So here goes.
My wife and me have been married for more than a year. We get along quite well. Shes a ''good'' wife in that she cooks cleans and stays home. Weve had our ups and downs however this one is getting me thinking.
5 days ago, at work, we are speaking over the phone and suddenly theres an argument over some small problem. She doesn't like what I said regarding something and got slightly disrespectful. Before putting the phone down, i told her if she doesn't cut it out, i wont be speaking to her and will do only when i get home (which is in 4 days.) Lo and behold! she still talking chit so i just hang up. Now these small little arguments tend to happen and they get ironed out after a day or two of me ignoring her. In this situation i did not intend to ignore her for more than a day. Anyways, I blocked her (due to the annoying emotional texts that i know will be coming after hanging up.) and go about my day.
The next morning I get a knock on the front door (i stay in a care house which is part of my job) and theres my wife. Annoyed at me as to why I blocked her. I told her to leave and follow up by shutting the door on her. She left after a while and that was it. After that, i didnt hear a word from her. Normally she would harass me through private call etc however i got nothing. I decided to leave her blocked as for me she took it too far and came to my workplace.
Now, I return home after 4 days and shes got a pulled face. Nonetheless, she serves me food and then leaves for the room. Eventually I go to the room to rest and there she lying down with a pulled face. So i just ignore her. She then starts the argument again. This time I dont take her chit and literally shout at her for daring to come to my workplace. I leave the room. A few hours later i need to head back to work. As im about to leave she holds the door and asks me why I cant sit down and talk to her. I tell her i dont need to as ive made myself clear. SHe crossed the line by coming to my workplace just because I blocked her. SHe comes up with a petty argument and i tell her i dont have time. She says if i cant apologies (as i swore at her in the initial argument) then she will need to go home to her parents. I tell her that if she cant understand that she crossed the line, then she is more than welcome to leave for her parents. I then leave for work.
I go back home tomorrow morning.
EDIT: Im quite certain shes bluffing as when i came home food was made, my bag was packed and she did an online course that i needed done for speeding. I know she wants to be okay but she wants it on her terms. Thats the issue.
My wife and me have been married for more than a year. We get along quite well. Shes a ''good'' wife in that she cooks cleans and stays home. Weve had our ups and downs however this one is getting me thinking.
5 days ago, at work, we are speaking over the phone and suddenly theres an argument over some small problem. She doesn't like what I said regarding something and got slightly disrespectful. Before putting the phone down, i told her if she doesn't cut it out, i wont be speaking to her and will do only when i get home (which is in 4 days.) Lo and behold! she still talking chit so i just hang up. Now these small little arguments tend to happen and they get ironed out after a day or two of me ignoring her. In this situation i did not intend to ignore her for more than a day. Anyways, I blocked her (due to the annoying emotional texts that i know will be coming after hanging up.) and go about my day.
The next morning I get a knock on the front door (i stay in a care house which is part of my job) and theres my wife. Annoyed at me as to why I blocked her. I told her to leave and follow up by shutting the door on her. She left after a while and that was it. After that, i didnt hear a word from her. Normally she would harass me through private call etc however i got nothing. I decided to leave her blocked as for me she took it too far and came to my workplace.
Now, I return home after 4 days and shes got a pulled face. Nonetheless, she serves me food and then leaves for the room. Eventually I go to the room to rest and there she lying down with a pulled face. So i just ignore her. She then starts the argument again. This time I dont take her chit and literally shout at her for daring to come to my workplace. I leave the room. A few hours later i need to head back to work. As im about to leave she holds the door and asks me why I cant sit down and talk to her. I tell her i dont need to as ive made myself clear. SHe crossed the line by coming to my workplace just because I blocked her. SHe comes up with a petty argument and i tell her i dont have time. She says if i cant apologies (as i swore at her in the initial argument) then she will need to go home to her parents. I tell her that if she cant understand that she crossed the line, then she is more than welcome to leave for her parents. I then leave for work.
I go back home tomorrow morning.
EDIT: Im quite certain shes bluffing as when i came home food was made, my bag was packed and she did an online course that i needed done for speeding. I know she wants to be okay but she wants it on her terms. Thats the issue.
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