Here's a "quality" post for ya...interesting proposition from a woman.....

[STR8UP]

So in light of all of the complaining about the "quality" of Sosuave posts as of late....here's a classic for you.....[/sarcasm]

Most of you probably know of my history with the 22 yr old. Fukked her brains out a couple of years ago in my jacuzzi, in my shower, in my bed, in a hotel room....etc.

She "grows up" a bit, loses all of her "baby fat", and all of a sudden she is trying to run game on ME.

I was a bit on the ignorant side. I assumed that her attraction level was still high based primarily upon non face to face conversations (IM, telephone), but came to the realization that past attraction does not predicate future interest.

Anyway, this chick sort of dissed me, and I cut off contact for awhile.

I'm of the school of thought that unless a woman commits a cardinal sin (disrespects you in a blatant manner) that there is no reason to "burn bridges".

So....after a fairly long period of no contact with this chick, she contacts me via Myspace saying she lost my number and wants to chat. I respond to her giving her my number but scolding her for losing it in the first place.

20 minutes after I reply to her message she starts texting me asking when and IF I was ever going to come and visit her (she goes to school 3 hours away). Told her this isn't a convo for txt and that i had to get up early the next day so I would talk to her later.

She called this weekend. I was out and missed the call. Decided to give her a shout today and had an interesting tele convo with her tonight.

Lots of chit-chat, catching up and whatnot, then she works into the convo that she is coming into town in a couple of weeks to stay for her winter break and she wants to hang out. Okayyyyy.......

I hesitated when she asked if we were going to hang out when she comes to town, and she called me on it. I just blew it off.

But then she started talking about coming to town to spend the summer next year. Alright.....

Then she suggested "interning" for me at my business. Yea.....

The she dropped the bomb.

"And I was thinking, I can stay with you while I'm there!"

Whoaaaa Nelly!

Say whattttt?????

Yes, she actually proposed MOVING IN WITH ME over the summer in exchange for "helping me with my business'.

Now, this chick KNOWS that if we are in close proximity that I have the expectation that we will be intimate. I have made that perfectly clear.

The line between prostitute and "normal" woman is blurred....

So essentially, if I want a live-in fukk buddy for two months next year, all I have to do is say the word.

I am not stupid enough to think that there would be anything between us, in fact I don't ever WANT there to be anything between us. Would I fukk her again? Why not? But as far as a relationship goes, no way Jose.

What's the point of this post? Well, you can say she's "low quality" or label her however you wish, but at the end of the day I know her and I know who she is, and from what I can see she is nothing more than a fairly typical college girl.

What say you?

 

[STR8UP]

I wish I was you for two months

If it were only that simple.....

 

[window]

might be ok if you're not in your house together a lot of the time but if you're working together as well no way...how old is she. If she's over 25 now it sounds like she is looking for a hubby. Sounds like Mini Str8ups on the way....

 

[KarmaSutra]

I wish I was you for two months

Be very careful what you wish for.

99.999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999% of male species in the western world do not have the testicular fortitude to handle a day in Str8's loafers.

He lives hard, plays hard and works hard. Sometimes the three get a bit jumbled so this becomes his catharsis for us all.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Str8up,
Look you can still shag her without her moving in,and have the other 57 year old Sheilah as well....sure the temptation to use her as a girl Friday is tempting,but you leave yourself in a very vulnerable position,if anything goes wrong she could very easily take you for half your hard won assets,she knows you and what you have achieved,she has an agenda..Believe me don't do it.

 

[cedd]

Sex in exchange for some help ? like in the porn movies ? :crackup:

if she moves in, you maybe will have sex on a regular basis. OK. but is it a good thing for YOU after all you had told us here ?

do you really want a girl (you dont love I guess) in your place 24/7, even for 2 months?

dont be the tool here. she’ll affect your attitude. No orgasm in the world is worth that kind of poison in your life. I suggest you set a conscious limit on this for yourself, too. Sometimes the negative affects of pursuing a seduction outweigh the positive, even if you do get a little sex out of the deal.

cheers

 

[squirrels]

I am sure she would **** block the hell out of you and probably fall ''in love''

What he said.

No matter what the terms of the original agreement are, if a woman is living with you for a while and you are intimate, she will ASSUME her way into the girlfriend role.

I'm not saying you don't have the balls to handle her tests, but EXPECT after the first few months to be tested at EVERY turn. She WILL see exactly how much power she can take over the situation. If you become addicted to the easy 'tang you have at home, she WILL eventually cut it off in a power-play. Also expect her to start messing with your personal sh!t.

I've always been of the opinion that if a girl is living with you, she should either be 1) your wife/fiancee or 2) paying you rent...in CASH. None of this "sex for rent" crap. Don't mix business with pleasure.

 

[jophil28]

So in light of all of the complaining about the "quality" of Sosuave posts as of late....here's a classic for you.....[/sarcasm]

I am so looking forward to reading the imminent 10,000 word dissertation entitled , " The Myth of the Quality Post."

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

 

[MisterSinister]

Sounds like desperation on your part if you are seriously considering this. Just being honest.

 

[Colossus]

It sounds like a horrible idea, but you know this. You also know that "plans" with college girls last about as long as a fart in the wind.

 

[STR8UP]

That was actually pretty funny Jophil. I'm glad you caught that my "end sarcasm" joke....

That said, although this IS a serious post that (I think) might spark a good discussion, I hope the tone of my words is not missed. Other posters have expressed concerns as of late that younger posters might get the wrong idea from posts like this, and I don't want that to happen

Anyway, this just goes to show how women are willing to use their vaginas as currency.

If I said that this isn't at least a little tempting I would be lying. Play house for two months then bye bye? With a good looking 22 yr old? Hell, it might be an interesting social experiment if nothing else.

That said, the more important thing here is realize what is going on.

She (only half joking, it's always only HALF joking) says to let her know if I want to take her up on the offer, cause if not she might find someone else who will.

Now if this isn't essentially legal prostitution, I DON'T KNOW WHAT IS.

See what's going on here?

 

[STR8UP]

Just reading back on the replies and there is lots of solid advice. Not that I am LOOKING for advice, I know it's not a good idea, I know college chicks are flaky and that plans made today mean little tomorrow, I know she would likely "ration" the sex to try to get more of what she wants.

I've been around the block long enough to see exactly what is happening. And that is the point of this post. Ten years ago I wouldn't have been able to recognize the dynamics at play. Now it's like I have a crystal ball into why she would suggest this sort of thing and how she would likely behave if I were to take her up on the offer.

 

[Jitterbug]

1. Buy a video camera.
2. Set up STR8UPsCondo.com
3. ....
4. Profits.

 

[jophil28]

Anyway, this just goes to show how women are willing to use their vaginas as currency.

Yep and guess what ? That little unattractive gizmo which often looks like roadkill is recession proof, is never suspended from trading on the NYSE and is in huge global demand with a zero advertising budget.

IF I owned the trademark, patent and rights to such a "product" I would be king of the world.
NO wonder women act like they do toward men..

 

[STR8UP]

Yep and guess what ? That little unattractive gizmo which often looks like roadkill is recession proof, is never suspended from trading on the NYSE and is in huge global demand with a zero advertising budget.

IF I owned the trademark, patent and rights to such a "product" I would be king of the world.
NO wonder women act like they do toward men..

At least most men on this site have one thing in common. We have the ability to recognize that women DO hold a certain amount of power with their hoo-ha's, but at the same time we recognize when a woman is trying to USE that power in a malicious manner and can easily out maneuver them.

And that's exactly what this is. I have known (or rather strongly suspected) for awhile now that since she is now officially a "hot piece of ass" that she has started to use that to her advantage in a blatant and unforgiving manner.

She was telling me a story about how she ended up in a club last weekend in the VIP partying with basketball players and porn stars. Chick works 15 hours a week for minimum wage.....who is paying the bill?

Now I am NOT opposed to an exchange of goods or services for a piece of ass. It's another one of those things that there are a few prostitutes who directly exchange money for sex, then there are a few women who are on the opposite end of the spectrum who do not trade their pu$$y for anything (usually the most unattractive ones), and then there is the other 90% of the population that fall somewhere in the middle. Essentially, you will "pay to play" in some form or another most of the time.

I'm just calling this for what it is, and to be honest if the situation were different I might consider a similar arrangement. As long as both parties benefit, who is to judge? I just know that one way or the other I would get the short end of the stick with this one.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Anyway, this just goes to show how women are willing to use their vaginas as currency.

Sounds to me like she is using the implied promise of her vagina for currency.

 

[gmonster2]

Personally I would tap that 22 yr old but before she moves in and you give her a job I would take her up on the offer to go and visit her and see if you can close the deal

i.e. make sure its what you think it is , women will use the p@ssy power to con you if you let them.

Good luck.

 

[ketostix]

Sounds to me like she is using the implied promise of her vagina for currency.

Personally I would tap that 22 yr old but before she moves in and you give her a job I would take her up on the offer to go and visit her and see if you can close the deal

i.e. make sure its what you think it is , women will use the p@ssy power to con you if you let them.

Good luck.

I agree with these two posts. The same rules of not entering a relationship before sex applies to this situation as well. I don't doubt she's willing to work her vagina for free rent and an easy job if need be, but she'd also probably want the freebies without working the vagina for them. It's a little suspicious she came up with that proposition before putting some intimacy on the table first.

 

[Knight's Cross]

She's 22, she's using the "tools" that she has available. I'd keep her off to the bench, and use her as a toy if I saw that it wasn't going to cost me any drama. Definitely not to be used as a roommate, or brought too close to my own circle of friends/work/ etc.

KC

 

[jophil28]

Sounds to me like she is using the implied promise of her vagina for currency.

That is even worse.
Implying that goods or a service will be supplied or available in return for some kind of consideration is step one in the SOP of the con artist. Of course there is never any intention to deliver or supply.