I'm so nervous for my first experience.

[nelysses]

I don't understand how you can have left more than 300 comments here on the forum if you only had sex for the first time yesterday... Go out more, leave this forum alone, it's useless to ask for advice if you don't get involved, we're not psychologists

Should I be honest? I was already taking medication for OCD

By the way, I have another question. This one got lost in the problems I mentioned, but it's probably the only fixable problem. I get erect when I watch porn and masturbate or look at girls' pictures. But yesterday I couldn't get erect as much as I wanted. On top of that, the girl was tense and I could barely get into her. When I asked, she said I don't know but I was tense a little.

Do you have any ideas about this erection problem? Could it be a result of porn and masturbation? Or it can be a real problem?

Also, I rejected the girl because Everything was fine about sex but then we ate and drank something for 3-4 hours and I got really bored. So I wanted it to end. I don't know, I don't want someone in my life just for sex. Also, I paid rental apartment was really expensive for a student. I can pay it once a month.
I don't know man yesterday I didn't want it. That night we talked but I didn't want to talk. I liked to have sex but I was bored with her.

But thank you guys you helped a lot. I will quit watching porn and masturbate. Also sex was like "Did I waited this for 21 years??" It didn't matter much. I didn't feel much.

 

[corrector]

Should I be honest? I was already taking medication for OCD

By the way, I have another question. This one got lost in the problems I mentioned, but it's probably the only fixable problem. I get erect when I watch porn and masturbate or look at girls' pictures. But yesterday I couldn't get erect as much as I wanted. On top of that, the girl was tense and I could barely get into her. When I asked, she said I don't know but I was tense a little.

Do you have any ideas about this erection problem? Could it be a result of porn and masturbation? Or it can be a real problem?

Also, I rejected the girl because Everything was fine about sex but then we ate and drank something for 3-4 hours and I got really bored. So I wanted it to end. I don't know, I don't want someone in my life just for sex. Also, I paid rental apartment was really expensive for a student. I can pay it once a month.
I don't know man yesterday I didn't want it. That night we talked but I didn't want to talk. I liked to have sex but I was bored with her.

But thank you guys you helped a lot. I will quit watching porn and masturbate. Also sex was like "Did I waited this for 21 years??" It didn't matter much. I didn't feel much.

Misery likes company. You have me tipping my hat to your recent posts. I looked.at VR of some bikini girls, life sized and felt like puking at myself afterwards for doing that. Do you know what it is like to be sick with yourself? Until you are really there it may be an uphill battle.

 

[Learning Curve]

I'm 21 but yes my first time. I was going to try every position but it didn't work. As I said I couldn't get hard. She said it didn't matter but we couldn't do it in the end. I could only get in with a condom once. It was missionary.
Since it didn't get hard when I put on a condom anyway, we tried it without a condom. Again, it didn't get hard as I wanted so it didn't get in. Maybe just a little bit from the tip.
But for 2 days I've been thinking about whether she could get pregnant even in that sequence or whether I could get a virus. I even went to the hospital and took an antibody test.
My hard-on probably happened because I've been masturbating too much for years. I undressed the girl anyway but let me be honest I was like "Is this what sex is?" The breasts felt great and they were but I exaggerated a little. I didn't enjoy it to be honest. As I said I think it could be from too much porn and masturbation. It's like %50 erection. But right now my primary fear is an unwanted pregnancy and viruses

She definitely didn't want a bl0wjob. I gave her oral sex, sucked her breasts, etc. but at the end of the day it was mostly like foreplay. She didn't worry about it, she just laughed because it was fun. She said she would do it again later, but I said I didn't want it.
Anyway, when the girl wanted to be a ****buddy I said I didn't want it again and she blocked me.

I'm overthinking I know..

Talking from experience: Stop watching porn. That's your first step. This is psychological.

Second step: go get Cialis 20mg minimum not a lower doseage this will make your **** harder then anything you experienced before.

Third step: Invite her over and 30 minutes prior to that take Cialis.

Do that once, and your problem will be solved, it works wonders on many guys. Because it destroys the psychological barier.

 

[corrector]

Talking from experience: Stop watching porn. That's your first step. This is psychological.

Second step: go get Cialis 20mg minimum not a lower doseage this will make your **** harder then anything you experienced before.

Third step: Invite her over and 30 minutes prior to that take Cialis.

Do that once, and your problem will be solved, it works wonders on many guys. Because it destroys the psychological barier.

He rejected her because she is too boring. She blocked him. Him taking pills wont make her less boring to him.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Third step: Invite her over and 30 minutes prior to that take Cialis.

I'd wait until she's actually in your apartment.

 

[nelysses]

Talking from experience: Stop watching porn. That's your first step. This is psychological.

Second step: go get Cialis 20mg minimum not a lower doseage this will make your **** harder then anything you experienced before.

Third step: Invite her over and 30 minutes prior to that take Cialis.

Do that once, and your problem will be solved, it works wonders on many guys. Because it destroys the psychological barier.

Is it better to go a doctor?

He rejected her because she is too boring. She blocked him. Him taking pills wont make her less boring to him.

Actually I didn't bored. I just think that will be amazing but that was just a normal thing. I didn't feel like "woww". For first time I had bigger thoughts.
After this incident, when I told herI didn't want it again, we fought. Then we made up again and fought again and again...
It went to a toxic place. In addition to the points I was ashamed of such as not being able to get an erection and penis size, I actually got bored after sex.

I don't have enough money to rent an apartment all the time. I don't know where else I can have sex.

After all that fighting, she said he wanted to have a drink tomorrow. We'll have a drink for 1 hour and talk. I want him, but since all my interest is gone after masturbation, I give up and we fight.


By the way she said she like dirty talk. I don't know wtf is that

 

[Learning Curve]

Is it better to go a doctor?

No, work on your psychology, and learn to relax when you are with a woman in bed.

You should enjoy the process, you are overthinking it i know and you are loosing your erection, stop doing that, do what i told you if you can't handle it for the first times, eventually you will handle it.