I don't have any success with online dating

[biggoal]

we have established dozens of times that you have a geography problem. Your best options are to move to a major city or use social media game and fly girls out.

Old outside of nyc, chi, la is vastly different than most areas of the country

 

[Barrister]

But if you are using old the selection totally tanked and hasn't recovered from covid at least here. Nyc old is different than most of the country.

Do you ever get tired of spouting the same nonsense over and over? You just look for excuses for why you keep striking out with women.

 

[biggoal]

Do you ever get tired of spouting the same nonsense over and over? You just look for excuses for why you keep striking out with women.

A lot of the women are fat on there. I cant control their eating habits or exercise routine or lack of it.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Girls are wearing the mask a lot still in public!

lol.
I very rarely see anyone wreaking a face diaper, but ironically when I do it is in 99.9% usually a a woman...

 

[AureliusMaximus]

A lot of the women are fat on there.

Most of the US population is fat as fvck. That is one of the things US is very well known for all over the world...

I do not have that problem where I live...
But I can understand that it also narrows down the options when a big portion (no pun intended lol), of the population is fat..
Swedes and Danes are health freaks theses day, very rarely see a fat whale here.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Social circle is always an option but I doubt most men on SoSuave have a social circle capable of getting them dates, getting them laid, and getting extended relationships. Social circles can often take years to build.

I did have a SS prior to Covid. And it was good for getting women. Two years of bio terror has decimated it.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

lol.
I very rarely see anyone wreaking a face diaper, but ironically when I do it is in 99.9% usually a a woman...

Come to my neck of the woods. The pu$$y hat for the face hole is ubiquitous.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Come to my neck of the woods. The pu$$y hat for the face hole is ubiquitous.

How to spot a Karen.. Look for a face diaper... Ha ha

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Well from what I heard and read Cali has become a real sheite hole to live and people are moving out of the state because the the left´s politics going on rampage @Hamurabimbi .

It is a shame. It used to a be great place to live from what I heard from a couple of US friends I have from the past.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Well from what I heard and read Cali has become a real sheite hole to live and people are moving out because the the lefts politics going on rampage @Hamurabimbi .

It is a Shame. It used to a be great place to live from what I heard from a a couple US friends I have from the past.

Yep. I plan to flee as well.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Well from what I heard and read Cali has become a real sheite hole to live and people are moving out of the state because the the lefts politics going on rampage @Hamurabimbi .

It is a shame. It used to a be great place to live from what I heard from a a couple US friends I have from the past.

What you heard is wrong. People move for financial interests. The coastal regions of the USA- California, NYC, Washington DC, etc. have positive higher-income migration and negative lower-income migration. In other words, richer people move in and poorer people move out (mostly due to housing costs). No one who can actually afford to live in California decides to go move to the middle of no where for “cultural reasons.”

 

[sangheilios]

What's the difference with approaching them one on one or in a group?

Why are you confident doing it one way and not the other?

If they are always in groups, wouldn't common sense tell you that you should practice approaching when in groups?

Just thoughts I am putting out there for you to contemplate.

Because when you approach them in a group there is a tendency for one of the friends to act as a "**** block" if you are approaching by yourself. It's generally better to approach a group of women when you have another guy with you so that he can keep the others occupied while you focus your attention on the woman you are particularly interested in. Also, unless a guy is very gifted socially and a life of the party type, which most men aren't, trying to approach a group of women on your own is going to be far more difficult than with a one on one interaction. I'm not sure if this has already been mentioned on this thread, but much of what I'm saying here is common sense.

 

[sangheilios]

@flipflip

To go back to the topic of this thread, OLD sites and apps don't work for men. This has been posted on a million times on here and there are tons of videos on youtube, with literally hundreds of thousands of views each, that discuss this topic. This is evidence that you are sharing the same type of experience on OLD with that of countless other men in the developed world.

I knew a guy in my area that used to constantly brag about all of these supposed matches on tinder that led to hookups. I honestly never really cared but I always felt that it was either totally made up, or at the very least heavily exaggerated. A while ago I remember him showing me screenshots of his "matches" and when I saw them they were clearly bot profiles lol. I didn't really feel the need to say anything but it essentially confirmed my suspicions. I had met a few women that he met off of those apps and they all ranged from average to below, I honestly never would have gone out of my way to talk to them. However, he used to exaggerate about how attractive they were and when you put all of the pieces together it was all just a bunch of made up nonsense.

The point of the story, most men aren't getting anything from OLD and if they are you are honestly going to have to date down by quite a bit. Attractive women don't need a dating app to meet men when they are getting approached daily by various men, either in person or even on their social media.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Men have to adapt. OLD and social media are how women prefer to date now. Learn how to win.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Because when you approach them in a group there is a tendency for one of the friends to act as a "**** block" if you are approaching by yourself. It's generally better to approach a group of women when you have another guy with you so that he can keep the others occupied while you focus your attention on the woman you are particularly interested in. Also, unless a guy is very gifted socially and a life of the party type, which most men aren't, trying to approach a group of women on your own is going to be far more difficult than with a one on one interaction. I'm not sure if this has already been mentioned on this thread, but much of what I'm saying here is common sense.

Very different from how women approach a guy in a group. My experience is a girl & her wing will both start talking to the target guy. And completely ignore the other guys.

 

[sangheilios]

Very different from how women approach a guy in a group. My experience is a girl & her wing will both start talking to the target guy. And completely ignore the other guys.

I've never seen women approach a man in a group like that, let alone approach at all.

 

[biggoal]

Men have to adapt. OLD and social media are how women prefer to date now. Learn how to win.

If thats the case why do i see mostly obese and damaged goods on old?? When out and about i see decent looking women so theyre clearly not using old.

 

[Billtx49]

If thats the case why do i see mostly obese and damaged goods on old??

Try to share with us your technique for spotting damaged goods in advance on OLD. Too many men can’t see them coming beforehand IRL since it’s basically her emotional / mental issue.

 

[biggoal]

Try to share with us your technique for spotting damaged goods in advance on OLD. Too many men can’t see them coming beforehand IRL since it’s basically her emotional / mental issue.

Just by their profiles. Divorced, 4 kids, older and worn out looking, profile bio, etc.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Most of the US population is fat as fvck. That is one of the things US is very well known for all over the world...

I do not have that problem where I live...
But I can understand that it also narrows down the options when a big portion (no pun intended lol), of the population is fat..
Swedes and Danes are health freaks theses day, very rarely see a fat whale here.

Not too many pudgies here. Great climate. Lots of outdoor opportunities. Abundant fresh food. Beautiful scenery.