It Is Easy For Most Women To Move On

[New_Journey]

self-victimising mindset

You confused me with somebody else.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Think its important to mention women in most cases usually have much stronger social circles than men do and these social circles could likely win a Nobel prize for their victimisation therapies

Nothing will be the chicks fault , there will be lot of " you go girls " and "Slay hunny" blah blah the ex BF was a deadbeat she can do so much better yada yada

Men will kind of get a slap on the back maybe a half hearted offer of a beer in a dive bar and then left to get over it alone

I mean when my 4 year LTR fell apart, I don't think anyone so much as batted an eye lid , my Ex was having 24/7 counselling by her toxic friends and parents

I mean "mens mental health" is a heavily virtue signalled topic on social media , but in reality theres not that much support for any type of emotional trauma out there

It is literally just " your a man suck it up and get on with it "

its also a lot harder for older men to find new prospects which can lead to long spells of loneliness and sexlessness

Most Women can fire up a couple of swipe apps and have dates lined up within 24 hours if they wished too

So yea basically what I'm getting at is , theres a much more clear pathway for a woman to get over a breakup

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

Think its important to mention women in most cases usually have much stronger social circles than men do and these social circles could likely win a Nobel prize for their victimisation therapies

Nothing will be the chicks fault , there will be lot of " you go girls " and "Slay hunny" blah blah the ex BF was a deadbeat she can do so much better yada yada

Men will kind of get a slap on the back maybe a half hearted offer of a beer in a dive bar and then left to get over it alone

I mean when my 4 year LTR fell apart, I don't think anyone so much as batted an eye lid , my Ex was having 24/7 counselling by her toxic friends and parents

I mean "mens mental health" is a heavily virtue signalled topic on social media , but in reality theres not that much support for any type of emotional trauma out there

It is literally just " your a man suck it up and get on with it "

its also a lot harder for older men to find new prospects which can lead to long spells of loneliness and sexlessness

Most Women can fire up a couple of swipe apps and have dates lined up within 24 hours if they wished too

So yea basically what I'm getting at is , theres a much more clear pathway for a woman to get over a breakup

some distillation of truth. There is a narrative among women that if a man really wanted to date, he could. He could even get a dime piece without issue. This isn't true, most single men would like to date and have a supply of reliable ass especially during winter season when the loneliness and dry spells cut deeper. The harsh truth today in most metro cities in the USA is that the average man isn't good enough for the average woman. I see this spilling over to Mexico too. What’s the first thing a chick asks you “what do you do”. She don’t care bout your name unless she is genuinely an uncut diamond in the dirt. Even current dating can’t escape h0eflation.

 

[New_Journey]

You mean you were quoting someone else who was talking about how women 'weaponise' our primal urges against us?

Are you not self-victimising here? This 'they're out to get you' attitude is defeatist. And it fosters a negative attitude towards women being the cause of 'f*cking men up'. Not all women are trying to bring men down. The few that are you can easily distinguish if you keep your eyes open and not let your penis make decisions for you.

Read what I wrote, not what you want to read, women's tears can be used as a tool to get men to do what they want, every Alpha who knows about dating knows that, except you, apparently, Mr. Psychologist.

 

[BaronOfHair]

I know that you're afraid of women and the power they seem to sway over you, 'Mr. Alpha'. 'Weaponise men's primal instincts against them'.

Don't try to make this a 'battle between the sexes' when you're just incapable of the emotional self-control and maturity to deal with feeble manipulations on the most basic level imaginary.

The basic knowledge that you can be manipulated by others to do their bidding should've made you skeptical, not fearful.

Many women manipulate others via tears, and many men do likewise with anger/threat displays. Such has been life, likely from the beginning

 

[Vanderdonck]

Many women manipulate others via tears, and many men do likewise with anger/threat displays. Such has been life, likely from the beginning

True. Difference should be this.

Woman: "He manipulated meeeee." [friends and orbiters hug her.]

Man: "Sh*t, I let myself get played. That was dumb."

 

[nismo-4]

No need to overcomplicate it and make it a philosophical treatise.

Most men are clingy betas who hang on for dear life to any kind of pu$$y they can latch onto.

Women bounce back quicker simply because they always have more options, which means they can get over it quicker.

Women always have in their mind "Ah if this doesn't work, I could just DM one of my IG followers." Most men can't really do that unless they're blue-checked lit millionaires.

 

[SW15]

They never move on from that ONE guy. That meme is correct but incomplete. Women can only really love 1 man in a lifetime. If he breaks up with her she will always compare every subsequent man to him. It will be very difficult to snap her out of it. The only way to do this is to be so much better than the ghost of the other guy.

Yes they can move on quickly from 99% of men. This is because they are still not over the man they really wanted. This is why it is so important to be with the girl you imprinted on. Be with the girl that gave you her highest score. You break it you keep it type of thing.

It's always relevant to remind people of @Desdinova and his High Score Theory post. I agree with that idea too.

High Score Theory

Ever notice how women can just write off a guy and treat him like he was only a tiny blip on her radar? Well that's because he was. The more sexually experienced a woman becomes, the more accustomed she is to just throwing guys away. Every new guy she dates seems to earn mediocre to low interest...

www.sosuave.net

That's because women break up emotionally with a man months before they do so physically.

By the time they break up with him physically they are mentally done with him whereas the guy is blindsided many times.

Yes. This is relevant in medium to longer term relationships (1 year+).

It's why I practice stoicism, because it brings me peace when I expect the unexpected; nothing truly surprises me anymore

Any day I could get fired
Any day someone I love could die
Any day there could be a natural disaster
Any day I could find out my spouse is cheating or leaving

It forces me to be completely unattached, but at the same time everything is more beautiful because of it. Mundane moments turn into future memories.

Stoicism is a good idea.

Employers today have zero loyalty and are notorious for doing mass layoffs without zero notice.

The typical woman today is arguably as bad as a typical white collar corporate employer on her lack of loyalty too.

 

[New_Journey]

I know that you're afraid of women and the power they seem to sway over you, 'Mr. Alpha'. 'Weaponise men's primal instincts against them'.

Don't try to make this a 'battle between the sexes' when you're just incapable of the emotional self-control and maturity to deal with feeble manipulations on the most basic level imaginary.

The basic knowledge that you can be manipulated by others to do their bidding should've made you skeptical, not fearful.

Why would I be fearful of a being who can't even make up their minds about anything?

You're projecting what you have in mind, that's why you're writing things that I haven't.

 

[New_Journey]

Many women manipulate others via tears, and many men do likewise with anger/threat displays. Such has been life, likely from the beginning

Women don't have force, they have manipulation. Mr. Psychologist @AmsterdamAssassin should know that. I imagine a woman crying and him embracing her so she can cry on his shoulder like a good emotional tampon hahaha. Your secret is safe with us brother.

There is video to shed some light.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Women don't have force, they have manipulation

Crotch Rot vs Gonorrhea, hombre... Same phenomena. From '17-today, we here in The Post-Industrial West have been pissing away irreplaceable minutes of our lives, desperately trying to prove each other wrong at all costs, rather than honestly sharing thoughts and ideas

 

[New_Journey]

You don't have to become defensive, 'Mr. Alpha'. You're the one using the term 'weaponising' with regards to women manipulating you. Your language betrays your mindset. Like now, not even using the word 'women', but 'being' and taking a superior stance, more evidence that you dehumanise women in order to bring down the 'threat' they pose to your fragile ego.


So, you didn't write:

Huh, I could swear that's your nickname over the quote, not mine.


I do know that, 'Mr. Alpha'. That's why I wrote:

But you didn't read that well, so you come with nonsense like:

I'm sure you imagine a lot, but in this imagination you show your psychological limitation. You yourself are worried about women using you as an 'emotional tampon', which is why you think they 'use their tears as a weapon' to get you to comfort them. And when I say your fears are only justified if you cannot resist their manipulation, you get angry at me and try to ridicule me. And accuse me of projecting, while projecting your fears on me.

Classic. Thanks for the entertainment.

Wow, you got me all figured out my friend