How can I get over my negative opinions of black girls?

[ketostix]

Why do you think she played me? I knew what she was doing the whole time thats why I dumped her azz. The only mistake I made was taking her out and spent some cash on her but it was doing things I enjoy like going to baseball games.

The 2nd mistake I made was calling her a week after I dumped her and got her to come back which caused a whole boatload of other drama that I'm still sifting my way out of.

You're right, I probably made a mistake saying only black girls play guys. It's what the thread is about and this is the only black girl I have dated and she was a worse player than other girls because she never spent a dime on me and I let her get away with that crap. I got tired of it quick and showed her the door but I was not smooth about the dump at all. In fact I handled it horribly because dumping girls is not my specialty I need alot more practice.

Most girls I date will at least bring me beer.

Well I keep saying inter-racial dating is not about love. Some people don't want to accept it because they're ego invested in their "scientific" liberal, PC beliefs that it is.

 

[speakeasy]

Well I keep saying inter-racial dating is not about love.

Will you just shut the hell up?? And stop airing your personal opinions as if they are undisputed fact. Who the hell are you to tell every interracial couple what their relationship is about? As if you know them all. That's as stupid as saying ALL same race relationships are about love, when you clearly know that's not the case. What goes on in someone's relationship is very personal between those two people, and you if you don't know them, it's not your business, nor do you know how those two feel about each other. You really ought to just drop this topic, because you look like a fool.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Well I keep saying inter-racial dating is not about love. Some people don't want to accept it because they're ego invested in their "scientific" liberal, PC beliefs that it is.

She told me she only dates white guys and her ex husband was white. She said he hit her, and she said her fiancee walked out on her earlier this year. Seems she is a nympho and has to cheat. The only thing she doesn't do is drugs (kinda surprised) and her folks are still together so I dont know what this chics brain malfunction is. She is on some kind of anti depressant.

She likes military guys and I am far from that. She was using me for sex and whatever else she could get. Shocker I found this one online right?

This has nothing to do with what race she is.. like the other guy said all girls can be like this. It left a bad taste in my mouth and makes me not wanna date another black girl even though I know they aren't all like this.

 

[ketostix]

This has nothing to do with what race she is.. like the other guy said all girls can be like this.

Exactly it's not about HER race. It's about her behavior and one of her behaviors that serves as a redflag is her interacial dating. Although in her case she could go either way being half-black and half white lol. She probably dates white guys though because she finds them easier to manipulate. Sometimes people won't date from a race because they have something against them. Other times they will date a certain race because they have something against them. With the latter they take out their issue on that group through dating them.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Exactly it's not about HER race. It's about her behavior and one of her behaviors that serves as a redflag is her interacial dating. Although in her case she could go either way being half-black and half white lol. She probably dates white guys though because she finds them easier to manipulate. Sometimes people won't date from a race because they have something against them. Other times they will date a certain race because they have something against them. With the latter they take out their issue on that group through dating them.

Her mom is white and her dad is black. It's still considered interracial dating when she dates white guys?

 

[ketostix]

Her mom is white and her dad is black. It's still considered interracial dating when she dates white guys?

Well no matter who she dates it would be interacial to a degree. What I'm saying is she only dates white guys and look how she treats them? You can say she has issues or issues with men in general, but why is it she doesn't date black guys..? It's something to consider.

PS: that speakeasy negged me. He's like an intolerant radical with this race stuff.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Well no matter who she dates it would be interacial to a degree. What I'm saying is she only dates white guys and look how she treats them? You can say she has issues or issues with men in general, but why is it she doesn't date black guys..? It's something to consider.

PS: that speakeasy negged me. He's like an intolerant radical with this race stuff.

I don't know. Daddy issues? Her folks are still together, but that doesnt mean she doesnt have daddy issues. There has to be, why else the BPD behavior and the white guy thing?

Why would her fiancee walk out on her and never talk to her again?.... He probably found out about her behavior what I knew all along. Her cool personality is too good to be true and I can see an unenlightened guy fall for her and think she's loyal. She was fun as hell to hang out with but I cant accept the possibility she banged or sucked another guy right before she came over to see me. So, adios.

 

[PSYCHO]

Hey Vlad the Impaler. change your name to Vlad The Impaled! Being impaled by hors!

OMG... is this LMS?!?!?!

LMS died of venereal disease - he contacted it from a hor who said that she was a virgin - the ho lied and killed him with her sickness! Before he died, he told me to come here and finish his "Say 'No' to hos" work - and that I shall do!!

Being A HOR has nothing to do with color/race - it has to do with her horing - having sex with someone other than her husband!!

Never trust a woman who gives herself to a man without a spiritual bond and a life-term public commitment!!

And Ketostix, change your name to Nazistix!

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Hey Vlad the Impaler. change your name to Vlad The Impaled! Being impaled by hors!

LMS died of venereal disease - he contacted it from a hor who said that she was a virgin - the ho lied and killed him with her sickness! Before he died, he told me to come here and finish his "Say "No" to hos " work - and that I shall do!!

Being A HOR has nothing to do with color/race - it has to do with her horing - having sex with someone other than her husband!!

Never trust a woman who gives herself to a man without a spiritual bond and a life-term public commitment!

And Ketostix, change your name to Nazistix!

Whatever dude... you know who this is. I dont care what race she is. If I am dating a girl and I find out she is kissing other d!cks I get disgusted. I am just happy I am not kissing those nasty lips anymore. Can we agree on that?

And little Skip wants to say I'm a fool to the game.. .Well litttle Skip, good luck kissing those nasty lips. I will have nothing to do with them.

 

[PSYCHO]

Whatever dude... you know who this is. I dont care what race she is. If I am dating a girl and I find out she is kissing other d!cks I get disgusted. I am just happy I am not kissing those nasty lips anymore. Can we agree on that?.

Well, this is The Natural Order Of Things - all men require loyalty from his female mate!! Anything less is unworthy!! But here is the rub - a woman who lets you sex her - WILL allow others to do the same!!
Because since there was no moral requirement from impeding her to have you sex her, then she has no moral qualms of allowing another to do the same!

Do you understand this?

Hors "love" every body, and no one, at the same time!!!

No, I don't know who this is?

 

[Vlad the 1mpaler]

Well, this is The Natural Order Of Things - all men require loyalty from his female mate!! Anything less is unworthy!! But here is the rub - a woman who lets you sex her - WILL allow others to do the same!!
Because since there was no moral requirement from impeding her to have you sex her, then she has no moral qualms of allowing another to do the same!

Do you understand this?

Hors "love" every body, and no one, at the same time!!!

No, I don't know who this is?

I did the right thing and didn't put up with this crap. Not all girls are like that. I will find one that is loyal and faithful or I will die trying.

I am leaning towards non American women. that is the best bet. Screw all these American hoes. I hate to say it but it's true. I want one who speaks broken English and doesn't want to bang the town.

 

[Evzone]

I maintain my opinion that these race-oriented threads are only started and posted on to start trouble. Grow up.

 

[PSYCHO]

I am leaning towards non American women. that is the best bet. Screw all these American hoes. I hate to say it but it's true. I want one who speaks broken English and doesn't want to bang the town.

Yes, ironically, her broken English is a indicator of authenticity, by representing a different culture in her speech, she lets you know that she is not from here (USA) - which then is a good thing!

EVCone, calm down, we're are all adults here, some less so than others.

 

[Vlad the 1mpaler]

Yes, ironically, her broken English is a indicator of authenticity, by representing a different culture in her speech, she lets you know that she is not from here (USA) - which then is a good thing!

EVCone, calm down, we're are all adults here, some less so than others.

Yeah, I got neg repped too for some reason in this thread. Whatever. I wanted to love this girl and then she scared the hell out of me because who wants to love a slut? It's too bad cuz I wanted it to work. One day when she is alone and with her 10 cats she will regret her behavior. I just want some loyalty is that too much to ask?

 

[PSYCHO]

That is your problem, you cannot want to love her - she has to earn it - your love!! When you want, desire, something, then you accepted it without knowing it - that's a no-no! You may not want "it", once you know it! Otherwise you may embrace a lie! You lied to yourself - because you saw what you wanted to see, and thus did not see what you saw!

 

[Vlad the 1mpaler]

That is your problem, you cannot want to love her - she has to earn it - your love!! When you want, desire, something, then you accepted it without knowing it - that's a no-no! You may not want "it", once you know it! Otherwise you may embrace a lie! You lied to yourself - because you saw what you wanted to see, and thus did not see what you saw!

That's why I love you man.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Well I keep saying inter-racial dating is not about love. Some people don't want to accept it because they're ego invested in their "scientific" liberal, PC beliefs that it is.

WHO THE F*CK CARES!!!?

Well no matter who she dates it would be interacial to a degree. What I'm saying is she only dates white guys and look how she treats them? You can say she has issues or issues with men in general, but why is it she doesn't date black guys..? It's something to consider.

AGAIN....WHO THE **** CARES?! ONLY YOU DO!

He got played because hes a chump.

 

[Vlad the 1mpaler]

WHO THE F*CK CARES!!!?



AGAIN....WHO THE **** CARES?! ONLY YOU DO!

He got played because hes a chump.

How did I get played? You mad? I banged her for 2 months like a rag doll and dumped the tramp cuz she could be a walking STD.

Played would be marrying the ho.

Played would be dating her seriously.

Played would be not finding out who she really is.

Played would be knocking her up.

I played her ass because I knew all along she was a ho but I didn't dump her till I got 2 months of sex and I pretended that I was really into her. The only bad thing I did was spend money taking her to baseball games and out to eat a couple times. You don't know what you're talking about. She said she would marry me if I asked. I have no doubt she would have married me and then cheat on me and take half my sh!t.

 

[oakraiderz2]

How did I get played? You mad? I banged her for 2 months like a rag doll and dumped the tramp cuz she could be a walking STD.

Played would be marrying the ho.

Played would be dating her seriously.

Played would be not finding out who she really is.

Played would be knocking her up.

I played her ass because I knew all along she was a ho but I didn't dump her till I got 2 months of sex and I pretended that I was really into her. The only bad thing I did was spend money taking her to baseball games and out to eat a couple times. You don't know what you're talking about. She said she would marry me if I asked. I have no doubt she would have married me and then cheat on me and take half my sh!t.

Played would be her turning you back into an afc, like you said she did, in your first post...

My current girl is half black and she is a player and was banging guys behind my back and lied about it and is still trying to play my ass after I caught feelings for her. She turned me back into a raging AFC with her playa skills. I did well at the beginning using DJ skills and being confident all the time and banged her for 2 months but then she got me to turn into an AFC by playing me.

I'm going to stay away from them too from now on

And you said because shes black, she cheated on you. Retard.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Played would be her turning you back into an afc, like you said she did, in your first post...



And you said because shes black, she cheated on you. Retard.

I never said that. I said this is my only experience with a black girl and it left a bad taste in my mouth. 2nd, she never cheated because we were never exclusive so you are making crap up too.

I'm glad she turned me into an AFC because that's when I found out she was a tramp sleeping with the town. The AFC stuff also helped to get rid of her and its already paying off because I am talking to 2 new girls I may have never met if this one was still around.

I have a hard time dumping chics for good because I usually only date 1 at a time... so in situations like these I have to use underhanded methods to get rid of them like sabatoging and pissing them off until they hate me. I think it's a psychological thing because I usually miss them and call them after a week or 2. I think I'm getting better. I still think this one will be back for an ego boost and to see if she can still get to me. Would be nice to find a new chic asap so I don't relapse.

This was a great lesson I will use on my next girl.

None of her actions are because she is black and I never meant to imply that so sorry if you misunderstood. She's just another BPD chic for the sosuave vault.