It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options

[PumpNightmare]

5/21 and going strong. Feeling the violent urge to destroy something like the last time I hit five days. I might try to hit the bars tonight, but all my frineds are out of town for the summer (at least till B session), so it would be alone. Damn, I hate this...Tally is boring now and I'm high energy and horny.

 

[Holland]

Just go out alone, man, to keep the habit.

 

[PumpNightmare]

^
It's not a habit when you've only been at once...a strip bar six months ago....but I haven't tried going to the local bars here to sarge. I might suck up the $20 I need for a cab to get back home and try it tonight (no car). This no masturbation thing really is driving me nuts with loads of energy. Plus the gym seems to given me even more, even though I'm still a little soar.

 

[kav_3]

Yeah i'm at 4/21 right now, and still going strong.

 

[brucevangeorge]

18/21...Day Eighteen, the dreams are getting ridiculous!! Very vivid dreams about fellatio this time. I had some setbacks with girls a had sarged earlier. But I will sarge on...this is a lifestyle now. I'm scheduling what will be a sure thing Saturday with this girl I know just in case I haven't gotten any by then. Missing my long distance LTR right now (not my "girlfriend" tho for distance reasons). The girl from my hometown I had a sexual dream about just called and is coming over tonite. Wednesday I reach my goal and Friday Chickenlegs03 reaches his goal, and I'm definitely taking a second option. This is great! And like I always say SEE YOU AT THE TOP FELLAS!!!

How the hell do you stop that? Tha's one of the reasons I falied so much. It literally drove me nuts. I went to sleep late and woke up earlier because of those crazy ass dreams.

Not only that but I was anxious all the time. Had more emotion than usual. Mostly pissed off. I didn't give a **** about anything.

How do you make that **** go away?

 

[Cranky Monk]

Day 5/21. Weekends are tricky because you have the extra free time to kill. Keep yourself busy, fellas.

 

[MagikDude]

Day 5 of 21, I'm gonna be busy today, which is thankful, because I woke up with wood, meaning the "power trip" mode is about to kick in. I think today I'm going to get some more much needed stuff done, and maybe go off and explore on foot some tonight like I really have been jonesin' to do for the last few weeks.

 

[Holland]

7/21 > 1/21

needed some distraction during my hangover

 

[chickenlegs03]

on day 29 today

had some incredibly vivid dreams last night, and woke up to a massive hard-on.

anyway, guess i'll be heading over to the 6 month challenge soon.

thanks guys for the support and for the great thread that got me started on this.

good luck to the rest of you guys...and hope you can join the other thread soon

 

[Nexxus]

0/21
I was sick the last week so I'm startin' again from 0
so happy finally i can go out again... will definitely do somethin tonight

 

[brucevangeorge]

Looks like I'll give it another shot.

Damn guys. How do you get past all the weird feelings? When you are brimming with energy? The scary-ass vivid dreams? The extreeme horniness?

DAY 1/21

 

[il_duce]

11/21

Had another dream last night. Seriously, I think I've woken up with a hard-on every day since I've started. Don't think I'd feel normal if I didn't.

 

[Budda57]

6/21...Still going strong! My dreams are wild!

 

[piterx]

i failed
restarting..
1/21

 

[PumpNightmare]

6/21
Damn. Its hard to do this with a night like last night. Went to Bullwinkles here in Tally, drank some and danced some. Although, didn't get much conversation in, but its a start. I need to remember to wait till 10~11pm to go instead of 9pm...not much going on till at least 11pm.

 

[Cranky Monk]

Damn! Blew off to porn on day 6...

But that said, I don't feel too bad about it. This is a new record for me, and resisting the urge actually got easier as time passed - helped by the momentum of keeping busy, the habit being present in the moment, and the extra motivation of not breaking the streak.

The effect of the T-boost is quite real. I don't feel very different emotionally and physically, but looking back over my actions and attitudes of the past week, I've been more focused and engaging than my normal behaviour. And I like it!

Day 1 tomrorow!

 

[kav_3]

alright i'm on 6/21, man this is getting harder and harder to resist, yesterday I almost gave in to the urge, but today was the worst so far, damn I wanted to do it so bad, well here to another day.

 

[don juan jr]

Day 1/21 o1 again

 

[brucevangeorge]

2/21

 

[il_duce]

12/21