Wow, so much to post on this issue. Lets begin.
I've heard women of all sorts complain about their various and contradicting relationship problems, ranging from "He's not sensitive" to "Where are the REAL men."
Truth is I've noticed that girls have too high of expectations for me. No, odds are they will not find someone like Vin Diesel, Brad Pitt, James Bond, etc. yet expect Joe Schlub to be like the aforementioned. She gets angry. Women want to change a man into their own liking. When its hopeless, she spins a web of utter lies to justify why she is leaving and seldomly are the man's emotions ever considered a factor. Its more about making HER feel good about herself in the end. Keep in mind I'm not a misogynist by any means...this is just the honest truth.
After much thought, I've come to the conclusion that WOMEN are to blame for their own unhappiness when it comes to relationship with men, but are incapable of accepting responsibility for it.
True. They are rarely decisive and when they are, its unrealistic expectations. Yet she expects the man to fully conform because she has a vagina, something she thinks he needs more than she needs a penis. Which in most cases thanks to society, she is right.
They cannot even imagine how confused and frustrated most good men are when it comes to women. Yet, if you try to explain it to them, they say "Oh, stop whining and BE A MAN." And women are supposed to be nurturing, as well as good communicators! What bullshyt.
They don't want any responsibility, guilt, shame, etc. on them. They try to roll off their problems on others to walk away with a clean slate of consciousness. Men do this often too. People in general are more likely to point the finger at others instead of themselves, even if the person themself is the only one to blame in a situation. However women get away with it a lot more because they are seen as sensitive, fragile people who cannot take their lumps like they should.
You are shocked to find out that not only does the "rational" way of relating to women not work, the very women you are trying to impress think you are a fool for doing it, even though they don't tell you that. You only figure it out when you have went out of your way for some girl, only to find out you have been used and then discarded. You are more confused, frustrated, and depressed than ever.
Most women have no objections of using a man up like a sponge. However if vice-versa applies, he is a monster that should be removed from society. Society is pretty much messed up and in the hands of psychotic women.
Look at the facts. The person (woman) by whom you judge your worth, is typically deceptive, manipulative, arbitrary, and selfish. She likely has NO regard for your wellbeing.
She most likely doesn't. Most women don't feel the need to spend much emotional time on a man because the man is expendable, especially if she is a HB7+. If she is not what he wants, she will have little problems finding a man who will do whatever she says until she discards him. Then she moves on to the next victim until she finds a real man who won't take her BS. Most women cheat today because they can. I would say the odds are likely that a man will take back a cheating woman than vice versa. Honestly if I found out a girl of mine is cheating and we are exclusive, her ass is out on the street. Most people I know will give her a second chance...only for her to cheat 1-2 months later or less.
Once think about it, and realize its truth, the opinion of a woman will no longer have any power over you.
I stopped really paying attention to the power of the woman weeks ago during what I think was an emotional growth spurt. They have to prove their worth to me. If they fail the test, I'm not chasing them. It takes more than a pair of tits and a vagina to get me interested.
It is always something wrong with A MAN if his relationships are not successful.
Often times it is a man's fault. Women will always see just how far she can push to get whatever she wants. In a way this is the "Daddy complex" where she finds a man who is just like her father aka a manservant. She demands so much from him but offers so little. Thats why they go after bad boys. They are so much different from what she was used to for the first 18 years of her life or so. Good guys are often told as the ideal on this board but I think finding a mix between the good guy and the bad boy is the ideal situation. You take risks in life and she is expendable to you. If she doesn't play right, she is gone because the guy has a waiting list of other women who will be more than happy to be his arm charm. You have one person in your life that is important (other than family) and that is you. No girl will ever change that.
Women in turn want men to be gentlemen and classy and 9 times out of 10 the first guys they gravitate toward are 100 percent jerks
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wish that it happened. Have you ever noticed how throughout your life, you move into better houses, drive better cars, live life better when you get more money? Nobody in life is ever content with anything. Its the process of self improvement. Women want to turn jerks into gentleman but once that happens, she ditches him and replaces him with another project. Why? She has the perfect man but perfection to people is fine for a while and then gets boring. How many dinner dates will it take before she is bored to tears? How many dozens of roses will it take before she just tosses them in the trash after receiving them? How many times will it take for her to get tired of cookie cutter AFCs that promise her the world because all she has to offer is a vagina?
Women want those that stray away from the gentleman like aspects. They don't want an alcoholic abuser but they want someone that appreciates them...somewhat. They make the woman feel sexual, they excite her with unpredictability, they don't kiss her ass because she hasn't earned it, etc. See what I'm saying? Its not that women are messed up, its that this is human nature; something we cannot fight. We will never beat it so there is no point in changing human genetics and behavior.
Men are portrayed horribly in Hollywood and by our culture at large.
What have men done to refute this? Nothing. That is the problem. When was the last time that you've seen a real man in the theaters? Even James Bond has gotten soft since Brosnan took the role (the true 007 nature died with Dalton's leave if you ask me) Vin Diesel is the only actor I know that only takes up masculine roles. He never is feminine, not once. Yet its funny to hear how girls want to nail him so bad. Yet he is not even attractive as he has a nasal exaggerated voice, looks like a redneck, and can't act his way out of a paper bag. Brad Pitt in Fight Club and Arnold in just about every movie except Junior are also good candidates. Three actors overall. Compared to the hundreds of AFCs out there destroying the good gender that is the male.
Biggest myth perpetuated by women: THAT THEY CAN CHANGE MEN. Never has happened on this planet, never will.
They are changing men. That is the problem. Women get bored of these changed men and move on. When they find a real man, thats when most of their BS is tossed out the window.
