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No offence but that sounds like bullsh!t excuser nonsense to me.
A guy who has fvcked loads of women or one that prides himself on being a GREAT "lover" with a few? Give me a break. The great monogamous "lover" isnt even a blip on the radar in reality to both men or women for that matter. Everyone here whos honest knows exactly which one is worth putting your beer down to pay attention to.
Guys who crap on about how they can give those one or two unique snowflakes 10 orgasms are usually passed the beer nuts just so they can shut the fvck up.
Let me make one thing clear...I was NOT a "monogamous lover". Let me make another thing clear...to this day, I have never sat on a table and brag with other men about what I do in the bedroom with women (writing in an anonymous message board giving advice is one thing). As I personally find that kind of behavior distasteful in men. And my experience is that typically a man that talks about those kind of things is a man seeking validation from his friends (once again, writing in an anonymous message board is different).
And if everybody in here knew "who's honest"...they wouldn't be comming in here for more advice after reading "Mystery" and those other guys that are making load of money out of advice that is truly common sense. ANYONE can get a woman get some interest in a man. Very few can keep that woman interested for a long period of time as b.s. is later detected.
I have actually phuck my share of women. Enough as to know who is lying or over stating their numbers in this particular place. All I have to do is read some of the advice those same people give in here...and shake my head.
As I said...I was in my early teenagehood when I got involved with my first woman. A woman that was and adult. I'm come from a Latino country in which when kids in your culture are concerned about GI Joe...kids in my culture were concerned about...girls and sex.
How many women I have phucked? I honestly don't know. I kept tap when I was a teenager...but after that, it becomes irrelevant (as many men that has no problems having sex with women know). It is like masturbating (which I didn't start doing after I was in the Military Service stuck in an aircraft career - yep, I didn't masturbate as a teenager...because I didn't have too); you want to orgasm...then you find a woman.
I phucked sometimes 3 or 4 different women within 48 hours (e.g. Friday-Saturday). I have turned down several in my life too. Still do. Some, even as we laid naked side by side and I simply decided it was not a good idea as I felt she was either drunk or that my standards were lowering.
And I was also married once...while still seeing other women...and while managing to keep my then wife happy (I changed later in life as I decided to focus on my career and my family more). So...the "monogamous lover" does not apply to me as I have only being in two LTR...well, 3 if we count one when I was in my teens MANY years ago. And LTR = longer than 6 months.
I got MUCH MORE BETTER in the sack after 2 or so years of marriage and as I got older. As I clearly understood and put into practice other techniques.
Do you realize how hard is to make a woman in her early 20s (that still learning her body) orgasm? Do you truly believe going with one on a one night stand is going to do the trick? LOL. Don't kid yourself.
Having SOLELY a very high number of one-night-stands does not make you a great lover. It simply makes you a great "PUA" and in a way it is not much different than masturbating.
Women are not like men when it comes to what triggers them into orgasm. And that is something that you will never learn from a guy like "Mystery" and the likes. If you all did...you wouldn't be asking for more advice. You would have bought his product and BLING BLING!
By the way...the one in the couple of long term relationships (assuming 5+ years)...still has had MUCH MORE SEX than the one that was involved with 80 women.
5 x 52 weeks...assuming an average of sex once a week... = 260 times.
But the one that had the 80 women knows how to convince women to go to bed with him and also knows that there are different shapes and colors.
One is certainly greater in satisfying his woman (ltr dude)...the other is greater on getting women. However, very few are great on both. VERY VERY VERY few. And those are the ones that can truly give the best advice.
By the way...I never asked for advice when it came to having sex with women and when it came on getting women involved as we didn't have the Internet when I was in my 20s (now in my late 30s). It just came natural.