I know my kind is rare around these parts...

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dalynxx said:
Yes I have actually...but it is always refused. There was one time that I was taken out by a guy and I paid for the bill while he was in the bathroom. When he found out he was really mad and told me that I embarrased him by paying!:(

I actually did it because he would always pay and I just wanted to do the honours for a change....
i had that happen b4 and i put the money in her purse.... haha
 

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man this thread is fukkin gold. so much good neg hits on this internet gurl, so much c&f man, a&f, bud&weiser yea man
 

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any girl that offers to pay or even better takes a strong initiative to pay automatically get's ioi from me. It show's that one she can take care of herself and doesn't need a man to pay for her sh!t, two she's different from all them other b1tches that sit on their fat ass assuming the guy is required to pay.
 

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Igetit! said:
It's "I like", not "You're hot or You're beautiul".



That way it's more about what I'm pleased with,letting her know that she's met MY STANDARDS of attractiveness.



Millions of guys go the "You're hot or beautiful" route.


How often do you heard a guy telling a woman what HE LIKES the way she looks in something?







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golden!!!!!!!
 

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dalynxx said:
Yes I have actually...but it is always refused. There was one time that I was taken out by a guy and I paid for the bill while he was in the bathroom. When he found out he was really mad and told me that I embarrased him by paying!:(

I actually did it because he would always pay and I just wanted to do the honours for a change....

I find it hard to believe that you are putting up much of a fight when you are being refused.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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SharinganUser said:
I find it hard to believe that you are putting up much of a fight when you are being refused.

Yes I do actually:crackup: :crackup: . I've had guys snatch my money/card out of the cashier's hands and replace it with their own and tell me "stop being silly, I'll pay" etc. Even my male friends and work colleagues have done this. At some level I think it makes them feel more manly and some of them even play up to the "helping a damsel in distress" sterotype when they think I need help. I think at some level, they feel vaildated by it. On the contrary, I am used to struggling by myself, by I think the look at my appearance and convince themselves that I am a "weak, feminine little woman". Oh well...apperances can be deceptive. ;)
 

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I notice whenever a woman hears a man say"women aren't 'all that' ", you (all)run out with the "he's bitter" LINE. Pleasure of her company? Please. If it wasn't for puzzy(marriage,kids,sex) we wouldn't even bother talking to you.

We don't really care about the latest styles in clothes[unless it will get us sex],or any of the other vapid topics women love. I'd rather talk to my friends who can talk business, taxes,investments,football, etc. Only 1 of those is a woman-she owns an autobody repair shop[got it in the divorce from her husband].

Why do you think that the family reunions always seem to segregate into men in the living room and women in the dining room? We really don't want to talk food,cute politicians,hairstyles etc.

I've been called "bitter" because I don't worship women-I hold them to the same standard I do men[most FAIL]. As a single[divorced] man,All the women I work with are trying to set me up with their friends. It would be a good deal for their friends,not so much for me. THIS year in THIS recession, I'm making 40-50k MORE than I did 3 years ago during the boom times. When I mention this logical fact-I don't want a woman who can't shut up and let me run my life/investments. I'm called bitter. A WIFE? or occasional sex and the extra 50k? Choice is easy for me[must be bitter],until I'd find one who knows her place-I'm single.
 

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sodbuster said:
I notice whenever a woman hears a man say"women aren't 'all that' ", you (all)run out with the "he's bitter" LINE. Pleasure of her company? Please. If it wasn't for puzzy(marriage,kids,sex) we wouldn't even bother talking to you.

We don't really care about the latest styles in clothes[unless it will get us sex],or any of the other vapid topics women love. I'd rather talk to my friends who can talk business, taxes,investments,football, etc. Only 1 of those is a woman-she owns an autobody repair shop[got it in the divorce from her husband].

Why do you think that the family reunions always seem to segregate into men in the living room and women in the dining room? We really don't want to talk food,cute politicians,hairstyles etc.

I've been called "bitter" because I don't worship women-I hold them to the same standard I do men[most FAIL]. As a single[divorced] man,All the women I work with are trying to set me up with their friends. It would be a good deal for their friends,not so much for me. THIS year in THIS recession, I'm making 40-50k MORE than I did 3 years ago during the boom times. When I mention this logical fact-I don't want a woman who can't shut up and let me run my life/investments. I'm called bitter. A WIFE? or occasional sex and the extra 50k? Choice is easy for me[must be bitter],until I'd find one who knows her place-I'm single.
Well good for you, do what make you happy and good luck.
 

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dalynxx your from the UK right?


What are typical UK women's opinions of African-American men over there? Could I go over there and be a chick magnet with my American Accent and American mannerisms?
 

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Kupid Diggs said:
dalynxx your from the UK right?


What are typical UK women's opinions of African-American men over there? Could I go over there and be a chick magnet with my American Accent and American mannerisms?
We love them! You guys are like super stars over here.:rockon: You will be a chick magnet - totally.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I've always wondered...

This is not meant to be offensive but I've always wondered how black women felt about black guys dating white women, Is it even an issue?
 

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dalynxx said:
We love them! You guys are like super stars over here.:rockon: You will be a chick magnet - totally.

A couple of years ago in LA I met a very sex black woman from Manchester...that accent plus that body...serious business. Love a black woman with a British accent.
 

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horaholic said:
Well? What are you waiting for. Post your gripes. BTW, there is a 10 post limit per day.
Oh. I was wondering how some basic introduction thread got to four pages so quickly. So this is what it's come to, huh. We're actually encouraging women to speak, now. Interesting. :p

In all seriousness though, it's puzzling why self-admitted women are allowed on this site. Makes no sense to me...
 

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HaremMasterThomas said:
Hello and Welcome to the site, I have a list of 10 Questions that I want you to answer about DJism.

(1) Do girls care about what a guy looks like, many say looks don't matter at all, I think they do, but if you are a girl you'll know the answer.

This is not black and white, where it's "yes" they matter or "no" they don't. Do looks matter to you when you want to sleep with a girl? Looks matter to girls, only to a lesser extent because they are visual are more turned on by their minds. Don't expect a black and white answer, you should know better.

(2) Many say girls don't care about money, again I think they do, you should know the answer to this.

Another stupid question that you want a black and white answer to so you don't have to work hard in the future. Do girls care about money? Yes, they care that you can take care of them and their child by having an education and job. They care you have ambition and potential, that you fight for everything, money, sex, family. That doesn't mean the "yes" answer you can use as an excuse to tell us you can't get a girl because they care about money. It's common sense.

(3) Tiger Woods - why are all of these hot babes attracted to him - is it to do with his (a) status (b) money (c) looks (d) his game and PUA skills are far better than everyone elses.

Seriously with this question? Tiger Woods a PUA? Do you even watch golf? Come on dude

(4) Should guys smile at a girl.

Sorry another stupid question. No they shouldn't, guys should yell and scream and rape them if they refuse anything


(5) Eye Contact - how important is it to look a girl straight in the eye.

"Dad I feel HaremMasterThomas will marry me and can protect me if someone tries to harm me. One thing though, don't talk to him for more than 10 seconds, he's too embarrassed to look people in the eye."

(6) If a girl is beautiful should a guy compliment her on her physical beauty.

Would you like a girl to compliment you on your physical beauty?

(7) Is it good to shake a girls hand when you introduce yourself.

No comment.

(8) How important is the pitch of a guys voice to a girl, I think deeper voice is better, you should know.

No comment.


(9) Hot babes rarely date guys who are slow or slightly retarded, yet they are very friendly to them, more so than they are the hunk type of dude whom they want to date, WHY, guys are not like this in reverse.

Guys are visual, girls are about EMOTIONS. The hot guy makes them FEEL what the dorky, slow or shy guy cannot.


(10) The Friends Zone - why do girls veiw some guys as freinds only, they obviously enjoy their company, your answer to this is of great interest to me.

It builds up their ego and the guy is too afraid to make a move.
What kind of questions are these? You should know the answers to all of them by now if you've read and re-read what this site is about.
 

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I have a couple questions...

If you are just meeting a guy for coffee or something, or going out to a concert or something like that...you're not getting a vibe from him that he wants to date you, perhaps just hang out and fool around a bit, and he's not taking you out to dinner or anything like that, but you're attracted to him. THEN do you expect him to pay for you?

I thought your take on paying for dinner was interesting. You didn't even address it as a power issue at first--if the guy doesn't pay, it must be because he's poor! i.e. low status. Now in reality taking a girl out to dinner when you haven't known her very long probably isn't a good idea to begin with, but I digress.

Are you more attracted to a guy when he's direct with his sexual intentions and confidently communicates to you that he's interested in casual sex with you, says things like "What are you like in bed?" when he's flirting with you, or more attracted when he's mysterious, indifferent, teases you, has sexually charged conversation but isn't quite so direct? And which type of approach normally gets you into bed quicker? :)
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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I thought your take on paying for dinner was interesting. You didn't even address it as a power issue at first--if the guy doesn't pay, it must be because he's poor! i.e. low status.
You know, reading these forums that's the impression I've always gotten with guys that want to make an issue out of this. I just get the feeling they don't have any money. Otherwise, who cares? My general feeling is that if you are the one asking the woman to go somewhere, you pay, unless it is specifically arranged otherwise.
 

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Just a Shot Away said:
In all seriousness though, it's puzzling why self-admitted women are allowed on this site. Makes no sense to me...
Doesn't bother me. She's been trolling pretty good so far, she will be banned soon.

Patience.
 
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dalynxx your from the UK right?


What are typical UK women's opinions of African-American men over there? Could I go over there and be a chick magnet with my American Accent and American mannerisms?
Considering the fact that the whole Ghetto culture is big here and Blackmen are in demand as well as the entire country being Amerca's 51st State, I would say that Britain is made for you. A blackman in Britain can date whoever the hell he wants because he is considered the ultimate prize.
 

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Just a Shot Away said:
Oh. I was wondering how some basic introduction thread got to four pages so quickly. So this is what it's come to, huh. We're actually encouraging women to speak, now. Interesting. :p

In all seriousness though, it's puzzling why self-admitted women are allowed on this site. Makes no sense to me...
Who cares? As long as the site continues to be run as if we're men and not like the pink forum (LoveShack) we'll be OK.
 
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