Is cheating ok

[Last Man Standing]

after research I found that getting std's from protected sex is low risk. herpes is a problem but not dangerious. recieving head is extreamly low. but giving oral is bad. Kissing is very low risk.

everyone(religious people) are trying to scare us with the one in a million

If you had herpes - would you tell girls this before you get any action?

 

[HoneyHitter]

ur an idiot. i hope u have as many broken relationships as possible, just as long as u get ur fine STD'd pvssy.
u steal from sumone and told them that u never promised u wouldnt do it too?

Thanks for the mature response.
FYI, I have never ****ed any of my friends' girlfriends. I don't like to destroy valuable friendships, so I'm really careful with that. I was just illustrating the shortcomings of d9930380's summary of the ten commandments.

 

[wolf116]

If you had herpes - would you tell girls this before you get any action?

yeah that would suck. I dont know man. herpes is worse than I though.
I don't want to think about it.
Herpes is more easily transmitted from men to women. (copy and past)

Have you seen "the secret" thread, just think of yourself as lucky and healthy and you will never get it (joke)

 

[wolf116]

STD's are crap. there not commen! I'm never going to get one.

 

[The__Substitute]

STD's are crap. there not commen! I'm never going to get one.

LOL now that's funny

you are in for a big surprise..... I highly suggest you wrap it up and lose that mentality very quickly for you and your future partners sake..... you have the making of a guy that will get an STD and be all pissed off when he finds out and spread it to as many girls as you can because of your spite. Be careful.

 

[HoneyHitter]

Have you seen "the secret" thread, just think of yourself as lucky and healthy and you will never get it (joke)

:crackup:

 

[d9930380]

wolf116 - Yea STDs are a part of life now, wear a condom and don't worry about it. If you get anything, well you could have been equally unlucky and got cancer or something else. We'll all die of something sometime. I grew up during the start of Aids and it scared the **** out of me, so much so I didn't want to have sex. I still fear it and it seriously screws my game, even though I've done drugs and other stuff, Aids is the one that paralized me with fear. And ironically there probably wasn't any cases in my country until a few years ago so I would have been fine like everyone else who was ****ing all round them. The others I can live with!

As for going beyond looking, talk first. You aren't sure yet where her boundaries are. Alot of girls love when they go out with their guy and he's being hit on and she's being hit on BUT she knows they're going home togeather. It makes them wet to know how popular her guy is and she has him. It's a game however if you do anything to make it a reality then it ****s that up because now she feels insecure because she thinks another girl can come along and take you. Insecurity isn't a bad thing neccessairly however when people are insecure then they force you to proove your intentions and that leads to alot of grief. If I was with her I would be playing on the bi-sexual angle, she finds other girls hot, she's young enough to want to "experiment" and by giving her more experience with girls you might diminish her desire to go with other guys, Win/Win really. However be subtle and slow and if you do manage it, make sure you give your girlfriend most of the attention to begin with because there will still be jealousy issues and she has to "believe" she can NEVER be replaced for this to work. It has to be about her with the other girl not you with the other girl. At least the first few times ;-) A lesbian I knew pulled straight girls easier than any player on this forum, alot of girls have no problem with it.

As for your arguments against what I was saying about the 10 commandments (really just the first two), it would work if everyone followed those rules (proven mathematically by Nash, the dude from a "Beautful Mind") however we don't. As for comparing secular countries to non-secular coutries. Secular countries are also much more wealthy, violence is bread in poverty. Plus I don't believe in organised religions because most just use it for control from Constintine onwards.

 

[Raikojo17]

Yeah man I'm soo glad I talked to her about this.

In the old days I would haved cried if she told me she kissed someone else. Now I know I have options, and it's like well I'm gona do stuff now. I feel like I have the power. Now I check out girls infront of her and she hits me. But it makes her like me more, its strange. She knows if she isnt treating me right im gone. not like when I was an afc and I was wraped around her finger.

Im going to try and sex another girl soon. she dosen't need to know yet.

If she sexed another guy that she diden't have feelings for, I would get over it. Only If I had ****ed another girl tho. Because I would be like, so have I, and wouldent loose the power, and I think she would actually respect me more. because she knows I have options but am staying with her. But if I had been faithful and she cheated. I would dump her.Cos I would feel like a pu$$y and would probibly cry like one.
Then the best thing that ever happined to me would be over. I really want to stay with this girl.

ps. I dont think std's are much of a risk if i wear a condom. It's like the same risk as shareing your drink bottle.

u guys seem to have the definition of a pu$$y messed up. u dont become a man and have power in a relationship be bein a scum ball and cheatin on ur girl at every turn. she will not respect u for not bein faithful. if she cheated and u didnt, u would not be a sap, u would be the bigger person because u could control urself and not cheat. if u did cheat that would make u the pu$$y. cheating just because u think she is is a pu$$y, very AFC move, because only people who r insecure cheat. people who r confident in their relationship r not tempted to cheat because they dont need anything else or want it. they dont feel like they r missing anything, they wont cheat. only insecure wimps cheat. she would respect u more if u didnt cheat than dumped her for cheating, than if u told her "so did I". then she would think there was no point in the relationship, and then she wouldnt be sorry or guilty anymore. and what if u cheated and she didnt? she would be the bigger person cause she was confident in her position with u. u would look like the wimp who needs pu$$y to show that he is a man. u would look stupid and she would look good.
cheating doesnt show u have options, it jus shows that u have no control and r a lier. be the bigger man, dont cheat just because u think she is. that's a pu$$y move.

 

[wolf116]

Interesting way of looking at it. Some of it may be true.

But I just dont tkink a guy who is getting lots of sex and then some more could be discribed as an afc wimp. afc's find it hard to get sex, not easy.

 

[Raikojo17]

Interesting way of looking at it. Some of it may be true.

But I just dont tkink a guy who is getting lots of sex and then some more could be discribed as an afc wimp. afc's find it hard to get sex not easy.

actually, the reverse is true. AFC's can and do get sex. some get alot of sex. they gets girls, but dont keep them. the challenge is keeping girls, not just getting them. sex is the easiest to get. heck, all u gotta do to get sex if go find a slut who will give it to u or a prostitute,lol. or get a girls drunk and see the magic happen. AFC's dont find it hard to get sex, it's just hard to keep it because they drive the women away and turn them off with their sissy behavior.

 

[wolf116]

d9980380, I like the way you think

I've been working hard on the bi-sexual card this weekend.

Man, I think this is going to be easy. I can't believe I diden't see this before.

I actually got her to maserbate over a video of some chick stripping. wow she said she has done it b4 but has been to embarased to say and she diden't want me to see some naked chick. Shes cool with it now tho.

But she wont go out looking for some real chick because she is to scared.

 

[wolf116]

actually, the reverse is true. AFC's can and do get sex. some get alot of sex. they gets girls, but dont keep them. the challenge is keeping girls, not just getting them. sex is the easiest to get. heck, all u gotta do to get sex if go find a slut who will give it to u or a prostitute,lol. or get a girls drunk and see the magic happen. AFC's dont find it hard to get sex, it's just hard to keep it because they drive the women away and turn them off with their sissy behavior.

AFC's do not get free sex with hot babes. just fat pigs. most are virgins. Sluts dont screw AFC's.

Even drunk sluts were too hard for me when I was an AFC. You still need the balls to talk about sex and be able to make them horny. Then lead them to the bushes. I was to scared of rejection.

If what you say is true. most guys would love to be an AFC. So that they get lots of sex with no strings attached.

BTW i like sluts, they're not hearting anyone. only giving guys more sex. I wish people dident think being a slut is a bed thing.

 

[Raikojo17]

AFC's do not get free sex with hot babes. just fat pigs. most are virgins. Sluts dont screw AFC's.

Even drunk sluts were too hard for me when I was an AFC. You still need the balls to talk about sex and be able to make them horny. Then lead them to the bushes. I was to scared of rejection.

If what you say is true. most guys would love to be an AFC. So that they get lots of sex with no strings attached.

BTW i like sluts, they're not hearting anyone. only giving guys more sex. I wish people dident think being a slut is a bed thing.

but no one said AFC's dont have balls. alot of them have balls to walk up to chicks and talk to them. alot of AFC's even have gf's. they do get sex from hot babes, the slut ones that is. even if they do get sex from fat pigs, they still get sex. sex is sex, no matter who it's coming from. again, it's not that AFC's dont get sex, they just cant keep it, because they fawn over those women and treat them like gods so much that the women get bored and leave them for someone else who is mre attractive. AFC's do attract women, some do, but they just cant keep them unless they get lucky.
and yes, sluts r bad because they r not quality woman. they r not a challenge to get. they give it up to anything, that's y they suck. sex is not the end or at bein a DJ is about. sex is just part of a relationship and the easiest part to get. to win over someones affections so that they actually love u, that is a relationship. DJ's look for real women, not FVck buddies. and apparently if u think sluts arent hurting anyone, u havent heard of the hundreds of STD's that kill and hurt people everyday. and dont tell me that it's a myth, because i kno sumone personally who got and STD from a slut.

 

[BustedKnucks]

If she is actually your girlfriend and you love each other, don't fool around. If it's some girl you went on 3 dates with and barely know, go ahead and hit on anything that walks as long as she isn't around, just don't be surprised when she does it to you.

 

[wolf116]

raikojo. If you think sex is sex. you can go slap Dumbo's ass. But I'll stick whith fine, healthy, athletic women.

When I was young all my friends were AFC's. all virgins! A few were in Pu$$y
whipted relationships but they wont leave because they know they wont get anything else.

The guys that wern't AFC's got lots of sex with out a LTR.

Who cares if sluts aint a chalange. dosen't make them bad. Some guys want easy sex sometimes. I have a good friend who is a slut and she is a very nice, careing person. Your friend knew the risk of sex. It's his fault.

If you go into a boxing match and get hurt. It's your fault. the other guy is not evi.

 

[Raikojo17]

raikojo. If you think sex is sex. you can go slap Dumbo's ass. But I'll stick whith fine, healthy, athletic women.

When I was young all my friends were AFC's. all virgins! A few were in Pu$$y
whipted relationships but they wont leave because they know they wont get anything else.

The guys that wern't AFC's got lots of sex with out a LTR.

Who cares if sluts aint a chalange. dosen't make them bad. Some guys want easy sex sometimes. I have a good friend who is a slut and she is a very nice, careing person. Your friend knew the risk of sex. It's his fault.

If you go into a boxing match and get hurt. It's your fault. the other guy is not evi.

of course it's his fault, but it's hers to for bein a slut. granted some guys want easy sex, but im not that guy. sex feels better if u get it from a challenge than if u just pay 10 bucks and have the hooker on the corner do u. im not saying AFC's r pimps, im saying some of them do get sex and alot of it. most r in pvssy whipped relationshipd because of their AFC behavior. that's wat makes them AFC. i for one would prefer quality sex over quantity. so a slut would not be in my target zone. sluts r boring cause all they have to offer is sex. i can get sex by typing in "porn" on google sitting here right now.

 

[wolf116]

I would have great, quality, experienced slut sex anyday over Imaginary sex.

Sure I woulden't have a LTR with a slut. but I sure would screw one.

Sluts are fun to be around. They give guys experience for when it counts.

I just dont think you should judge people for wanting lots of sex. male or female. its natural

Did your friend wear a condom? what did he catch?

 

[Raikojo17]

I would have great, quality, experienced slut sex anyday over Imaginary sex.

Sure I woulden't have a LTR with a slut. but I sure would screw one.

Sluts are fun to be around. They give guys experience for when it counts.

I just dont think you should judge people for wanting lots of sex. male or female. its natural

Did your friend wear a condom? what did he catch?

im not judging, im just stating my opinion on it. it is natural, but there is more to it than just sex.
but he always wears condoms and he caught Chlamydia

 

[wolf116]

$h!t thats a bit scary

 

[The__Substitute]

Chlamydia at least that one can be easily cured....lucky it wasnt herpes, or warts