last Saturday I approached 3 women at a bar, I couldn't even get to a point of asking for a number. If I did, it would have been a hideous instant rejection - they clearly wanted nothing to do with me
I try to go out all the time and I approach women whenever I can. I don't approach during the day because I live in the suburbs and only girls my age I see are at the gym (none of whom ever want to be approached by some idiot like me)
I don't do online dating because women on those sites are strictly looking for the white perfect looking male model types so I'm not looking to be extremely demoralized by getting rejected 500,000,000 times (not that rejection is big deal to me but mass rejection like that makes it tough to keep spirits up)
Ok, at least that is a start. Bars are notorious for chicks having their ***** shield up...next time you are out at a bar try this instead...
Hang out by the bar with a drink in your hand and lean back and relax and just start up random conversations with women as they come get drinks, or better yet wait Until some dude approaches and gets shot down and then make a funny comment about it like "Wow...I can't believe he went with that line...that was so lame!" And start laughing and she will laugh with you and be like "I know!" And just continue from there.
In effect you are not doing a "pickup" you are just having a normal conversation with them...much easier to get traction.
But 3 is nothing. You need need 10 or 15 times that many and id advise that youe outlook online is all wrong. Pics matter a LOT online but profiles matter more than what people think too...
You sound like you are pressing...women pick that vibe up very well whether you think you are giving ot off or not it comes across in your body language...you need to relax and you need to have fun.