was a huge break from toxic black pill nonsense and theory talks where men were too busy chatting and not actually trying to get better with women. I wanted men to develop healthier and better views of women so they do not end up like these black pilled losers.

Lately, the atmosphere on this forum has not been conductive to threads like this. In fact, this has even been labeled a harassment journal by some regulars. You can even see it in the past few pages, members have come at me for taking action and putting myself out there because it just so happens that I am not getting results as of late compared to earlier in this thread. Nonsense about how I need to get a GF or whatever garbage there is rather than me going out there to enjoy the process.

I do not think that right now, So Suave is at a place where men can successfully go out there and game. I think that the forum is going down the wrong path and I am not too encouraged about its future. The mods did a great job but they can only do so much.

As a result, I am stepping away from So Suave and this will be my last post here. For any of you who want to keep up with my journey, my field reports will be on the site in my sig. Farewell.
Good luck bro. I wish you the best.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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A big announcement.

I have been reflecting on the state of affairs on this forum as well as my own life and I have decided that it is time to move on. This will, likely (and likely absolutely), be my last post on So Suave. I think that the forum has gone to sh1t. I have also started my own group chat where like-minded men with healthy and positive views of women are going out there, approaching, and getting results.

My life has also improved a great deal in this past month. I am enjoying more success in various areas of it, making a lot of new friends, getting invited to social circle events, and slowly started to see more success yet again. Some times, I go out and cannot even keep track of the approaches since I am having so much fun. I just do not have as much time for this forum anymore either.

I started this field report journal with the hopes that men who are fed these toxic lies about women and modern dating actually step outside and talk to women themselves. In a way, I wanted to lead by example and there were definitely some highlights on here. I did have success at times and did have a chance to share a unique perspective. In my view, more men doing field reports was going to help this forum hit a new ceiling as we weeded out the people that only talk theory, politics, etc. Unfortunately, that did not happen.

When this journal started, we had a lot of support and a lot of guys also DM'd me thanking me for influencing them to go out and interact with women. It was a huge break from toxic black pill nonsense and theory talks where men were too busy chatting and not actually trying to get better with women. I wanted men to develop healthier and better views of women so they do not end up like these black pilled losers.

Lately, the atmosphere on this forum has not been conductive to threads like this. In fact, this has even been labeled a harassment journal by some regulars. You can even see it in the past few pages, members have come at me for taking action and putting myself out there because it just so happens that I am not getting results as of late compared to earlier in this thread. Nonsense about how I need to get a GF or whatever garbage there is rather than me going out there to enjoy the process.

I do not think that right now, So Suave is at a place where men can successfully go out there and game. I think that the forum is going down the wrong path and I am not too encouraged about its future. The mods did a great job but they can only do so much.

As a result, I am stepping away from So Suave and this will be my last post here. For any of you who want to keep up with my journey, my field reports will be on the site in my sig. Farewell.
Sorry to hear Jesse that you leaving your journal (and forum) is one of the reasons I came on this forum because it reminded me of my journey when I first began here. The problem is you have some people who have been here for years and still don't have an ounce of success so they are envious, and jealous that you're actually out there doing this. Unfortunately, this forum stopped supporting field reports long ago I remember bytching about it in 2009 but the forum jumped the shark long ago. I recently saw a thread where a guy asked guys for their penis sizes, The loser blackpillers also have infiltrated the forums. The forum will continue to decline especially once AI apps and AI robots become mainstream

Sad day
 
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Bon Voyage.
 

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A big announcement.

I have been reflecting on the state of affairs on this forum as well as my own life and I have decided that it is time to move on. This will, likely (and likely absolutely), be my last post on So Suave. I think that the forum has gone to sh1t. I have also started my own group chat where like-minded men with healthy and positive views of women are going out there, approaching, and getting results.

My life has also improved a great deal in this past month. I am enjoying more success in various areas of it, making a lot of new friends, getting invited to social circle events, and slowly started to see more success yet again. Some times, I go out and cannot even keep track of the approaches since I am having so much fun. I just do not have as much time for this forum anymore either.

I started this field report journal with the hopes that men who are fed these toxic lies about women and modern dating actually step outside and talk to women themselves. In a way, I wanted to lead by example and there were definitely some highlights on here. I did have success at times and did have a chance to share a unique perspective. In my view, more men doing field reports was going to help this forum hit a new ceiling as we weeded out the people that only talk theory, politics, etc. Unfortunately, that did not happen.

When this journal started, we had a lot of support and a lot of guys also DM'd me thanking me for influencing them to go out and interact with women. It was a huge break from toxic black pill nonsense and theory talks where men were too busy chatting and not actually trying to get better with women. I wanted men to develop healthier and better views of women so they do not end up like these black pilled losers.

Lately, the atmosphere on this forum has not been conductive to threads like this. In fact, this has even been labeled a harassment journal by some regulars. You can even see it in the past few pages, members have come at me for taking action and putting myself out there because it just so happens that I am not getting results as of late compared to earlier in this thread. Nonsense about how I need to get a GF or whatever garbage there is rather than me going out there to enjoy the process.

I do not think that right now, So Suave is at a place where men can successfully go out there and game. I think that the forum is going down the wrong path and I am not too encouraged about its future. The mods did a great job but they can only do so much.

As a result, I am stepping away from So Suave and this will be my last post here. For any of you who want to keep up with my journey, my field reports will be on the site in my sig. Farewell.
Bye Felicia
 

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It kind of gets me now why most users prefer to talk theory and debate the non-actionable parts of game rather than post field reports. You make yourself very vulnerable when you post field reports and an easy target. At times, I have thought of only sharing the highlights or only bumping this thread if I get laid and nothing else. However, if I did that, I would not give you the real look into the journey of cold approaching and game.

Could I only post the nights I get laid? Perhaps but then this would be a lay report thread.

Maybe I was foolish to post this field reports thread and at times I do wonder that. I made myself quite vulnerable and really left myself open as an easy target.

But if not for everyone else, its for me. I want something to look back on when I do make it because I know I will. When I look back on the progress I have made from where I started, I am proud. I used to shake at the idea of talking to a hot girl at a bar, now I can do it with ease. I used to get approach anxiety through the roof, now it is gone and I have gotten laid from daygame.

Even though the wins do not line up, the process, what I have built in my life, and the growth has been unreal. Unfortunately, it came off of a lot of losses. Maybe I should have kept the losses to myself.
What’s up bro, sorry I’m just now responding to this message. Haven’t been on SS like that and this got shuffled in my queue.

I totally agree with you here, man. I think it’s best to take lessons from both the successes and the failures. You learn a ton from the failures too, tbh which makes the thread more valuable instead of just a highlight reel that helps your ego more than sharing insights on the board lol. That’s the way I think of it at least.
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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