^^^ Ah yes. The typical internet attack. All this tells me is that you can't really argue with what I said, and that you have stooped to insulting my appearance. (And were completely, utterly incorrect about it to top it off.)
My apologies dear
1. Saying you are Catholic doesn't mean anything if you are picking which parts of the doctrine that you are following. There is a difference between being raised in a certain religion and actively practicing it. There are tons of "so called Catholics" that will praise God in the Church and then cuss each other in the parking lot trying to get out. Actions speak louder than words.
I am practicing Catholic.
If you want a marriage/relationship like you are preaching here, that means that you have to have religion as part of the equation.
No duh
2. Men can be sluts too. Why should a good girl respect a man *****? Why should a single, unmarried, chaste woman lower her standards for a man that has slept around? Because you say so? No.
She shouldn't! I never said so.
Basically...Sexual compatibility is important to mention here. Someone that has a higher number of sexual partners isn't going to be compatible with someone of equal attractiveness with a lower number. Their fundamental values clash. One is a "spendthrift" and the other is a "saver". A spendthrift/high partner count can never conform to the saver/lower partner count ways, and a saver doesn't understand the spendthrift's ways.
3. "Men undergo discrimination too". I didn't mention discrimination. I mentioned plain old harassment. Face it, you've never had to walk down the street and fear being raped. You've never felt like you couldn't walk to your car by yourself. Unless you've been mugged, you cannot understand the fear that is in the heart of 99% of women EVERY SINGLE DAY. So honestly, tell me again, why should I trust men? Seriously, where does that get me?
You'll be a happier person, for one thing. Men like girls who are trusting, not suspicious.
If you are afraid of walking to your car by yourself, and that is a great first step to admit that this is true, why not get a man you trust to WALK you to your car?
Let me tell you what happens when a woman "trusts" a man, no matter what. These women end up sexually abused. Then they are made to stand trial, and are made to feel shame for the actions of someone else. Then they grow up and get into relationships, and because they are messed up, they become that toxic relationship that you all hate on here. Then you say she's only good for a "pump and dump" because she was sexually abused and has BPD. Meanwhile, you're perpetuating the cycle.
Men must be deserving of trust, and a smart girl will put her trusting nature into a trustworthy man. That doesn't stop the fact that being TRUSTING is a good value for you women to have.
4. No one has "authority" over anyone unless it's a parent-child relationship. A parent has to tell their child what to do and what is appropriate. Your wife needs to be able to tell her son not to do something and not have it undermined by you. Adults do not have authority over other adults. Adults have authority over their children. By saying you think you should have authority over your wife sounds like you want to be on some sort of pedestal...like you aren't confident enough to have a real partner that you can trust to make good decisions.
A man has authority over his wife. Sorry. I know I'm right.
5. Clearly, your definition of marriage is different than mine. You say it isn't a team. I say it is. What if you are incapacitated, and your spouse needs to make a medical decision? But wait, you can't tell her what to do! She has to figure it out, but she can't, because you never told her what to do.
Women do things of their own prerogative all the time. But the overriding attitude should be that they are a helper to their man. Obviously, helping their man in this case would be even more important than usual.
Here's the thing, when you marry someone, you should be so much on the same wavelength, that you don't NEED to tell the other person what to do.
You're right- I shouldn't need to enforce this with some kind of angry iron hand. She should be ASKING me what to do. She should be looking for ways to please her husband. That makes me love a woman intensely.You already know that they are going to do the right thing. Because you both want the same things. You're both working towards the same overall goal. What you are describing is a woman having no thoughts of her own, unless you put them there.
When did I say this? I never said this.What I am describing is two people with similar thoughts and goals, and no one needs to tell the other person what to do, because you're a team, and you're working towards the same thing anyways.
Again, the wife should be a helper and the man should be the head of the house. I am right and you're just going to have to accept it
6. If you want to be a breadwinner, fine. But then you aren't allowed to complain about "alimony" when you get divorced or how all men get screwed in divorces. You wanted to support your wife, remember?
Catholics don't believe in divorce.
So...in my opinion, blanket statements like "All women should do this" and "all men should do this" will get us nowhere.
Bullsh!t. You are not the same as a man and you should go by completely different rules. Otherwise, I am not interested in dating you.
Saying this like "I really want a woman that I can trust, that has similar values to mine, and wants to work towards the same things as I do" sounds a heck of a lot better than "WOMEN NEED TO DO AS I SAY BECAUSE I AM A MAN RAWR"
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