"You are not stealing her, you are just going to be fvcking her, he can keep her!
however If you have the thought in your head that it would be a good idea to turn her into an LTR after she let you see what she is capable of, well don't be surprised if she does the same thing back to you."
DJDamage knocks it out of the park! :rockon:
In anycase for my own comments to add to this I noted that you said the guy seemed cool and chill and all that good stuff.
So other than thinking he may just be naieve and overly trusting did the thought ever enter your mind that he and his girl may be swingers and that he possibly gets off on the idea of other guys boning his woman?
Seems highly likely to me or at least just as likely as him being a naieve AFC.
Its either one of these two things or option three.
Option three is the DJ type of guy who has the foolish mindset that says its ok to not set ground rules and just let my girlfriend hang out with guys I mean if I said she couldn't do that when I'm not around then I'd come off as insecure and lose her oh noes!!!
Then there's the other DJ camp that says something that makes sense but I still don't quite agree with it and these guys say well you can set those kind of ground rules of she can't hang out with so and so guys but then again you can never know for sure what she's doing when you're not around so you may as well not tell her not to hang around other guys when your away to begin with as again there's nothing you can do to stop her from this and hiding it from you if thats what she wants to do.
Anyway the reason I can't agree with these two seemingly sensible realms of thought is because 1. I could give a sh!t less about losing a woman who doesn't want to bend to my will and help me enjoy the lifestyle I've decided will best benefit myself and...
2. While I know she could hide her hanging around with guys from me quite well for a time while I was away at work or doing something else eventually that b!tch would be found out and kicked to the fvcking curb.
My philosophy is as long as you are a strong confident, ****y and funny man that is highly interesting, keeps himself in shape and dresses reasonably well you will worry a lot less about coming off insecure or whiny or needy to a woman or any of that other sh!t but instead you'll come off as arrogant maybe or even assh0lish but in the good ways that turn women on and get them really hot for you and when you've got that going for you, then you are practically unstoppable as when you are like that it then gives the woman the lifetime challenge that all women need and desire and that is to try and break a man down and as long as you don't let them do that and you remain the awesome guy always or at least the majority of the time they will always chase you and bend to your will and give themselves to you freely and if you lose one, two, three or more in the process that is fine as you are what is important here and there will always be a new one just around the corner waiting to suck your d!ck.
