Duracell_Bunny
Senior Don Juan
Ok title a little over the top, but it was only a couple of weeks ago my first g/f dumped me and I was at the most lowest time - over an ugly chick in all. With some recommendations on here of cutting off completely (which was one of the hardest things I've ever done emotionally) and reading a lot of the bibles sections on pooks anti-dump etc.
Anyways, was in a club Saturday and won a HB8!! I'm back to myself :rock:
Am sure if I didn't listen to you lot I would have not even tried, or if I did it would have been over in minutes. I would have been too worked up with my ex, but you lot said to go no contact, which also helped as I got a boost from my mates giving me so much respect for it.
Although I have a question this hot girl. You mean, this just doesn't feel right.
Shes acting AFC on me right now. Doing all the things I used to do many years ago when I got a chicks number. Is she a slut or possibly playing me?
Either way I don't care, this is all I needed.
Basically was sitting down at a table in the club, spotted HB within talking distance but she looked board with the converserion in her group. We started one on one fluff talk with a couple of nags, after 2-3 minutes I asked for her number, her answer was "what do you want that for?" My response was "don't give it too me then" I sarcasticlly turned my back on her with my arms folded and a giant smirk on my face. This resulted in her getting her phone out and then begging me for my number, I just kept this pose for a moment longer.
After getting her number but refusing to give mine with more talk but less ****yness, she then lent her head on my sholder and it was all easy from there leading to a cheeky kiss.
I noticed her freinds were about to leave and mine were getting up too, I politly told her but she refused to go and I was like "oh you better go with your freinds". But she just damanded to stay with me. My mates then came over and said hi, there leaving and what are us two doing. Hot chick gave me a huge stair with glowing eyes, so I said "come on, lets go to [name of bar]".
So now its just us two in this bar across the street, (after I was speaking to some mates for a few minuates that I randomly bumped into in, while she patiantly waited) After some little chat between us I took her hand and led her to the dance floor. This led to heavy kino, (with me jokingly backing off slightly allowing her to come to me). This escuallted to heavy kissing and her asking if I'm single. Then she was all "I'm tierd". My response was "lets go", took her by the hand, in the street asked where she lived and ordered a taxi. Led her in the taxi with a breiff kiss and said "I'll call you sometime", told taxi driver where she was going and off she went, ha!
A tiny bit of an AFC moment from me, I text her about 30mins later asking nothing more than did she get back ok. She responded saying yes thanks. etc. etc.
Right, this is the bit where she does what I used to do to women. I get a text from her THE FOLLOWING AFTERNOON asking how my day was going. This I didn't like, I wanted to call her up in the week. I left it for a good few hours with a plain response that gave nothing away, but out of politness asked "how about you". Hopeing to cut off contact expecting her to respond with a straight answer and no questions, which she did.
Around this point I forgot what she looked like. Another hour later, another text from her "I feel so tierd", I didn't repond. Then another "are you on facebook hun". I didn't respond to that too. Messaged her a day later saying yeah but don't use it much but heres my email to find me. Her repsonse was "ok thats cool, can just text and stuff then" (all she can see on FB is just the profile pic unless I accept her). Shes added me and OMG!!!! what a babe. Anyways, I'm not accepting her request.
Again, from here after again ending the conversation and planning to not contact. She texts again with something that didn't need a reply (of which I didn't). Another hour later she sends another "I added you on FB by the way".
I'm sticking to my guns here and not repsonded to any more until I call.
But seriously, there has to be something thats not right here? I'm being carefull over this and think its best not to become excited over this and keep calm. I'm just happy to have a break and clear up the **** in my head. I was thinking about my ex for almost every minute of the day and thats blown away now.
Cheers guys :yes:
Anyways, was in a club Saturday and won a HB8!! I'm back to myself :rock:
Am sure if I didn't listen to you lot I would have not even tried, or if I did it would have been over in minutes. I would have been too worked up with my ex, but you lot said to go no contact, which also helped as I got a boost from my mates giving me so much respect for it.
Although I have a question this hot girl. You mean, this just doesn't feel right.
Shes acting AFC on me right now. Doing all the things I used to do many years ago when I got a chicks number. Is she a slut or possibly playing me?
Either way I don't care, this is all I needed.
Basically was sitting down at a table in the club, spotted HB within talking distance but she looked board with the converserion in her group. We started one on one fluff talk with a couple of nags, after 2-3 minutes I asked for her number, her answer was "what do you want that for?" My response was "don't give it too me then" I sarcasticlly turned my back on her with my arms folded and a giant smirk on my face. This resulted in her getting her phone out and then begging me for my number, I just kept this pose for a moment longer.
After getting her number but refusing to give mine with more talk but less ****yness, she then lent her head on my sholder and it was all easy from there leading to a cheeky kiss.
I noticed her freinds were about to leave and mine were getting up too, I politly told her but she refused to go and I was like "oh you better go with your freinds". But she just damanded to stay with me. My mates then came over and said hi, there leaving and what are us two doing. Hot chick gave me a huge stair with glowing eyes, so I said "come on, lets go to [name of bar]".
So now its just us two in this bar across the street, (after I was speaking to some mates for a few minuates that I randomly bumped into in, while she patiantly waited) After some little chat between us I took her hand and led her to the dance floor. This led to heavy kino, (with me jokingly backing off slightly allowing her to come to me). This escuallted to heavy kissing and her asking if I'm single. Then she was all "I'm tierd". My response was "lets go", took her by the hand, in the street asked where she lived and ordered a taxi. Led her in the taxi with a breiff kiss and said "I'll call you sometime", told taxi driver where she was going and off she went, ha!
A tiny bit of an AFC moment from me, I text her about 30mins later asking nothing more than did she get back ok. She responded saying yes thanks. etc. etc.
Right, this is the bit where she does what I used to do to women. I get a text from her THE FOLLOWING AFTERNOON asking how my day was going. This I didn't like, I wanted to call her up in the week. I left it for a good few hours with a plain response that gave nothing away, but out of politness asked "how about you". Hopeing to cut off contact expecting her to respond with a straight answer and no questions, which she did.
Around this point I forgot what she looked like. Another hour later, another text from her "I feel so tierd", I didn't repond. Then another "are you on facebook hun". I didn't respond to that too. Messaged her a day later saying yeah but don't use it much but heres my email to find me. Her repsonse was "ok thats cool, can just text and stuff then" (all she can see on FB is just the profile pic unless I accept her). Shes added me and OMG!!!! what a babe. Anyways, I'm not accepting her request.
Again, from here after again ending the conversation and planning to not contact. She texts again with something that didn't need a reply (of which I didn't). Another hour later she sends another "I added you on FB by the way".
I'm sticking to my guns here and not repsonded to any more until I call.
But seriously, there has to be something thats not right here? I'm being carefull over this and think its best not to become excited over this and keep calm. I'm just happy to have a break and clear up the **** in my head. I was thinking about my ex for almost every minute of the day and thats blown away now.
Cheers guys :yes:
