DragonBlood
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 20, 2012
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- 520
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- Age
- 36
Hi guys, I had an argument with my ex over a year ago (no resolution) which lead her to next day branch swing to the next guy in line who happened to live aboard. We both work in a small office (different departments) and there is no way for me to leave for at least another two years.
She is fairly up in the company, and with a new round of hires has decided to hire her new boyfriend into her own department. This other guy has uprooted his whole life so they can now eat, sleep and work together. He starts in a months time. Hurrah.
This solves their distances problem but I feel like she is doing this just to scorn me, create jealously, force me to make a move and make my life for the next 2 years miserable.
This has really caught me by surprise and I dont know what to do or how to take it. I cant even believe this is going to be my new reality. I am not looking forward to the future or how this will effect my health. I am thinking of sending this text or somehow confronting her about this before he actually arrives, but I would really appreciate your thoughts on my current situation!
She is fairly up in the company, and with a new round of hires has decided to hire her new boyfriend into her own department. This other guy has uprooted his whole life so they can now eat, sleep and work together. He starts in a months time. Hurrah.
This solves their distances problem but I feel like she is doing this just to scorn me, create jealously, force me to make a move and make my life for the next 2 years miserable.
This has really caught me by surprise and I dont know what to do or how to take it. I cant even believe this is going to be my new reality. I am not looking forward to the future or how this will effect my health. I am thinking of sending this text or somehow confronting her about this before he actually arrives, but I would really appreciate your thoughts on my current situation!
ORWe both know the real reason you hired <name>. Either ask me out or find someone better, but dont be stuck in limbo rubbing **** into my face.
I have tried my best to let go of the situation and either reconnect with my ex or find someone new. But its so hard guys, how can I let go and better myself when shes on a warpath to keep old wounds going. If I allow this new situation I am stuck in to get to me day by day I will become depressed and lose all my current options. PLEASE HELP.You might run the show in your department hiring <name> but I will never bend to please you. I am my own man.
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