How to Maintain Women after Sex?

[nicksaiz65]

Here’s a problem that has been plaguing my Game, and it’s finally time to really do something about it.

I’ve realized, that I actually have no clue how to maintain women that I’ve already banged. I have sex with them, they’ll be giving me compliments about how the sex is good, and the size of my dyck, and then I can never get them over again for months. (I’m just inviting them straight over after sex.)

This is one of the biggest issues towards me having a very consistent sex life. If I knew how to maintain women that I’ve banged, and bang them consistently, I wouldn’t go through dry patches. I’d also like to build up a rotation. When I’ve tried in the past, they’ve all crumbled lol.

So I’d like to know: after you all bang a girl, what is the exact process that you use to retain her longer term, and eventually add her to a rotation? Am I still taking these girls out on dates and doing fun stuff so they don’t just feel used for sex? How am I maintaining them? I don’t know anything about this right now, but I want to have a thorough understanding of the process.

I want to bang these girls for a while, and build up a rotation.

I get the feeling that I could watch some AMS videos on this, or reread some chapters from Roosh V’s book “Game.”

I know that you should still text for logistics so that you don’t end up saying something stupid, and killing the attraction lol. I’ve seen player friends that do this.

But yeah, from you rotation guys on here, I’d love to hear how you maintain girls after sex.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Give her spoonfuls. She has to initiate contact more often than vice versa. If she pulls back you pull back.

 

[devilkingx2]

So after sex you only text for logistics and you invite them straight over instead of taking them on dates and hanging out normally anymore? Sounds like the solution is to make small talk and still take her fun places to hang out like normal.

 

[SoSuave666]

Stop putting weight on what a woman says, put more weight on what she does. Your secks and your penis aren’t special, she can get whatever you offer somewhere else at the snap of a finger. She’s had better.

in order to keep a woman you actually need to not want to keep her.

 

[DonJuanjr]

Stop putting weight on what a woman says, put more weight on what she does. Your secks and your penis aren’t special, she can get whatever you offer somewhere else at the snap of a finger. She’s had better.

in order to keep a woman you actually need to not want to keep her.

Even if his djck and sex was special, the feel good chems would wear off in her brain at some point anyways, and it's no longer special, because it's not new...

 

[Chuck Taylor]

She only really needs to have taken a few good d1cks to reach this point - whereby her brain "resets" the next day after the feelz wear off. It's creepy, but it makes sense. When women get multiple d1cks it signals R-Selection to Nature - the woman must be living in a very risky, violent society where we need to fvck and breed a lot (as opposed to K-selected which is about monogamy, investment, family creation etc). So when a woman takes multiple d1cks it literally changes her brain forever - she is now R-selected and is configured like a rabbit prey-animal that just fvcks and lives in fear all the time.

My last fling, she only got really turned on when we had risky sex, like in an elevator or when I would punish **** her. Regular sex on a bed didn't really do that much for her.

 

[SoSuave666]

Even if his djck and sex was special, the feel good chems would wear off in her brain at some point anyways, and it's no longer special, because it's not new...

It’s the pair bonding thing all the theorists here talk about. I’m not a big theorist, I just go by my own personal observations and a lot of the time it aligns. Women who fvck over and over have sandpapered their ability to bond with men.

basically every time I fvck it’a “omg that was amazing you’re so big best sex ever”.

Yea ok b1tch go home I’ve got work in the morning.

 

[SW15]

How clear are you making your intentions? Are they aware you are solely looking for casual sex? I've been more relationship oriented.

If you're having sex on the first date, a lot of same night lays and first date lays don't go beyond 1 night.

Your secks and your penis aren’t special, she can get whatever you offer somewhere else at the snap of a finger. She’s had better.

If you're making her orgasm and your penis size is perceived as good by her, it would be less likely that you'd be encountering some of the issues you do encounter. She would either be enthusiastic to get together with you or she'd be initiating stuff. What a woman does is more telling than what she says. Something is off about your post sex interactions.

 

[Striker_93]

You're not fvcking them good enough

If you was they would always come back for more, they will desire you and lust for you.

 

[Barrister]

OP - my guess is you are changing your approach after you fvck. Probably the tactics you used before to get her disappear and you are getting too nice afterwards and either simping or getting close to that.

It’s easy to fake confidence for a bit before you bang a woman. Harder to keep it up after the deed if it wasn’t genuine. Hence why you need to actually be confident and not just be putting up a facade that you are. Be successful in life and have an abundance mindset with plenty of female options. Maintaining these women gets EASY if you have these things going for you.

 

[nicksaiz65]

So after sex you only text for logistics and you invite them straight over instead of taking them on dates and hanging out normally anymore? Sounds like the solution is to make small talk and still take her fun places to hang out like normal.

Yes, I’m thinking this is the correct play for the post-sex interaction. This is what I’m missing, in my opinion.

I’ll still primarily text for logistics, but I can throw some banter in there for a couple sentences like Roosh V suggests.

So yeah, keep taking them out after dates. I’ll probably watch more AMS and reread my Roosh V to get the full details

 

[jaymbrs]

This sounds like a chick question.

 

[Chuck Taylor]

Yes, I’m thinking this is the correct play for the post-sex interaction. This is what I’m missing, in my opinion.

I’ll still primarily text for logistics, but I can throw some banter in there for a couple sentences like Roosh V suggests.

So yeah, keep taking them out after dates. I’ll probably watch more AMS and reread my Roosh V to get the full details

Don't call or text after sex. Ever.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Stop putting weight on what a woman says, put more weight on what she does. Your secks and your penis aren’t special, she can get whatever you offer somewhere else at the snap of a finger. She’s had better.

in order to keep a woman you actually need to not want to keep her.

Y’know, it always feels different applying it in the field for real. Definitely have to think back to the theory

 

[nicksaiz65]

This sounds like a chick question.

Well I think it’s important to address this issue tbh. Otherwise, you end up with just a bunch of sporadic, one off lays. Which isn’t very satisfying.

I want to build a full on rotation instead.

 

[nicksaiz65]

It's been said a million times. There is a large proportion of the male population who will never comprehend this (because it's not logical to the male mind - we want to be with women who like us. Women want to be with guys who don't like them because it signals his higher status. Guys cannot comprehend this).

So what would you do in the field to convey this while still building up your rotation?

 

[jaymbrs]

Well I think it’s important to address this issue tbh. Otherwise, you end up with just a bunch of sporadic, one off lays. Which isn’t very satisfying.

I want to build a full on rotation instead.

You're in the prime age group of 1 night stands. Date older if you want them to stick around after sex.

 

[nicksaiz65]

You're in the prime age group of 1 night stands. Date older if you want them to stick around after sex.

Oh I just mean as in I want a bunch of fvck buddies haha. So while I’m out gaming getting new one night stands the pvssy is always on tap ya feel me

 

[BackInTheGame78]

No woman wants to feel like a wh0re. You are making them feel like a wh0re

 

[Stuffnu]

Don’t cuddle.…