How many of you actually go out every weekend to approach and talk to women?

[MatureDJ]

Cold approach in this context is a complete waste of time and effort and imo it's clown behavior, women can smell your "agenda" a mile away.

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[MatureDJ]

It could be something where you are grabbing tomatoes at the grocery store and this girl walks by, you make some sort of comment or whatever and she appears open to further interaction.

 

[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

a comic event is going on this weekend, done some socializing there, but yeah its another reminder that, for all time, for men its an option or choice, not for women though, when it comes to interacting with the opposite sex, but yeah, men can choose to if they want to or not, women are basically forced to.

 

[oc16]

From my Mid 20's up through my mid 30's I was obsessed that I had to try and approach at least one female and try and get a number every time I went out! If I didn't, the "night was failure and waste of my time"

Once I hit my late 30's I realized the bar/club scene is not the best place to meet quality women. It is loud, the girl/guy ratio is not in your favor and most women just want to have fun with their friends and not get hit on.

I am now 47 and I when I go out to the bar (which I don't do as often) I just go out with low expectations and try and get a good buzz on with some beers and good food.