JST8828
Don Juan
It was a pattern of only a few days, first of all. Its not like this chick was reaching out to me everyday for 2-3 weeks and I never reached out to her or never asked her out. I barely had the chance to "lead more" in this short timeframe. The first text was Saturday morning when she asked if I got home alright and she told me she was out and about doing an activity with her friend. I responded that I made it home fine, told her what I was up to, and then mentioned how I had a very nice time with her. I figured ok, that was nice, probably not much of a need for anything else on that day. Then she texts me at 10:30pm shortly after I fell asleep. I responded the next morning(Sunday) and we chatted for a minute. Then she texts me Sunday night. Monday came and I had planned to text her that day, but as early as 12pm she's texting me from work telling me about her lunch. Then Tuesday was next up and she reaches out that evening sharing something she was up to. Again, all my responses were cordial, proper, and some even flirty.I am curious how this pattern developed wherein SHE was doing all the initiating and YOU were responding? And why you weren't leading more? If at all?
Wednesday is finally when I beat her to the punch, so to speak, and at 12pm asked her out for drinks after work. She had to work late and couldn't make it, but thanked me for the invite, before sharing photos of what she was working on at work. There was no counter offer and no hint of when she might be free, even after I wrote in response to her not being able to go, to let me know when she has some free time as I'd like to get together again. That was it. Things were never the same after that. Didn't hear from her at all for days and finally Monday I reached out which led to the events that we are at now which I will not rewrite.