That's a problem if you're giving off this impression.
Being neurodivergent makes getting laid and getting into longer term relationships more difficult. The fact that you've had sex with 9 women without directly paying for it as a neurodivergent male is a good accomplishment.
The current sexual marketplace is difficult for neurotypical males. It's even more difficult for neurodivergent males.
Moving fast is often a good idea if the primary goal is solely to get laid.
Moving fast is not as good of an idea if you're seeking something longer term. Even for men who want something longer term, it is better to make a move towards that sooner than later.
I don't think you're too sex crazed. The problem is more of the fact that you are making the best possible impression and that's lowering their attraction for you. No woman is telling a 6'0"+ man with lower body fat, a nice tan, and nice muscle definition that he's too sex crazed.
I appreciate you telling me it's an accomplishment that I've gotten laid by 9 unpaid partners. Even if some were way below me in terms of looks, is it still an accomplishment? (I remember one woman from craigslist who never shared a picture with me before meeting up. When she showed up at my place, I thought to myself "I won't be able to do this"...because of how ugly she was. Yet I banged her anyway).
Regardless of your answer to the question I just asked, the hookup website game is a lot different today than in 2012 (6 of my 7 successes from hookup websites took place in 2012).
Overall, here's how I'd describe the looks of my free sex partners (I am going to list my free partners in chronological order):
First woman (craigslist): good looks
Second woman (craigslist): she's the one I mentioned where I thought to myself "I won't be able to do this"
Third woman (craigslist): decent looks if you're ok with thickness (which I am); she was wayyyyy older than me though (which wasn't a problem for me, but would be for a lot of men)
Fourth woman (craigslist): good looks
Fifth woman (datehookup): fat and ugly
Sixth woman (craigslist): good looks
Seventh woman (craigslist): She's the one free partner I had ongoing sex with. She was a married woman who had a month-long affair with me. I'd call her average in terms of looks (She was fat, which wasn't a problem for me. And she was way older than me, which also wasn't a problem for me)
Eighth woman (met in person): fat and ugly
Ninth woman (met in person): beautiful, 13 years older than me
The thing with moving fast; what you're saying is true, it makes sense to move fast if you want a sex-focused relationship. The problem is when I've moved fast outside of hookup websites, I end up scaring the woman away (The 2 free women I successfully nailed outside of hookup websites, I didn't necessarily try to move fast with. The first free woman just sort of happened right after we met; without deliberate effort on my part. The 2nd free woman, I had flirted with off and on for 2 years before finally getting sex from her. On the day I finally got sex from her, it just sort of happened though, without me putting in effort).
I've shared some images of myself with a few posters on here by DM. I don't remember if I've shared any with you. If you'd like to get an idea of what I'm working with (looks-wise), I'd be willing to share with you on DM.