...or telling your mother how much you love her in an earshot of that girl (if you have a mother that calls you allot at work, lol), while that girl is in the same room/area. These women I'm sure have their own problems or issues, it may feel bad with us, but to them, they just don't care. These people are in their own worlds/universe.Telling me to ask out a woman I regularly cross paths with is unrealistic, seeing as I've made it clear I'd rather get manhandled by a gay man than cross paths with a woman I got rejected by.
I've been so desensitized by the women I got rejected by that I don't care what I say or do around her. In fact, I would not let her beign around deter me from ANYTHING, I would otherwise do if she was not around. I'm not going out of my way to avoid her. I might avoid direct eye contact or social interactions, but nothing else otherwise.