"I Got A PHD"

[Solomon]

I've noticed women who are highly educated Masters/PHD degrees
Think that for some reason it's something to be impressed about
However In my experience, these women tend to be least feminine, and combative
Don't get me wrong some of these women are sexy and I understand why they have the energy they do (high positioned careers etc)
However, I tell these women I'm more impressed by how feminine a woman is than their degrees. It blows my mind how women think we judge them on the same scale they judge us

Just my .02 cents

 

[christie]

I still am in shock that women's accomplishments(school, professions) are less important than how flirty, nurturing and compliant(basically, feminine) I am with him.

Why do guys still ask what education level women have attained?
Why do they still ask what they do for a living?

I would like to keep these things private and confidential. Can't there be other things to ask to get to know me?
The pressure to perform like a man is still there or they wouldn't be asking those specific questions. The questions in the 'getting to know you stage' would be different.

Women think they have to perform the way men perform.

 

[Lookatu]

I've noticed women who are highly educated Masters/PHD degrees

However In my experience, these women tend to be least feminine, and combative

I've gone out with a half dozen very powerful women. They were feminine and non-combative(at least towards me) but they ALL had mental issues. Careers tend to drain people and women can least deal with it and end up going crazy in one way or another. But women also can hide their issues the best between men and women.

Also in my experience the ones with the Master's and PHD's weren't necessarily smart people. Some are book smart and great at taking tests. Same thing for my field, I have some dumb coworkers but they knew how to pass the interviews to get the job.

One of my plates now has a master's from Harvard and also went to the same parties with Natalie Portman back in the day. I wouldn't call her smart at all. After interacting with her for 10 months now, I still don't see how she has a masters from there.

 

[Mike32ct]

Christie, I think guys ask women about job/career for a few possible reasons:

1. Is she gonna be full of herself and/or lose interest in him if her career/education status is higher than his?

2. He just wants to know that you make ok money so you won’t be totally dependent on him. But actual job isn’t that critical.

3. He’s just asking to make conversation and doesn’t really care about the answer.

4. Sort of the opposite of #1, he’s creating an opening to “humble brag” about his career/education status if his ends up higher than yours.

 

[CoandaEffect]

I just discovered Kevin Samuels a few weeks ago, he is very funny.

The reason I ask a women about what she does for a living is that it is an easy conversation starter and often leads to other things like where did she go to school. I don’t really care as long as she has some education.

I also find that women do not date down, so if she has achieved more than me career wise I tend to steer clear. I got burnt recently with this one, she was a successful attorney with her own law practice. I have two masters degrees but she had achieved more than me. I think this often leads women to say that men are intimidated by their success, but I think it is just that most guys know the principal that women don’t date down.

 

[Lookatu]

Christie, I think guys ask women about job/career for four possible reasons:

1. Is she gonna be full of herself and/or lose interest in him if her career/education status is higher than his?

2. He just wants to know that you make ok money so you won’t be totally dependent on him. But actual job isn’t that critical.

3. He’s just asking to make conversation and doesn’t really care about the answer.

4. Sort of the opposite of #1, he’s creating an opening to “humble brag” about his career/education status if his ends up higher than yours.

5. Based on your job, he can maybe get a heads up on how to navigate or set his expectations accordingly depending on her occupation.

For example, this literally happened to me last night. I matched with a gal and started chatting. Eventually the job topic came up and I found out she was an attorney. Already a negative there but then I found out she was an attorney for far left issues. I told her I have issues with far left people as they often think with emotions over logic. She took it in stride and said too bad it probably won't work and she was bummed because she thought I was cute. After that I unmatched her.

I used to think women asked me about my job to determine my financial stability but found out later that sometimes women will also try to gain insights or put some prejudgement on you by asking what you do for a living.

 

[Solomon]

I just discovered Kevin Samuels a few weeks ago, he is very funny.

The reason I ask a women about what she does for a living is that it is an easy conversation starter and often leads to other things like where did she go to school. I don’t really care as long as she has some education.

I also find that women do not date down, so if she has achieved more than me career wise I tend to steer clear. I got burnt recently with this one, she was a successful attorney with her own law practice. I have two masters degrees but she had achieved more than me. I think this often leads women to say that men are intimidated by their success, but I think it is just that most guys know the principal that women don’t date down.

Same here I mean obviously you wanna make sure she has a job or a career. That's a given
But personally, I'm more worried about if she is feminine and cooperative.

 

[Lookatu]

But personally, I'm more worried about if she is feminine and cooperative.

Exactly. I've dated COO, SVP, Directors, etc but have also dated unemployed chics. At the end of the day, I'd take feminine/cooperative over financial stability any day of the week.

You can buy anything else off the shelf these days except a woman's femininity, cooperation, compliance, submission. Some would say that is rarer than gold these days.

 

[christie]

Christie, I think guys ask women about job/career for a few possible reasons:

1. Is she gonna be full of herself and/or lose interest in him if her career/education status is higher than his?

2. He just wants to know that you make ok money so you won’t be totally dependent on him. But actual job isn’t that critical.

3. He’s just asking to make conversation and doesn’t really care about the answer.

4. Sort of the opposite of #1, he’s creating an opening to “humble brag” about his career/education status if his ends up higher than yours.

thanks Mike, like you wrote, the questions come from a type of competition he's feeling me out for. I have tried just saying I'm a homemaker, which I technically am as I have and perform all the domestic skills but then I get the "no, really, what do you do for money?"

You know what? I'm going to stop myself from this thought process right now and take responsibility for the way I've been framing myself and the way I've been answering questions. It shouldn't matter what question is asked of me. I can immediately turn it into flirting, I just forget that's a technique because I'm so rusty at it.
I can selftrigger and everytime I feel like the man is testing my 'performance', I can switch on a 'different kind of performance' and flirt with him to give him the respect for his accomplishments.
You just helped me problemsolve this Mike.
I guess I always found flirting too distasteful and manipulative but that doesn't mean I can't be good at it and make the guy feel good with it. Change the story I'm telling myself everytime I feel a man is goading me to compete or prove education/occupation competence.....realise he's projecting and is really just waiting for his chance to be approved of.
Guys get so tickled that a woman is flirting femininely with him, especially if she does it in front of his peers or male competitors that it doesn't even register in his mind that she's being distasteful or manipulative, does it? It just feels too good to be getting that public 'sexual' attention from a woman.

I have to do something different or else I'll keep getting the same results. Thanks.

 

[christie]

that was funny what you posted about being a mathcel the other day @Mike32ct I love those -cel words!
And now I know you are a confirmed problemsolver, as a mathematician, which is very admirable. Thanks for helping me problemsolve that post with the ideas and prompts you gave me in your answer.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Kevin Samuels is hilarious. Standard redpill doc love kind of stuff with a modern take but directs it all at women and what they’re doing wrong. He’s 100% correct. Women destroy their own chances of finding a man by becoming accomplished in their careers. A female attorney making $200,000 / year can’t bring herself to date a plumber making $80,000 / year. So unless she’s an 8+ and submissive as hell (she can’t be submissive with that level of career success), she has priced herself out of the market. Nice job, feminazis. Buy a dog and die alone.

 

[CoandaEffect]

Kevin Samuels is hilarious. Standard redpill doc love kind of stuff with a modern take but directs it all at women and what they’re doing wrong. He’s 100% correct. Women destroy their own chances of finding a man by becoming accomplished in their careers. A female attorney making $200,000 / year can’t bring herself to date a plumber making $80,000 / year. So unless she’s an 8+ and submissive as hell (she can’t be submissive with that level of career success), she has priced herself out of the market. Nice job, feminazis. Buy a dog and die alone.

It’s interesting how many women on that show think that an education attracts men. It is simply them projecting their desires onto men. They want an educated man because he can provide, they see that as attractive so they assume we find that attractive. It’s just not true. Like Kevin says we want fit, friendly and feminine. Your PhD does not attract me at all.

And the women he gets on there that think they are 9s and 10s. 5’4” dress size 18. Like Kevin says, average at best. He calls them 49ers. They are a 4 but they think they are a 9.

 

[Kotaix]

Universities and education have become an absolute scam.

You can't get a good-paying job unless you have a degree. You can't get a degree unless you go to college. You have to pay out the ass to go to college. All to learn things that you could learn online for free if you actually had the drive to learn. And that's before we get into diversity quotas and how the bar is being lowered in order to accomodate the victim groups.

If anything, a flashy graduate degree only makes me suspect that a person is a blue pilled automaton, someone who is too lazy to actually work, or is scared of life. This applies to men as well as women. Also, people with PhDs make next to no money compared to people who drop out of high school and go on to pursue entrepreneurship instead.

The only time I'll be impressed with a PhD is if a person is at the top of their field and pushing the boundaries of science. Otherwise, it's just a wank.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

I'm at the point where I actively prefer women with typical education and normal jobs over the "career empowered" women with post-grad degrees.

 

[Black Widow Void]

In my experience, there's two types of PhD women (and I've dated both).
1. They refer to themselves with new acquaintances as "Dr" and get hung up if someone doesn't address them by that title.
2. They introduce themselves by their first name and their educational status does not define them.

The ones that I've dated (or 'other') did seem as feminine, but most did not seem as intelligent. Sure, they were smart (good study habits, good self-discipline and memorized their studies quite well) but most seemed to lack the ability to formulate their own ideas - no actual critical thinking

 

[zinc4]

I've noticed women who are highly educated Masters/PHD degrees
Think that for some reason it's something to be impressed about
However In my experience, these women tend to be least feminine, and combative
Don't get me wrong some of these women are sexy and I understand why they have the energy they do (high positioned careers etc)
However, I tell these women I'm more impressed by how feminine a woman is than their degrees. It blows my mind how women think we judge them on the same scale they judge us

Just my .02 cents

It depends on the woman. Most of these are just like parrots though who think they are smarter than everyone. There are rare exceptions. But most cant make original ideas. They can just parrot or mimic and act bitter as well. Only rare women can break this mold.

 

[Lookatu]

Also note that it's not apples to apples comparison.

Women get all sorts of bs degrees in life study subjects. You hardly see women getting PHD's in STEM related fields.

To me those types of degrees are not representative of IQ or even deep commitment and effort.

Yes they maybe knowledgeable about a certain subject and yes they may have put their time into getting it. But that's about it.

Fields like Physics take not only high IQ but a very deep commitment and effort to accomplish.

 

[Xenom0rph]

PHd = Player Hater Degree

 

[Bokanovsky]

3. He’s just asking to make conversation and doesn’t really care about the answer.

This, most of the time. As long as she is not a hooker or a professor of wymyn studies at a liberal arts college, her career is of secondary importance.

 

[Çharismo]

I got a PHD too a...Pretty Huge D!ck!!!!!!

El-oh-elz!!!