I'm a Daddy (I think)!!!

[backbreaker]

No one has said this isn't potentially a wonderful thing, and no matter what if a baby is born..congrats!!

But at the same time, there are SO many questions and issues that arise from this, mainly from things he has posted about in the past, that it is for sure worth at least discussing. BB is the one who went off the deep end when someone dared question him......again.

I seriously have to get ready to go... but i'l say this.. I wouldn't be who I am if it weren't for this place.. i have no problem with crisitism.. I have a problem with crisitism from people who sit at home and eat doritos all day and jack off to porn all night and don't live life (not reffering to you, just in general)

the only gripe I have with you is the timing.. now (on a vacation, just finding out I am going to be a dad for the first time less than 48 hours ago) is not the time nor the place for questions like that.

 

[azanon]

Wait, Azanon, is successful. Azanon, how do you tend to take criticism? (Hey, he's from Little Rock, too.)

Oh, ......... i'm sure that's open to opinion, including my own. Perfectly, not even close....., and there are a few examples here where I either overreacted, misunderstood, or both. But I certainly hope I continue to stop short of insulting the entire forum and its members.

 

[backbreaker]

I seriously have to get ready to go... but i'l say this.. I wouldn't be who I am if it weren't for this place.. i have no problem with crisitism.. I have a problem with crisitism from people who sit at home and eat doritos all day and jack off to porn all night and don't live life (not reffering to you, just in general)

the only gripe I have with you is the timing.. now (on a vacation, just finding out I am going to be a dad for the first time less than 48 hours ago) is not the time nor the place for questions like that.

and to bible belt's point.. he's dead on.. I'm the only guy I know without kids.. my 20 year old cousin has 3.. my mom keeps asking me when she's going to be a grandmother..

gotta go, GF yelling!

 

[cordoncordon]

Financially maybe not..who knows. But knowing from what he has posted about in the past, mainly his love for gambling, living free, and horses, there will without a doubt be a major lifestyle change.

And again, i go back to her. Here you have I believe an older English white woman, having a child with a much younger black man, after a very short amount of time in their relationship. That right there is something many people aren't 100% for. I have nothing against that whatsoever, but who knows about her family? Her friends? What about her career as a horse trainer? i've trained horses for 20 years and I can tell you the two don't mix..having a child and caring for it and training. There is just so much to consider here and it would have been nice for BB to talk about this civilly without going off of the deep end. After all, he is the one who has posted about this woman so much in the past.

 

[cordoncordon]

BB just because your family or friends have had many kids at a young age, doesn't make it right. That is one huge problem in America today...fatherless children. Kids without a strong parental upbringing. Too many children. Teenage pregnancies. Kids born out of wedlock.

Anyway, have a safe and fun trip, and maybe when you come back this can be discussed further by you.

 

[backbreaker]

BB just because your family or friends have had many kids at a young age, doesn't make it right. That is one huge problem in America today...fatherless children. Kids without a strong parental upbringing. Too many children. Teenage pregnancies. Kids born out of wedlock.

Anyway, have a safe and fun trip, and maybe when you come back this can be discussed further by you.

I have as I can tell about a 5 hour layover in about 7 hours.. I'll be on then at the airport. gotta love wifi

 

[speakeasy]

Goddamned! Melbourne to Paris? What is that, like a 50 hour flight??? Jesus Christ.

 

[backbreaker]

22 1/2 hours. so by this time tomorrow exactly, because my flight leaves in an hour and a half, I'll be in paris..

 

[cordoncordon]

Isn't that like a $6-$7,000 ticket each?

 

[speakeasy]

Isn't that like a $6-$7,000 ticket each?

I don't even think first class would be that expensive. Those are the kind of prices the concorde use to charge.

 

[backbreaker]

1. that's why i said read more and post less. it wasn't a slight against you... I have money from when I sold my company. 7 figures. I'm fine financally. with that said... I'm am having the best year ever at the track.. I've made over 400k so far with about 1/4th of that coming on one race, the pacific classic. And I won't get into speceifcs but it wasn't cheap. then again.. neither is flying to melborne from kentucky. not only that.. I'm going to have to buy a suitable suit when I get there as I didn't bring one, and I have to buy her something to wear. you just can't walk into longchamp wearing jeans and a "Go Dylan Thomas" tee shirt if you know what i mean

with that said, i need to find a track, or figure out something because I LOVE a horse in the indiana derby that's going to go off every bit of 20 to 1 tomorrow

 

[backbreaker]

I don't even think first class would be that expensive. Those are the kind of prices the concorde use to charge.

yeah it wasn't bad...and we had to fly coach because first class was booked so about 3500 for both of us

 

[cordoncordon]

BB, lets just hope that your story of having all this money is truer than that "story" of you posting that pic and claiming to date a girl who turned out to be a porn star lol.

That was funny I gotta say.

 

[backbreaker]

i never claimed to date raven freakin riley. I posted that pic as a reference to a hot woman with a tan. although I've f'd someone who looks somewaht like her


I've posted the women I've dated more than once on here.

 

[cordoncordon]

Hmmm, I seem to remember you posting that pic and claiming it was a girl you had dated. Why did you remove that post?

Anyway, have fun!

 

[wayword]

Just don't forget you were the one in the past few months who was considering leaving this woman because of her cocaine habits

Woaaaaa Nelly!

Coke queen?

Dude, only in the US do guys excuse a COKE habit by saying, hey so she's not "perfect." Who is?

Remember, whatever you see at first is just the tip of the iceberg with AW. The rest surfaces in time as they slowly come out of hibernation mode..

Personally, a hard drug habit is a red flag dealbreaker for me...for serious dating and certainly kids. But, to each their own. I guess in Angloworld this is about the best you can expect to find. Women here all have bossy entitlement attitudes and at least one major dysfunction (psycho, drugs, STD, slootishness, fat, fugly, old, kids, etc). But you've already thrown in your lot with her sooo...good luck!

 

[backbreaker]

Woaaaaa Nelly!



Dude, only in the US do guys excuse a COKE habit by saying, hey so she's not "perfect." Who is?

Remember, whatever you see at first is just the tip of the iceberg with AW. The rest surfaces in time as they slowly come out of hibernation mode..

Personally, a hard drug habit is a red flag dealbreaker for me...for serious dating and certainly kids. But, to each their own. I guess in Angloworld this is about the best you can expect to find. Women here all have bossy entitlement attitudes and at least one major dysfunction (psycho, drugs, STD, slootishness, fat, fugly, old, kids, etc). But you've already thrown in your lot with her sooo...good luck!

that's why I wish people would read threads and I wish he wouldn't have posted it here

it wasn't a coke HABIT.. it was a coke INSTANCE.. where I found literarly... a couple of crumbs on a dollar bill that fell out her purse..she said she tried it a couple of times, nothing serious and we worke di tout this happened 2 months. iv'e given her 3 random drug tests and she passed all 3 with flying colors.

and how and the hell can i judge her when I had a habit 10x worse than she could have ever dreamed of.. I kicked it a long time ago.. wouldn'dt ream of doing it now and I would hate for someone to judge me on something like that.

and it's stuff like that that people wonder why I don't take critism very well.

Coke queen?

and what peeves me off more than anything is guys who get PC courage and say **** about people you wouldn't dream of saying to my face. B!tich if you ever say **** like that about my woman again, I promise you will will hunt you down. That **** pisses me off to no end.

you might want to go look at my picture again before you go mouthing off

 

[D!ck Ramsey]

Man some of you guys seriously need to get lives or take some happy pills.

At the end of the day, all difference aside, this is a time for celebration!

If backbreaker where in my hood it would be all cigars, strippers and champagne. What is wrong with you people?

Pay no mind to the Bitter Billes around here backbreaker. They love to piss on everyone's parade because they can barely get a 3-person band marching in their own lives.

 

[cordoncordon]

I will vouch that BB said it was a infrequent occurrence as far as her coke usage.

That being said........

The idea of my girl doing coke, I don't know it's just so foreign to who she is. I mean she would rather kill herself than do a line of coke imo. It would just NEVER EVER IN A TRILLION YEARS happen.

That being said...

Just because you have experimented before does not make you a bad person. Since I have never done coke, dating someone who has is just not something I would do because i have never been exposed to that world. And hmm, dugs are bad hmmm'kay? But since BB does have some past history with coke and to him it's not such a strange thing, I could see how he would be willing to overlook her doing a few lines and try to make things work.

 

[cordoncordon]

Well to each his own D!ck Ramsey. I know if I was 24, the last thing i would want is a kid, especially with someone who is not my wife. It would not be a celebration. More like a time for me to ask myself just what in the hell have I gotten myself into.

I really don't consider bringing a kid into this world with unwed parents a time for happy happy! But thats what makes the world go 'round! And if BB is happy with this, then great . And I have never questioned that. I was just wondering about his past statements of wanting to work on his career and forgetting girls, not to mention the stories of his lifestyle, and how that jives with having a child.