I gotta ask the board! Do you think women control the dating, love, and sex game?

[Megaman XIV]

By age 18 all the attractive mentally balanced women are *in a relationship*

The common defense rejection that made the woman who copyrighted it rich as hell, I'm sure.

If you want one at age 22,23, 28 or beyond you will have to be better than the man she is currently *with*

Women care about what a man has and can do for her NOW. If they don't see it now, they quickly label you and everything you do as unattractive.

that is called hypergamy

Add Briffault's law and online attention for females into this and you have more men dating down and more women dating up.

Get equipped with the facts.

 

[Smok1nAce]

this whole thread describes the population of men, putting women on a pedestal, men control what they want to.

 

[Halcyonique]

I think women call the shots when it comes to dating because there's usually more demand from men for women, than women demanding more men. Women have more men wanting to fvck them, than men have women wanting to fvck them.

I think some guys here are getting either dissuaded, disenchanted or even out-right p!ssed off about that, but in general everyone wants to fvck, so in that sense we're ALL controlled by our desire to fvck.

 

[insomniac9]

i think women may control this game only if:

1. you, the man, let her (due to lack of proper game skills, DJ techniques etc.)

2. societal views support the idea of pedestalizing women.

 

[Olivia]

You guys are ignorant bastards.

Have you noticed a simple fact that all the things you are learning here, is just to lick womens pvssy. Do you realize my point. The fact that you are all doing **** here simpy means that women are your masters. Be brave, accept the fact and be man. You are supposed to lick their pvssy anywas. They are biologicaly more valuable than you.

 

[Fruitbat]

Sex costs more in the US man! You can get a fairly attractive woman in a brothel over her for 45 mins (never need more than that) including massage and pretty much anything you want (within reason) for about the equivient of 170 dollars.

If you want them at your place for an hour you are looking at about the same. Independents have usually cheaper rates than brothels but are just as high quality.

If you want an agency escort then you are looking at about 400-450 dollars, but these women are the top 10% of hos and some will be pornstars or very, very high quality women.

It's pretty much decriminalised here....the only places the police interfere are a/drug addicted hookers on street corners (wouldn't touch with a barge pole) or b/ dodgy brothels with trafficked women who don't want to be doing what they are doing. Had this once, the chick looked frightened so I sat in the room with her smoking cigs for 30 mins. Not a game either, I can't bang a women in floods of tears, begging me to call the cops. nasty world.

I think that's why it's cheaper here.

Police enforcement is too heavy handed in the US man IMO. I can't talk with any degree of accuracy cos I have never been, but from TV and what I read online, the cops are over heavy handed and always looking to bust teenagers smoking a joint, or bust men just buying what they should be entitled to buy. Then sending those teenagers and men to be raped by massive black dudes in jail for trivial offenses.

What makes me laugh the most is "to catch a predator". These guys are scum, and it's dead fun watching them try to talk their way out of it, but when the cops grab them as they walk away, this makes me laugh the most "HUP HUP HUP GET ON THE GROUND" and then like 20 250 pound dudes with tasers and guns jump on a skinny 45 year old dude in flip flops! British police would be like "Would you mind putting these handcuffs on sir? We have some questions to ask you"

My other favourite is Sherriff John Bunnell. This dude is a cult figure in the UK with his hard hitting police enforcement and white teeth.

I am sure you laugh at lots of our wanky British stuff, but the whole US police I find very macho and amusing.

 

[Tomthebomb]

You guys are ignorant bastards.

Have you noticed a simple fact that all the things you are learning here, is just to lick womens pvssy. Do you realize my point. The fact that you are all doing **** here simpy means that women are your masters. Be brave, accept the fact and be man. You are supposed to lick their pvssy anywas. They are biologicaly more valuable than you.

No amount of time a man spends on here or related sits could ever hope to compare to the time spent by women reading relationship advice in magazines, and discussing relationship dynamics with their friends. All just to suck a mans c.o.c.k.

 

[Poonani Maker]

No amount of time a man spends on here or related sits could ever hope to compare to the time spent by women reading relationship advice in magazines, and discussing relationship dynamics with their friends. All just to suck a mans c.o.c.k.

Nice...so..it's equal. You can make her lose control over you, or you can let her win, by trying to force a round peg into a square hole. Much in the way of masturbating is simply "letting her win" (this woman on a screen or you've met recently that you wanna bone --- not so fast, tazmanian devil..you must Resist the urge, I KNOW it's hard, but if you mb, if you spill your seed without spilling it IN/ON her, in the flesh, then you've "let. her. win." period.

It is truly a game.

 

[Olivia]

No amount of time a man spends on here or related sits could ever hope to compare to the time spent by women reading relationship advice in magazines, and discussing relationship dynamics with their friends. All just to suck a mans c.o.c.k.

It is imprinted in every single soul of any woman. That is the purpose in this existence: to reproduce and with the best possible genes

 

[Fruitbat]

It is imprinted in every single soul of any woman. That is the purpose in this existence: to reproduce and with the best possible genes

Not so fast, that's what is imprinted on OUR soul (+ as many times as possible)

This is also true of women, but providing obviously makes a massive difference. How many ugly dudes with rich parents get wall to wall pvssy? Every single one. genetics go out of the window when the guy has enough money to make your genes have a veryu comfortable standard of living and advantage in life. If it was about genes, ugly dudes with cash wouldn't get a look in. They do. There is nothing genetic about inheriting wealth, you could be a step son for christs sake. Yes the pvssy would roll in, all the same.

 

[Wolfgang D]

All things considered, women hold the best cards in the dating game. That is because men want sex so very, very much. But talk to women and they are not satisfied either; they know they can get sex at any time, if they are at least average-looking, but they want a good relationship, and that is a lot harder. They will tell you that many men today are like immature children, wasting their time on computer games and partying, which does not make them very good partners. Many men will also lead them on with the promise of a relationship, when all they want is sex, after which they leave the woman. Heck, I have done it myself.

So let's face it, life isn't easy for either men or women. You get some free apples on tree branches, but other than that you have to work hard. This planet was not made to make you happy. And when you want to maximize your happiness but supplies are limited, you will be competing with other people who are just as tough as you. Guys coming on to the same girls, with just as much to offer as you. If you are going to be bitter about that, you are being bitter about the basic state of the universe.

 

[synergy1]

If women didn't hold the cards, this website would not exist. period. Perhaps the caveat here is that its the upper echelon of women which control the dating - but I see fatties acting like they are king **** so perhaps this thesis can be challenged.

Its already been discussed on this thread, and that is that women choose. This is seen in nature. Unless you are really good looking, really famous, women control the dating scene. Even in these instances, some women will be able to dictate condition of sex - such as a model or a famous chick. This is where leagues come in - if you are in a higher league than a women, she has less leverage on you. However the guy would likely give in for sex. If the roles are reversed forget it.

 

[Poonani Maker]

If women didn't hold the cards, this website would not exist. period. Perhaps the caveat here is that its the upper echelon of women which control the dating - but I see fatties acting like they are king **** so perhaps this thesis can be challenged.

Its already been discussed on this thread, and that is that women choose. This is seen in nature. Unless you are really good looking, really famous, women control the dating scene. Even in these instances, some women will be able to dictate condition of sex - such as a model or a famous chick. This is where leagues come in - if you are in a higher league than a women, she has less leverage on you. However the guy would likely give in for sex. If the roles are reversed forget it.

True. We all know Hollywood is a fantasy land, so waaaay back in the 30s, 40s, 50s superstarlets acted out of line with their husbands, you see, several of the movie startlets back then bounced from dude to dude, because they had it in their minds that they're too good, if the dude wasn't a bigger star than she was (wouldn't last a year maybe), Elizabeth Taylor, Vivian Leigh (prob BPD), Ruth Warrick, all dumped their wedded "partners." Ok, that's not normal, for the times. Forget that.

For the times, Before women's lib, before women's voting, before women's psychological entitlement SHIFT (this is a mental thing), some group/one/organization/cult bequeathed to American women as a whole, the fatties, the low-class women, the average women, without wealth, didn't talk back as much, did as they were TOLD, and stayed married cause they were on a PATH that generations upon generations were ON before them...a Norrrrrmal path...with normal living, and when things got tough with Great Depression, or mass disease, they tilled the farm did whatever it took to Survive. Living was short. They didn't have TIME to bounce around like the movie starletts (new btw, as in, motion pictures was still a young art, before that plays not so mass-distributed to the population). They didn't have the leisure to bounce on a whim, they didn't have the cellphone (I see women AlltheTime texting on a Friday especially after work, while driving, it's down their in her lap illuminated, AND yesterday I saw a 2-car collision involving a motorcycle (probably DOA - that thing was tore up) hmmmm I wonder...yeah it was right next to a state university hmmm, yep good chance).

Women's lib, this psychological "oh, hey, yes we ARE able to think for ourselves and live our lives the way we want to without guidance/leadership from my husband, my boyfriend, or just men-in-general," They think they've "woken up" when given this women's lib, eh 50s, 60s, then gettin rolling in the 70s, 80s running harder, 90s fast-tracked women's entitlement out-of-control here, until today where they are NOW TRULY MISguided, cause they absolutely 100% no longer Believe, or SEEEE (it doesn't even cross their minds much anymore) that they should Always defer to a man's guidance and judgement. They disregard All of us, an exact Flip-flop of what it used to be In The OLD world (I'm talkin Columbus days, these kings, and monarchs etc etc etc). We have so far strayed from the Norm, the only way you're gonna find an old world psychological woman to marry/live with for the rest of your life, who will defer to you Always, is MAYbe in a church, or overseas...I say maybe cause our churches are corrupted as all Hell today as well...the girls still get tainted by the media, American society, university, their parents even (may be even the worst pollutant for their deserving all this self-direction and entitlement psychology, that deference to a male, one day, eventually, eh, it doesn't even cross their minds, it's not even in the equation, not even a blip, they your average American woman sees herself as NEEDING guidance, in the end, from a MAN. They have leisure, they have the cellphone, they have a salary, cats, dogs, maybe a condo, whether thru equal opportunity employment doesn't matter (I know of women who can do my job to satisfaction, but these particular women are almost MEN, like genetically built to be able to withstand the stress I go through physically - eventually women in my profession DO NOT make it to full retirement and have to quit, but should these women even BE here in the first place...what are they trying to Prove??? that they can do everything a man does? that they can pull in some dough to live on their own or as breadwinner for her family? quite bizarre, but people (American) say, "more power to her!!!" "Hurrah, for her" "She deserves it" "This is the beauty of equal opportunity" "this is America." Well, ok. But the psychology of equality of Every women to the capability of Every man LONG TERM, over time, is poisoning to Normal society, and Normal family living, where for millenia men had once been the end-all be-all D!cktator in the household. There ARE traditional families here in America. Those are the ones where the women in them wised up and took their roles as devout wife in service to her master/husband. Even so, these families, the majority, are tainted/polluted, yet still, by the mass media, by the people they MUST interact with day in and day out. You ARE the company you keep. So we, as Americans living here in America, can't Escape the company we keep in contact with ever day, cause, everybody is all so distorted and polluted already with isms and lines of "consensus" talk psychological talk that makes absolutely NO SENSE, yet people accept it cause they get their news from the TV, and they get their association from other polluted Americans, who think that what they think is SO when it isn't, or shouldn't BE.

Toooooo many (almost all) think they know, when they don't know, American women And men, but ESPECIALLY American women, because they are easier to mass00-manipulate, they follow the consensus more than men cause they are WEAKer. They can't break away as easy as us with original thought, see who invented every god-damned thing we use to make us leisure-living today, the roads, bridges, apps, mowers, satellites...

Some of them Chinese women are highly smart though I'll grant that, talked with one yesterday, she works on spinal cord research, very wide-eyed and uber friendly for such an accomplished scientist who IS put in a non-profit donation-driven role to find a cure to paralysis, a daunting task fo sho. And they've been there for over a decade (shipped in from northeast China, she was). Extremely disciplined people, but you could tell that she'd still defer to her husband in her family, she from the old world.

 

[Megaman XIV]

Pretty deep post Poonani Maker! I noticed that the media is a major influence on women's decisions.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

they say women do the choosing, even this guy says so and he's a real man, he says men of this generation have had their balls cut off at least since the 60's:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i4XPOe6w6bo