I agree with you on this. Never thought about it this way but its true I think when we have an abundance of choice, especially those of us who have experienced having a lot of plates at one point, we don't really value sex as much (at least for me). We don't have that desperation for women. At times you get tired and can't be bothered to even hangout with them sometimes and just want alone time, especially when they are needy and attention seeking. During times of plate abundance, we experience the paradox of choice where we hangout with one girl and we regret and think time would be spent with another and then by the end of it, it turns out none of them really make you truly fulfilled. I assume this is how women feel by default of having an abundance of men.
A man's abundance is there, BUT imo its more stretched out over many years and ONLY if he actively keeps working on improving himself.
But as I said before, there will ALWAYS be balance.
The biggest equalizer is the fact that most women go nuts before they hit 30.
ALL women seem to lose most of their braincells between the ages of 27/30. All the "Bad bytches " I've ever known went from bubbly personality to depressed and sometimes straight up suicidal. Like, you wonder where that cute girl went. Still looks good, but her personality takes a dive for the worst.
That's what it's like to be a woman. Going bat shyte when you about to turn 30. Because you got sold dream after dream and got played hundreds of times. The consequences of "dating easy " also means attracting tons of strangers who dgaf about you ( rightfully so)
Uhm, no thanks, I am good being a man.
On the other hand ,the men that do have the same level of abundance as hot women oftentimes ALSO ending up hating the game. Think ball players that say a man should never get married. Think a megastar like Lenny fecking Kravitz who practises celibacy despite having access to tons of women..
Bottom line is that dating without a purpose gets exhausted. A pretty woman will reach that level sooner, whereas an average might never get there. The grass SEEMS greener but its not always the case..