How to Maintain Women after Sex?

[Chuck Taylor]

No woman wants to feel like a wh0re. You are making them feel like a wh0re

For sure. But it sounds like @nicksaiz65 can't even get em back for Round 2. OP, are they ghosting you after the hookup?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

For sure. But it sounds like @nicksaiz65 can't even get em back for Round 2. OP, are they ghosting you after the hookup?

That's why...he is basically making it abundantly clear he only wants them for sex. Even if that is true, you have to make them believe it isn't.

 

[manfrombelow]

OP is clueless about a fact that after sex, it should be men who hold the power, not women.

In short: After sex, she should be the one to come up here and make this thread asking how to maintain her man after sex, not vice versa.

 

[BadBoy89]

- I have sex with them,
- they’ll be giving me compliments about how the sex is good, and the size of my dyck
- I actually have no clue how to maintain women that I’ve already banged.
- I’d love to hear how you maintain girls after sex.

If you are giving them amazing amazing sex where they compliment you about how amazing the sex you give them is, you don’t need to do anything to maintain them.

Just keep giving them the amazing amazing sex you give them.

 

[BeExcellent]

Advice from the old lady:

Think Spock from Star Trek: Fascinating.

Lol. Two things. Be fun & interesting to hang out with and learn to be a *great* lover. No woman wants to let go of a great lover and few men know how to be one. So those 2 things alone can set you apart.

Paging @Glassguy

 

[DonJuanjr]

learn to be a *great* lover. No woman wants to let go of a great lover and few men know how to be one.

What makes a man a great lover?

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Frankly I like messing shyte up for the next guy in the rotation. Ergo, whatever it takes to make that happen. Always brings them back.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Here’s a problem that has been plaguing my Game, and it’s finally time to really do something about it.

I’ve realized, that I actually have no clue how to maintain women that I’ve already banged. I have sex with them, they’ll be giving me compliments about how the sex is good, and the size of my dyck, and then I can never get them over again for months. (I’m just inviting them straight over after sex.)

This is one of the biggest issues towards me having a very consistent sex life. If I knew how to maintain women that I’ve banged, and bang them consistently, I wouldn’t go through dry patches. I’d also like to build up a rotation. When I’ve tried in the past, they’ve all crumbled lol.

So I’d like to know: after you all bang a girl, what is the exact process that you use to retain her longer term, and eventually add her to a rotation? Am I still taking these girls out on dates and doing fun stuff so they don’t just feel used for sex? How am I maintaining them? I don’t know anything about this right now, but I want to have a thorough understanding of the process.

I want to bang these girls for a while, and build up a rotation.

I get the feeling that I could watch some AMS videos on this, or reread some chapters from Roosh V’s book “Game.”

I know that you should still text for logistics so that you don’t end up saying something stupid, and killing the attraction lol. I’ve seen player friends that do this.

But yeah, from you rotation guys on here, I’d love to hear how you maintain girls after sex.

I play catch and release so not the best fella to answer the question.

I have girls in rotation who I pulled before wave 1 in London. Rotations erode. Girls flake. Pull and a girl can drop off. It happens.

The solution is #nextset! I'm always of the preference for new rather than falling back on has been puss. There's dhv females from time to time. Keep that around.

Women especially modern women fall off. Are ran through. More masculine and the concept of dhv is unheard of. There's little to no value added.

My process is aloof. Indifference or blatant disregard. I'm not kidding when I say that from the walk from her bedroom to my car, and I am sourcing new girls (or not for a lack if effort ).most fellas pull and are on them phaggy times. Execute the program. Source. Pull. Go get more girls. Run your funnel. Repeat. Comply or bye.

It's conditional. ALWAYS. She must comply or I go get more girls. She can comply &&& I still go get more girls. Once she adds value, spring board her out of booty call status. It could be as simple as getting dinner or movies. The game had a segment on rocks vs diamonds. Dhv girls are almost nonexistent. When you pull that getting sushi or the random steak house trip isn't a big deal. The girls dropping off stooges. They get pied and placed on disregard.

If a girl drops off after sex it's not her 1st rodeo. Good riddance. Typical of modern women. Keep sourcing. I don't try to get them to be anything more than they are. I just bait them &&& let the ships fall where they may.

 

[Glassguy]

Advice from the old lady:

Think Spock from Star Trek: Fascinating.

Lol. Two things. Be fun & interesting to hang out with and learn to be a *great* lover. No woman wants to let go of a great lover and few men know how to be one. So those 2 things alone can set you apart.

Paging @Glassguy

I don't chase women before sex and I don't chase them after sex. There is consistency in how I communicate with them before and after.

Rules of dating:
1. Only deal with high interest women
2. Don't chase. Show intent and let them invest.
3. Date to make yourself happy first and foremost. Learn to say "no".
4. Stay somewhat mysterious and be unpredictable. You want her wondering if you like her or not.

Nothing changes after sex. And if it does, a woman will either perceive the change of personality as 1. A man who used her for sex (if you just drop off the face of the earth) or 2. You ramp up your communication with her after sex and act like you've never had @ss before......cringy/beta attitude. She will RUN, not walk.....to get away from you.

Be chill/fun and laid back before sex, be chill/fun and laid back after sex. Keep it the same. She liked you well enough to fvck you, so why would you stop being that person afterwards?

DONT give in after sex but also don't ghost. Just remain friendly as before.

Keep it light and fun. Both before and after. That's how you keep them around (for a while) in a rotation. Or at least how I do it anyway. It works for me.

Occasionally you'll just get your hands on a horny woman that wants fvcked and nothing more. Fvck her and if she disappears, oh well. That's not the type of person you want in a rotation because she will NEVER be submissive to you.

Rotations = test driving to see if they are valuable enough for a relationship. Kicking the tires and checking under the hood. If something seems wrong with it, move on to something that has more value and better suits your needs.

Happy Hunting

 

[BillyPilgrim]

So after sex you only text for logistics and you invite them straight over instead of taking them on dates and hanging out normally anymore? Sounds like the solution is to make small talk and still take her fun places to hang out like normal.

This, plus giving her great sex, plus caring less than she does.

 

[SW15]

No woman wants to feel like a wh0re. You are making them feel like a wh0re

I think there is some element of this going on.

I don't chase women before sex and I don't chase them after sex. There is consistency in how I communicate with them before and after.

Rules of dating:
1. Only deal with high interest women
2. Don't chase. Show intent and let them invest.
3. Date to make yourself happy first and foremost. Learn to say "no".
4. Stay somewhat mysterious and be unpredictable. You want her wondering if you like her or not.

Nothing changes after sex. And if it does, a woman will either perceive the change of personality as 1. A man who used her for sex (if you just drop off the face of the earth) or 2. You ramp up your communication with her after sex and act like you've never had @ss before......cringy/beta attitude. She will RUN, not walk.....to get away from you.

Be chill/fun and laid back before sex, be chill/fun and laid back after sex. Keep it the same. She liked you well enough to fvck you, so why would you stop being that person afterwards?

DONT give in after sex but also don't ghost. Just remain friendly as before.

Keep it light and fun. Both before and after. That's how you keep them around (for a while) in a rotation.

All good comments.

If you are giving them amazing amazing sex where they compliment you about how amazing the sex you give them is, you don’t need to do anything to maintain them.

Just keep giving them the amazing amazing sex you give them.

Being good at sex is the #1 game tip. A guy won't need to game as frequently if he doesn't want to game as frequently. There are some "thrill of the hunt" type guys out there. Being good at sex will help with increasing retention options and longevity of the interaction. It could even develop into a relationship for a guy who wants that sort of thing.

If a guy is good at sex, it might be possible that he could encounter issues in game in getting to the point of sex at a time when he has 0 prospect. Perhaps he moved to a new city or had a breakup of a committed relationship. But once he gets to sex, he's in a good place.

 

[Chuck Taylor]

Do, not, contact, after, sex. At a certain point, if she's really interested in seeing you again, she will reach out. It may take a few weeks, but she will reach out.

 

[Chuck Taylor]

@nicksaiz65 I will add, when you meet a girl you're interested in, you have to destroy her ego. You do this by NGAF. Do not call after your first date, do not call after sex. You also destroy her ego by saying certain things to her at certain times, but for the purposes of this thread ... see my previous post.

 

[Rainman4707]

Women that sincerly like you, make it easy for you. Dont waste your valuable time and energy on the others.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

Here’s a problem that has been plaguing my Game, and it’s finally time to really do something about it.

I’ve realized, that I actually have no clue how to maintain women that I’ve already banged. I have sex with them, they’ll be giving me compliments about how the sex is good, and the size of my dyck, and then I can never get them over again for months. (I’m just inviting them straight over after sex.)

This is one of the biggest issues towards me having a very consistent sex life. If I knew how to maintain women that I’ve banged, and bang them consistently, I wouldn’t go through dry patches. I’d also like to build up a rotation. When I’ve tried in the past, they’ve all crumbled lol.

So I’d like to know: after you all bang a girl, what is the exact process that you use to retain her longer term, and eventually add her to a rotation? Am I still taking these girls out on dates and doing fun stuff so they don’t just feel used for sex? How am I maintaining them? I don’t know anything about this right now, but I want to have a thorough understanding of the process.

I want to bang these girls for a while, and build up a rotation.

I get the feeling that I could watch some AMS videos on this, or reread some chapters from Roosh V’s book “Game.”

I know that you should still text for logistics so that you don’t end up saying something stupid, and killing the attraction lol. I’ve seen player friends that do this.

But yeah, from you rotation guys on here, I’d love to hear how you maintain girls after sex.

As others have stated:

1) That's not the mindset you want to have regarding sex or relationships. It shouldn't occupy mental space. Never chase or try to convince ANYONE to be in your life.
2) Reality is that women say things they don't really mean all the time. This has been said multiple times, actions over words.


Modern Man Advice

 

[nicksaiz65]

So after sex you only text for logistics and you invite them straight over instead of taking them on dates and hanging out normally anymore? Sounds like the solution is to make small talk and still take her fun places to hang out like normal.

Well, I have to say this definitely helped lol. I met up with a chick that I banged a while back today. Couldn’t get her to come over to the house for sh*t lately. Took her to the pool bar, drank a bit, then pulled her back home and banged the mess out of her again lol.

 

[nicksaiz65]

My last fling, she only got really turned on when we had risky sex, like in an elevator or when I would punish **** her. Regular sex on a bed didn't really do that much for her.

Ayy the elevator? That’s crazy haha.

The craziest I’ve done is probably in the pool.

What are some of the craziest places you’ve banged women? I’m assuming the elevator is the riskiest/craziest one lol

 

[nicksaiz65]

They do this because it works.

Dudes are so easy to Game. Women laugh about it all the time "Yeah, tell him he's got the biggest d1ck and he's great in bed. Watch him simp for you. LOLZ. Yass slay."

It's almost political for them. Like a power thing. They actually really enjoy toying and tooling and punking guys.

Hmmm. Sometimes I forget how manipulative women can be. So all you can do is judge them by their actions(see if they keep coming back for more d*ck.)

 

[nicksaiz65]

How clear are you making your intentions? Are they aware you are solely looking for casual sex? I've been more relationship oriented.

If you're having sex on the first date, a lot of same night lays and first date lays don't go beyond 1 night.



If you're making her orgasm and your penis size is perceived as good by her, it would be less likely that you'd be encountering some of the issues you do encounter. She would either be enthusiastic to get together with you or she'd be initiating stuff. What a woman does is more telling than what she says. Something is off about your post sex interactions.

I can’t say I’m really making it clear at all… I don’t really know how to do that lol. I am solely looking for casual sex but idk if I should, or how I should convey that.

Actually, in hindsight, a lot of my successes have been same night lays. I’ll have to keep that in mind that many of them typically don’t go beyond one night.

 

[nicksaiz65]

You're not fvcking them good enough

If you was they would always come back for more, they will desire you and lust for you.

The ironic thing about that is, to learn to fvck them better, you need more consistent pvssy so you can keep on practicing laying pipe. Which brings us right back around to the title of this thread. Kind of a vicious cycle