I think I just got dumped

[ThunderMaverick]

She never asked, so why would I just start talking about whether or not I want to be exclusive? If she asked I would tell her straight that I don't want anything serious.

I see you edited your post.. well my point still stands. She may be older but she still thinks she's 25 or something.

If you think she's getting too close then let her know. It'll save you both the headache.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

If you think she's getting too close then let her know. It'll save you both the headache.

I haven't talked to her since her outburst yesterday. And I have no plans on calling her either. How can I make sure she stops acting this way once she contacts me? I need to get her on FB status.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

I decided to try and communicate with her, and she is still upset saying "I hurt her".. I thought I may have done something I don't remember, but she clarified that she is "hurt" because I didn't reply to her text asking to see me in a timely manner. Hell, I didn't reply at all, but after 2 hours of no reply she she flips out and let's me know it's unacceptable, lol.

How should I handle this? Other than just "ending" it, which I don't want to do as you can see.

I have never seen this reaction from not replying to a text message this is kind of ridiculous.

 

[Igetit!]

You said that she said because you didn`t answer her in a timely manner,she said that that is "unacceptable".What does she mean by "unacceptable"?What is she going to do?

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

You said that she said because you didn`t answer her in a timely manner,she said that that is "unacceptable".What does she mean by "unacceptable"?What is she going to do?

She didn't actually say "unacceptable". But the 2 times I have not replied to her text message, within 2 hours she is b!tching me out, saying it's over, calling me a player, blah blah blah.

The first time I was sleeping and missed her text, the second time I was tired as hell.

 

[Igetit!]

Dude,this is simple.Look,when it comes to women,everthing is the opposite,everthing is reversed.For example,when a woman says you`re a "nice guy",or says you`re sweet,or says you would make someone a good boyfriend,what do you think that means?It means you would be "nice guy"for SOMEONE ELSE,sweet for someone else,a good boyfriend for someone else.I know this sound crazy,but as long as she has something to complain about,(as long as it`s nothing too major)your relationship is ok.It`s when everthing seems calm,quiet,and peaceful is when you have to worry.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Good God, you asses. ALL OF YOU! There is nothing wrong with this girl....

Edit: Nevermind. I forgot about her age. *sigh* Just end it.

Her age is only a factor if she wasn't interested and was just into all of this for the drama. She let Vlad know that she wasn't playing the stereotypical games yet he continued to play based on all of the AFC advice he'd been given by guys who would be lucky to have a woman interested in them. Blind leading the blind.

TM just sit back and shake your head.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Her age is only a factor if she wasn't interested and was just into all of this for the drama. She let Vlad know that she wasn't playing the stereotypical games yet he continued to play based on all of the AFC advice he'd been given by guys who would be lucky to have a woman interested in them. Blind leading the blind.

TM just sit back and shake your head.

She just told me that when she was a kid her parents ignored her and that's why she is acting so paranoid when she doesn't get her reply right away.

I know in my heart I should just end it, but it's hard because I do like hanging out with her she is fun and interesting, and I'm not seeing anyone else... therefore it's hard to not keep her on the hook.

 

[Igetit!]

I`m confused.You said you know in your heart you should end it,then you said you like hanging out with her because she`s fun and interesting.If you enjoy spending time with her,then why do you want to end it?

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

I`m confused.You said you know in your heart you should end it,then you said you like hanging out with her because she`s fun and interesting.If you enjoy spending time with her,then why do you want to end it?

Because I don't want to be exclusive with her. That's what she wants, right?

I think if I told her that I want to see other people, she will bail immediately.

 

[Igetit!]

Does she think you are her boyfriend?And if she does,what gave her that impression?

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Does she think you are her boyfriend?And if she does,what gave her that impression?

This was already covered earlier in the thread.

I saw her every weekend for a month. That gave her the impression I wanted to be serious with her. I didn't do it intentionally, it just happened because she is fun to hang out with.

Now I guess I am dealing with the aftermath of being too available. But, I never lied to her and we never talked about being exclusive.

Also I have come to the conclusion she is crazy. She told me tonight she is "not crazy" That usually means they are.

And then she told me how her family ignored her as a child, so that is why she can never be ignored. Even over a text message.

When she told me that, I wanted to give her the # for a good shrink.

 

[Rhoto]

Why are you giving any of your time to this chick again?

Make a choice dude. You're just wasting time.

Is she like a 9-10? Or does she have a rich and interesting life experience that you can benefit from? Did you knock her up?

The b1tch is crazy. End of story.

Call up you cell phone provider and block her number. And move on.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Why are you giving any of your time to this chick again?

Great p/ssy. Zero baggage. No kids or ex husbands. She likes to party and have fun.

Is she like a 9-10? Or does she have a rich and interesting life experience that you can benefit from? Did you knock her up?

Not really, nice petite, fit body though. She travels all over the world and offered to take me somewhere.

The b1tch is crazy. End of story.

Call up you cell phone provider and block her number. And move on.

Yeah, I'll stop contacting her.

 

[IsiMan84]

Wow this started falling apart right after I left. I don't know what crack trueromance was smoking but I wouldn't have done any of that. ThunderMaverick did his best to salvage what was left but I would say to eject at this point. I could go through my past posts but I know I said to only SEE her every once in a while, and not initiate conversation too often, even though some small talk here and there is alright. I thought you said you had other plates? When did these disappear?

 

[Vlad the 1mpaler]

I told her that it would be best for both of us if we end the relationship.

Now she is sending me messages about how messed up her childhood was. And that's why she's crazy. And she is asking me to call her and "talk" because she wants another chance.

Should I just ignore her now?

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Lol you want that psycho all over you?

My god she knows where I live. I'm screwed.

 

[IsiMan84]

Well I don't know if that's exactly how you gave it to her, but obviously she's going for broke on the broken childhood excuse. At least you did eject. I'd definitely avoid as much communication as possible though. As for knowing where you live, this is why you do things at their place or a neutral location if possible, especially if you haven't known them that long. Can't afford to have situations like this making you worried about some stalker action haha.

 

[Slick101]

Impaler... Let me tell you something that not alot of people experienced

Im dating a kind of girl you are describing for about 11 months now.... shes HB9 and 5 years older than me

Im having magnifacent problems now.... and it all started back in sept. when I first met her... and I never thought that she would be my girl... as a matter of a FACT... I never asked her to be my girl.... it just happened.... EMotionally we were connected and together...

Now my life is fvcked up.... im having emotional probs. and I dont know how to break up with her... I need help

DUMP HER WHILE YOU CAN MAN!!....ITS STILL NOT LATE FOR YOU!!! AND IT WILL GET HAREDER!

TRUST MEE... YOU DONT NEED A WOMAN LIKE THIS IN YOUR LIFE....

TRUST ME YOULL REGRET IT.... I WENT THROUGH THIS....

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

DUMP HER WHILE YOU CAN MAN!!....ITS STILL NOT LATE FOR YOU!!! AND IT WILL GET HAREDER!

TRUST MEE... YOU DONT NEED A WOMAN LIKE THIS IN YOUR LIFE....

TRUST ME YOULL REGRET IT.... I WENT THROUGH THIS....

Done and done. She's dumped, now I guess I just have to ignore her.