Fruitbat
Master Don Juan
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the world changed 2010-2015. Apps are the places a lot of people go, after that it’s work and friends.Ok. Fair enough. In that case, I guess I'm in the same boat as the typical man (where I have to fail a lot online before I finally succeed). That being said, the fact still remains that I've had better luck online than I've had with making a move in person (which isn't saying much)
By in-person are you envisaging the chance encounter on the street? The enraptured damsel who meets your gaze and is irresistibly drawn to you?
id done marginally better than you at your age but that was down to 1/ being a DJ in my early 20s and 2/ the fairly good number of one night stands from clubbing, holidays and just generally being drunk and/or meeting drunk women.
it’s a bit like the animals at the watering hole. Go where the girls looking for “it” go. Apps are where they go, bars and clubs is where they go. Other than that it’s social circle, social clubs, church (for you Americans, the only people who go to church in UK are devout bible bashers who would want marriage first!) and work.
Usually in the work/social group you have to be pretty sure before asking but that’s cool, as women make it super easy for you and make it obvious usually if they want your time and attention. There’s no ambiguity when a woman wants to date you, they are either super chatty or act embarrassed yet very friendly. Either is easy to pick.