Is it even worth it for a guy like me to try with making moves in-person?

[GoodMan32]

Cute is for girls and puppies, not for boys or men.

I remember when I was in middle school, my mom described one of the male teachers at my school as "cute."

This teacher was in his 40s, had grey hair, and was a large guy. If a woman is into that, fine, but I don't get how anyone would think a man with his description meets the "cute" descriptor.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I remember when I was in middle school, my mom described one of the male teachers at my school as "cute."

This teacher was in his 40s, had grey hair, and was a large guy. If a woman is into that, fine, but I don't get how anyone would think a man with his description meets the "cute" descriptor.

Again, you try to find a justification in the exception, so you can disregard the essence of my comment.

Just get it through your head that whatever you imagine would/should/could happen, if you don't take action, all you imagine is without value if it's not put up to the test.

 

[GoodMan32]

Again, you try to find a justification in the exception, so you can disregard the essence of my comment.

Just get it through your head that whatever you imagine would/should/could happen, if you don't take action, all you imagine is without value if it's not put up to the test.

No, I wasn't saying my mom's comment somehow invalidates your point about "cute" being an undesirable word for a man (when used to describe him).

I was merely adding onto the topic of grown men getting referred to as cute (with a surprising example)

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I was merely adding onto the topic of grown men getting referred to as cute (with a surprising example)

I'm not saying it's a problem if a lover calls you cute, but for a man 'being cute' is not necessarily a positive trait, unless the woman in question is the type to crush on Harry Styles or Justin Timberlake, who are not particularly masculine.

 

[Masculinity]

I've had 9 free sex partners. That being said, the "make a move on a woman in person; get laid" strategy has never gotten me laid.

Of my 9 free partners,

• 7 came from hookup websites.
• 2 just sort of happened (with neither of us making the move).

I've also been on dates with 8 different gals. There's very little overlap between my dates and my intercourse (7 of the 8 gals I've had dates with were sexless).

The "make a move in person; get a date" strategy has only worked on one girl (Back when I was in college. And she was extremely strange. I had to break it off shortly into our relationship. Also, it's worth mentioning: She's one of my many sexless dates).

The rest of my dates came from the following strategies:

• Dating/hookup websites.
• The woman making the move on me.
• The date sort of just happened (with neither of us making the move).

So here's my question: Since making a move in person has given me a 0% success rate at getting laid (and only a minimal success rate at getting a date, with a girl I ended up regretting anyway), is it even worth it for me to try with in-person approaches? Or should I stick with methods that have given me more success (Dating/hookup websites. Waiting for the woman to approach me. Allowing it to just sort of happen, with neither of us making the move)?

One more thing I should mention on my OP: I know many of you are aware of my escort habit. I'm going to request everyone refrain from turning this into an escort thread. This thread isn't about escorts; it's about my successes/failures at getting a free woman (and how to maximize the odds of getting a free woman)

@GoodMan32: What do you mean by "free sex partners?"

 

[GoodMan32]

@GoodMan32: What do you mean by "free sex partners?"

Free sex partners means sex partners I didn't pay for sex.

 

[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

yeah, another reminder that, guys, men, are the only gender that were meant to have mentors