I'm so nervous for my first experience.

[manfromitaly]

It depends on whether your penis is very hard or not when erect, because a problem you might encounter is that it is too narrow at the end and could make you lose erection, I use a brand of condoms called Skyn Large version and I'm happy with it

Are all condoms are same? I think I should buy a standart.

 

[nelysses]

It depends on whether your penis is very hard or not when erect, because a problem you might encounter is that it is too narrow at the end and could make you lose erection, I use a brand of condoms called Skyn Large version and I'm happy with it

I don't know and of course I don't have the chance to try them all Will the standard work?

 

[manfromitaly]

Try those, and if it goes bad, what do you care, let them take it in your mouth lol. Don't worry too much, you don't have to prove anything to anyone, you said you're just attracted to her boobs, play with them

 

[nelysses]

Try those, and if it goes bad, what do you care, let them take it in your mouth lol. Don't worry too much, you don't have to prove anything to anyone, you said you're just attracted to her boobs, play with them

I will Try Thank you guys.

 

[Lotus Effect]

I am amazed to see so many ‘veterans’ chiming into this thread, which is clearly a fvcking joke.

 

[nelysses]

I am amazed to see so many ‘veterans’ chiming into this thread, which is clearly a fvcking joke.

What Joke? I'm a med student man. When you know every results of illness and when you see too many patients you really afraid of them. I just afraid of that illnesses.

 

[BPH]

I am amazed to see so many ‘veterans’ chiming into this thread, which is clearly a fvcking joke.

Unfortunately, it's not, he's really this naive...

 

[corrector]

At first I had physical reservations. Then I wondered if there might be cameras where I was going. Then I started to think if there was AIDS.... Sometimes I just want my mind to be quiet.

Wow. You are making this sound like you are visiting a hor in a brothel. Are you sure you are her second experience? Who was her first experience with? You think it was with a chad/manhor type of guy that passed some STDs to her?

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

What can I do about these fears?

Behold, the great equalizer

 

[nelysses]

Unfortunately, it's not, he's really this naive...

Wow. You are making this sound like you are visiting a hor in a brothel. Are you sure you are her second experience? Who was her first experience with? You think it was with a chad/manhor type of guy that passed some STDs to her?

It depends on whether your penis is very hard or not when erect, because a problem you might encounter is that it is too narrow at the end and could make you lose erection, I use a brand of condoms called Skyn Large version and I'm happy with it

We met and it was great. Apart from 1-2 problems. big problems.. I used a condom at first but after a while we tried it without a condom.. It was more like friction. But here comes the second problem because I couldn't get hard and I couldn't get inside the girl. When I put on a condom, the little hardness I had went away. Just for this reason we tried it without a condom but it didn't go in either. Now my only regret is trying it without a condom. Even though the girl said it wasn't a problem, it was also upsetting not being able to get inside her.

 

[nelysses]

Unfortunately, it's not, he's really this naive...

It depends on whether your penis is very hard or not when erect, because a problem you might encounter is that it is too narrow at the end and could make you lose erection, I use a brand of condoms called Skyn Large version and I'm happy with it

I mean, it was more like she was touching it from the outside. It went in very, very little. I was wearing a condom 90% of the time, but I hope nothing happens. She rubbed it without a condom to make me get an erection. I think she won't get pregnant or anything. I hope so.. Besides, I didn't get an erection anyway. I guess because of too much porn and masturbation.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I actually liked that he knew I was a virgin. I hope your performance is good, he says, and I just say I don't know.
I've never used a condom, but I don't think it'll be a big problem. I'll go to the market and buy a standard one. I don't even know the size
I rented an apartment for 2 hours. Since it's my first experience, I don't think it'll last 2 hours. I seriously don't know anything.

"He"?

I know...I know...Turkish only has one word for that, "o" and it means he/she/it. My Dad constantly screws those up also still after almost 50 years of English speaking

 

[nelysses]

"He"?

I know...I know...Turkish only has one word for that, "o" and it means he/she/it. My Dad constantly screws those up also still after almost 50 years of English speaking

Yeah but it's about translate
And I have bigger problems..
I can may be solve erection but i really afraid of something like pregnancy etc.
Maybe Im overthinking

 

[corrector]

We met and it was great. Apart from 1-2 problems. big problems.. I used a condom at first but after a while we tried it without a condom.. It was more like friction. But here comes the second problem because I couldn't get hard and I couldn't get inside the girl. When I put on a condom, the little hardness I had went away. Just for this reason we tried it without a condom but it didn't go in either. Now my only regret is trying it without a condom. Even though the girl said it wasn't a problem, it was also upsetting not being able to get inside her.

Was this doggie style? This is the most arousing position
, imo, and she is not looking at you. Not sure if that is easier than missionary.

 

[Learning Curve]

I met a girl. Let me be clear, we don't have an emotional connection but I liked her breasts. We're going to do something tomorrow. I rented an apartment for 2 hours.

But I just masturbated today to looking her body vid. and my body is still in bad shape. Therefore, my penis is also short. I'm afraid of all these.

The girl knows I'm a virgin and didn't have any problems, in fact she liked it. It will be her second experience. I also have fears about AIDS.

What can I do about these fears? I have tons of things in my mind like what if I can't get an erection because I masturbate, what if I ejaculate early, what if she's short, what if I catch a virus, what if the place I rent is unsafe.

Time to grow up and grow a set of B@@lz.

You sound like an immature kid, how old are you?

 

[nelysses]

Time to grow up and grow a set of B@@lz.

You sound like an immature kid, how old are you?

Was this doggie style? This is the most arousing position
, imo, and she is not looking at you. Not sure if that is easier than missionary.

I'm 21 but yes my first time. I was going to try every position but it didn't work. As I said I couldn't get hard. She said it didn't matter but we couldn't do it in the end. I could only get in with a condom once. It was missionary.
Since it didn't get hard when I put on a condom anyway, we tried it without a condom. Again, it didn't get hard as I wanted so it didn't get in. Maybe just a little bit from the tip.
But for 2 days I've been thinking about whether she could get pregnant even in that sequence or whether I could get a virus. I even went to the hospital and took an antibody test.
My hard-on probably happened because I've been masturbating too much for years. I undressed the girl anyway but let me be honest I was like "Is this what sex is?" The breasts felt great and they were but I exaggerated a little. I didn't enjoy it to be honest. As I said I think it could be from too much porn and masturbation. It's like %50 erection. But right now my primary fear is an unwanted pregnancy and viruses.


She definitely didn't want a bl0wjob. I gave her oral sex, sucked her breasts, etc. but at the end of the day it was mostly like foreplay. She didn't worry about it, she just laughed because it was fun. She said she would do it again later, but I said I didn't want it.
Anyway, when the girl wanted to be a ****buddy I said I didn't want it again and she blocked me.

I'm overthinking I know..

 

[manfromitaly]

My friend, inexperience is fine but it seems like you have done everything possible to self-sabotage.

The day before the meeting were you worried about contracting AIDS and you went to perform oral sex on her?

Even though the sex was a disaster, luckily for you she still wanted to see you and you told her no. Why?

You could have taken advantage of the situation to improve but instead you threw it away. You seem very very inexperienced and insecure, work on yourself, improve your social skills, stop watching porn and try to meet new women.

You are still young, you have your whole life ahead of you

 

[manfromitaly]

I don't understand how you can have left more than 300 comments here on the forum if you only had sex for the first time yesterday... Go out more, leave this forum alone, it's useless to ask for advice if you don't get involved, we're not psychologists

 

[nelysses]

I don't understand how you can have left more than 300 comments here on the forum if you only had sex for the first time yesterday... Go out more, leave this forum alone, it's useless to ask for advice if you don't get involved, we're not psychologists

Should I be honest? I was already taking medication for OCD

By the way, I have another question. This one got lost in the problems I mentioned, but it's probably the only fixable problem. I get erect when I watch porn and masturbate or look at girls' pictures. But yesterday I couldn't get erect as much as I wanted. On top of that, the girl was tense and I could barely get into her. When I asked, she said I don't know but I was tense a little.

Do you have any ideas about this erection problem? Could it be a result of porn and masturbation? Or it can be a real problem?

Also, I rejected the girl because Everything was fine about sex but then we ate and drank something for 3-4 hours and I got really bored. So I wanted it to end. I don't know, I don't want someone in my life just for sex. Also, I paid rental apartment was really expensive for a student. I can pay it once a month.
I don't know man yesterday I didn't want it. That night we talked but I didn't want to talk. I liked to have sex but I was bored with her.

But thank you guys you helped a lot. I will quit watching porn and masturbate. Also sex was like "Did I waited this for 21 years??" It didn't matter much. I didn't feel much.

 

[corrector]

Should I be honest? I was already taking medication for OCD

By the way, I have another question. This one got lost in the problems I mentioned, but it's probably the only fixable problem. I get erect when I watch porn and masturbate or look at girls' pictures. But yesterday I couldn't get erect as much as I wanted. On top of that, the girl was tense and I could barely get into her. When I asked, she said I don't know but I was tense a little.

Do you have any ideas about this erection problem? Could it be a result of porn and masturbation? Or it can be a real problem?

Also, I rejected the girl because Everything was fine about sex but then we ate and drank something for 3-4 hours and I got really bored. So I wanted it to end. I don't know, I don't want someone in my life just for sex. Also, I paid rental apartment was really expensive for a student. I can pay it once a month.
I don't know man yesterday I didn't want it. That night we talked but I didn't want to talk. I liked to have sex but I was bored with her.

But thank you guys you helped a lot. I will quit watching porn and masturbate. Also sex was like "Did I waited this for 21 years??" It didn't matter much. I didn't feel much.

Misery likes company. You have me tipping my hat to your recent posts. I looked.at VR of some bikini girls, life sized and felt like puking at myself afterwards for doing that. Do you know what it is like to be sick with yourself? Until you are really there it may be an uphill battle.